Sexual Stereotypes

[EroticApology]

Have you ever seek to have sex with a certain race or culture because of the sexual stereotype associated with certain people? After you experienced that individual, was the stereotype true or false.

Ex. a common stereotype (myth) is black men have a large penis?

 

[desertslave]

Not me. I like people....usually my initial turn-ons are eyes and sense of humor.

 

[NippleMuncher]

The first time I was with a black man . . . Oh wait, that is pmann's story .


I asked a similar question a while back about seeing "color" in a lover. Mostly women replied, and most said that it was the individual that interested them, not the color of their skin.

So, in answer to your question, while I have never ventured outside of my own sandbox, I am attracted to people who whom attract me, regardless of ethnic flavor. I have found the rainbow of colors to have individuals to my liking.

In all honesty, you can easily take race out of the question and just examine socio-economic or class status. I think you'll agree, you do not see those who are "beneath" you attractive.

 

[EroticApology]

The first time I was with a black man . . . Oh wait, that is pmann's story .


I asked a similar question a while back about seeing "color" in a lover. Mostly women replied, and most said that it was the individual that interested them, not the color of their skin.

So, in answer to your question, while I have never ventured outside of my own sandbox, I am attracted to people who whom attract me, regardless of ethnic flavor. I have found the rainbow of colors to have individuals to my liking.

In all honesty, you can easily take race out of the question and just examine socio-economic or class status. I think you'll agree, you do not see those who are "beneath" you attractive.

I'm attracted to a person's intellect. The mind is what sucks me in. So it doesn't matter what a person has for me to be attracted.

 

[Lord Pmann]

The first time I was with a black man . . . Oh wait, that is pmann's story .

Well, nothing happened. He saw the size of my cock and was embarrassed at his, so we didn't go through with it.

I think scientifically speaking, black guys do have bigger penises, on average. But that's not to say that such is always the case. I'm sure many black guys have normal, 12" cocks like mine.

I know one stereotypes that guys think of is Asian girls are stereotypically submissive. I think that, across the culture, you may find this to be true. But as I said, I don't always think that you can go out and just find an Asian girl and hope her to be submissive. Everyone within a race is an individual and you'll find yourself in trouble if you think otherwise.

Interesting question though.

And kiss my ass Nipplemuncher.

 

[Christopher2012]

I've studied a considerable amount of races over my life and have discovered a new stereotype.

Women who are white, black, Asian, Hispanic, or Middle Eastern do not want to have sex with me....

 

[ratherabsurd1]

Way to many stereotypes and misconceptions .. I love to get to know who a person is inside , that is most of the fun for me at least

 

[Edensgarden]

The first time I was with a black man . . . Oh wait, that is pmann's story .


I asked a similar question a while back about seeing "color" in a lover. Mostly women replied, and most said that it was the individual that interested them, not the color of their skin.

So, in answer to your question, while I have never ventured outside of my own sandbox, I am attracted to people who whom attract me, regardless of ethnic flavor. I have found the rainbow of colors to have individuals to my liking.

In all honesty, you can easily take race out of the question and just examine socio-economic or class status. I think you'll agree, you do not see those who are "beneath" you attractive.

I find that statement unattractive.

 

[biomass9120]

Oh God my sides!

I think scientifically speaking, black guys do have bigger penises, on average. But that's not to say that such is always the case. I'm sure many black guys have normal, 12" cocks like mine.

*Pfffffftssshhhsssffff*

 

[ohjanesays]

I know one stereotypes that guys think of is Asian girls are stereotypically submissive. I think that, across the culture, you may find this to be true. But as I said, I don't always think that you can go out and just find an Asian girl and hope her to be submissive. Everyone within a race is an individual and you'll find yourself in trouble if you think otherwise.

Interesting question though.

And kiss my ass Nipplemuncher.

Wow, really? I didn't think you thought that. I would say of all the Asian friends I have, none of them are submissive, at all. It may or may not be true of the older generation because of cultural reasons, but definitely those of my age are not even close to being submissive. I hate this stereotype the most, as well as the flipside of it being a "Dragon Lady." To me, both stereotypes are pretty insulting, just as I'm sure any stereotype for any other color is insulting.

I've studied a considerable amount of races over my life and have discovered a new stereotype.

Women who are white, black, Asian, Hispanic, or Middle Eastern do not want to have sex with me....

What about the other night? I fall under one of those categories.


