Sexual Secrets

[TN_Vixen]

y'know what I mean, the fantasies that you keep bottled up for fear that your loved one will be apalled, or at best, shocked at your tendency to find *that* act arousing?

Do you keep your sexual fantasies (the ones you masturbate to) hidden from your significant other, or do you reveal all in the hopes that your freakishness won't turn him off?

 

[mike_mike02128]

I share my fantasies with her, if she likes the idea- Great. If not, no harm in trying. I find that you'll be more often pleased than dissapointed.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Do you keep your sexual fantasies (the ones you masturbate to) hidden from your significant other, or do you reveal all in the hopes that your freakishness won't turn him off?

At the start we kept some of our fantasies from one another but lately we have been sharing and talking about our fantasies and when we are going to act upon them.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Re: Re: Sexual Secrets

At the start we kept some of our fantasies from one another but lately we have been sharing and talking about our fantasies and when we are going to act upon them.

good answer. I think there are a lot of things I think about and fantasize about that I'm way too shy to admit just yet. Maybe it just takes time?

 

[Sillyman]

I've only been able to fully trust one person with the full extent of my fantasies.

 

[mike_mike02128]

It helps that you're with the person for awhile. You feel more comfortable with that person and can be more open.

 

[peachykeen]

little by little I draw my poor unsuspecting husband over to the darkside....

 

[CoolidgEffect]

y'know what I mean, the fantasies that you keep bottled up for fear that your loved one will be apalled, or at best, shocked at your tendency to find *that* act arousing?

Do you keep your sexual fantasies (the ones you masturbate to) hidden from your significant other, or do you reveal all in the hopes that your freakishness won't turn him off?

I keep my sexual secrets all bottled up. You need to keep big, heavy dark things on top to keep your feelings in that bottle.

 

[#1tankcomander]

We share EVERYTHING.....Well not under ware......

 

[bknight2602]

I keep everything a secret, private moments for me. My wife has not been into sex for a long time and she doesn't want to know.

 

[floridaguy64]

I keep everything a secret, private moments for me. My wife has not been into sex for a long time and she doesn't want to know.

I hear you brother! Thank God for seperate rooms!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Re: Re: Re: Sexual Secrets

good answer. I think there are a lot of things I think about and fantasize about that I'm way too shy to admit just yet. Maybe it just takes time?

TN_Vixen,


It does take some time , at first I was extremely shy with him... but as time went on we simply began to talk about our fantasies and what we will liked or what we would like to try ...

I am still shy with him when it comes to certain things, not shy in a bad way or anything like that ... its just a shyness he makes me feel when he gives me a certain look or asks me a certain question. I can not help but blush and feel all shy.

 

[SouthernMale]

little by little I draw my poor unsuspecting husband over to the darkside....

MMMMMMM wish someone would draw me to the dark side. Lately my fantasy is to have sex lol.

 

[Shelby Lynn]

My hubby knows all about my fantasy wishes. He was as vanilla as they cum when we met. I have been corrupting him, but it is going much slower than I anticipated.

My current fantasy is to have him initiate a spanking without having to ask for one....

 

[truegentleman]

It takes a lot of trust in someone to completely open yourself up to them. To open that dark box that contain your darkest most erotic thoughts and fantisies. However, when you do find someone you trust with everything about you, it can be very rewarding.

I remember this one girlfriend I had who talked me into letting her tie me to the bed. She used silk scarves and had the room lit with candles. It was kind of strange to give up total control to someone else, but after a while it was totally awesome!!!


I am still looking for that same trust in another woman.

 

[Shelby Lynn]

MMMMMMM wish someone would draw me to the dark side. Lately my fantasy is to have sex lol.

awwww, cum on over - anytime....

 

[midnightwalker]

So far, I've kept mine a secret. Someday, I will be able to tell him. Then the fun will begin!

 

[ApplesMcgee]

all open

I'm pretty sure I've told my gf everything. Sometimes I feel a bit freakish. I like to try a few things just to be different, or jsut try them.

I know she keep sstuff bottled up from me and I think she is still scared to try new things. but I don't worry about it.

PowrDragn

 

[nasty1]

I think ya know the answer to this 1.

 

[BlackSnake]

I share my fantasies with the person that I'm with, because they usually come on the fly, unless of course, it is inappropriate to do at the time. Deep bends without bending the knees...gets me thinking everytime.

 

[KillerMuffin]

He knows alllllllll about you, sugartits.

Don't worry.

 

[Starfish]

I've tried to be open, but I get made fun of, or he turns it into a joke if it doesn't suit him.

 

[scylis]

I've tried to be open, but I get made fun of, or he turns it into a joke if it doesn't suit him.

here, babe.

*hands Fishie the Chair Leg of Truth*

use this. it might help.

 

[Rambling Rose]

I haven't had a lover yet who knows all my secret desires. I've tested the waters with some darker things but never opened up completely. I have managed to put a few off and turn a few on. I will wait and hope for the person to come into my life that there are no barriers with, but I have a lifetime of little walls erected.

And that's okay.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Much like most of my thoughts, my deep sexual desires are hidden within. If and only if I find someone who I think would be worthy of them will I share.