And to address the original poster, since my boyfriend is "Latin", everyone always asks me if he's smoldering or like a Latin lover and I just roll my eyes. Do they expect him to be like Enrique Iglesias? I really don't know. He's just him and I really think whatever the color of your skin is has no bearing on who you are. I was never attracted to him for being "Latin" but more because he has a disregard for the differences in color.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Wow, really? I didn't think you thought that. I would say of all the Asian friends I have, none of them are submissive, at all. It may or may not be true of the older generation because of cultural reasons, but definitely those of my age are not even close to being submissive. I hate this stereotype the most, as well as the flipside of it being a "Dragon Lady." To me, both stereotypes are pretty insulting, just as I'm sure any stereotype for any other color is insulting.

It was supposed to read:

I think that, across the culture, you may NOT find this to be true.

Thus the next sentence about how you can't just assume that Asians are submissive. At least in America. Perhaps in other countries, that is the case.

 

[EroticApology]

Well, nothing happened. He saw the size of my cock and was embarrassed at his, so we didn't go through with it.

I think scientifically speaking, black guys do have bigger penises, on average. But that's not to say that such is always the case. I'm sure many black guys have normal, 12" cocks like mine.

I know one stereotypes that guys think of is Asian girls are stereotypically submissive. I think that, across the culture, you may find this to be true. But as I said, I don't always think that you can go out and just find an Asian girl and hope her to be submissive. Everyone within a race is an individual and you'll find yourself in trouble if you think otherwise.

Interesting question though.

And kiss my ass Nipplemuncher.

Your penis is 12"...I think that's longer than my torso.

Maybe you have experienced Asian women to know for a fact that this stereotype isn't true. But in certain cases don't you find sex would be certain way based on cultured beliefs? Especially when religion is what helps to define ones culture.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Your penis is 12"...I think that's longer than my torso.

Maybe you have experienced Asian women to know for a fact that this stereotype isn't true. But in certain cases don't you find sex would be certain way based on cultured beliefs? Especially when religion is what helps to define ones culture.

I haven't experienced anything Asian. I think that it is possible that stereotypes about these things stem from truths, maybe at a point and time in history. However, given the integrated culture of America, I think that you're going to be stretching to apply these stereotypes. My point in my original statement was that I think if one went and picked out an Asian girl with hopes of getting a submissive girl, one may well be disappointed. I think that stereotypes often far outlive the truths that may have birthed them.

 

[EroticApology]

I haven't experienced anything Asian. I think that it is possible that stereotypes about these things stem from truths, maybe at a point and time in history. However, given the integrated culture of America, I think that you're going to be stretching to apply these stereotypes. My point in my original statement was that I think if one went and picked out an Asian girl with hopes of getting a submissive girl, one may well be disappointed. I think that stereotypes often far outlive the truths that may have birthed them.

I agree with you 100%.

 

[Emerson40]

I have been with partners of a different race, or perhaps more suitably, different cultures, and have found that for the most part, stereotypes are false. Or they at least do not apply to the majority of people.

What is interesting though, is that occasionally you do come across somebody that makes you go "Woah! I see where that stereotype came from now" because they exemplify the stereotype.

As someone pointed out earlier in the thread, people are people. They come in all shapes, sizes, and flavors. They are as varied within their race and cultures as they are without.

 

[EroticApology]

Is sex different with certain cultures?

 

[blksoldier]

smile

Have you ever seek to have sex with a certain race or culture because of the sexual stereotype associated with certain people? After you experienced that individual, was the stereotype true or false.

Ex. a common stereotype (myth) is black men have a large penis?

You mean we don't?

 

[blksoldier]

interesting thread

Is sex different with certain cultures?

gentlemen don't have to bragg. I just found the tread very interesting?

 

[Edensgarden]

You mean we don't?

A blksoldier? I bet you're always standing at attention.

 

[blulilacgrl]

A blksoldier? I bet you're always standing at attention.

Nah...he's "at ease" with himself. hee hee

 

[EroticApology]

You mean we don't?

Blksoldier, Not all black men have a large penis. And some that do have a large one don't know how to use it...what a waste.

 

[Edensgarden]

Nah...he's "at ease" with himself. hee hee

I wonder if he's ever had his bugle blown?

 

[Edensgarden]

Blksoldier, Not all black men have a large penis. And some that do have a large one don't know how to use it...what a waste.

You seem to be talking from experience...

 

[blulilacgrl]

I wonder if he's ever had his bugle blown?

LMAO

think he salutes when it is...*ahem*... blown that is.

 

[EroticApology]

You seem to be talking from experience...

haha...I am.