Sexual partners...

How many partners have you had (intercourse)?

  • 1 -5

    Votes: 218 35.9%
  • 6 - 10

    Votes: 102 16.8%
  • 11 - 15

    Votes: 66 10.9%
  • 16 - 20

    Votes: 51 8.4%
  • 21 - 25

    Votes: 30 4.9%
  • 26 - 30

    Votes: 28 4.6%
  • 31 - 35

    Votes: 21 3.5%
  • 36 - 40

    Votes: 14 2.3%
  • 41 - 49

    Votes: 11 1.8%
  • Over 50

    Votes: 66 10.9%

  • Total voters
    607

artistgonewyld

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VOTE PEOPLE VOTE. FAR TOO FEW ARE VOTING. ANONYMITY IS GUARENTEED... VOTE.

I've had a few people PM me and say they didn't know how many--that's okay--take a good guess and go with it.

I had a debate with a friend. The jist is this: It seems that most of the people both of us know have been with around 50 sexual partners or more. I told him that it was likely due to the lives we've led and where we are from, but he said that people were as sexually active everywhere, give or take. I think I might agree with him because of all the hundreds of conversations I've been involved with that revolved around this topic.

Recently I posted a thread where I asked people to tall how many partners they'd been with but someone told me that even here, anonymity is prudent. Hence I've redone this with a poll instead of directly asking..

I am very curious if we are right. I think most people lie about it: they say 10 partners when they've actually had 100 because society tells them 100 is bad and 10 is okay. I think people need to be who they need to be and do what makes them who they are and want to be..

Anyway, please post in the poll the general ammount of sexual (intercourse) partners you've had in your life.
 
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I see one other category you may have added in the pole.... that of virgins. I have chatted to a lot of people on Lit and have been surprised how many are virgins. Most through choice.... could it be showing a change in the way society is viewing sex now. More conscious about health risks, wanting to find that special person for you or just too busy with everyday lives.

I think its good when people don't feel under pressure to conform to society or what their peer group deems the way to go. I've lived my life the way I wanted and have received some abusive comments before from friends and family for it. Still I would not change any of those experiences as they have made me who I am.

Thankyou for raising the topic and hope it triggers some deep thought in individuals and for group discussion.

slave :kiss:
 
How about none at all. Yes I am a virgin. So I guess I can't answer this poll. :lol:

Why a virgin? Well mostly because the time wasn't right on any and I have been too busy looking after myself and others then to be in a relationship sexually and now that I have time and want to I can't find anyone. Ah well such is life. :lol:
 
Canadian_BBW said:
How about none at all. Yes I am a virgin. So I guess I can't answer this poll. :lol:

Why a virgin? Well mostly because the time wasn't right on any and I have been too busy looking after myself and others then to be in a relationship sexually and now that I have time and want to I can't find anyone. Ah well such is life. :lol:


Although it may be a good thing, it is also a very rare thing.
 
a friend of mine...hes slept with over two hundred and fifty women...hes a player but i love him
 
artistgonewyld said:
I am very curious if we are right. I think most people lie about it: they say 10 partners when they've actually had 100 because society tells them 100 is bad and 10 is okay. I think people need to be who they need to be and do what makes them who they are and want to be..

You're absolutely correct ... but again society tells us not to cause then we are still judged by people who don't think the same way we do ... this will never change.

I say fuck em if they cant take a joke ... I told the truth in your poll, but I wont tell you what I clicked ~wink~

Great topic btw
 
i've had the pleasure of being with 9 women, only one was a one night stand...just not my style. havea friend who would fuck anything he could but...i just don t get it :rose:
 
Just two...
My ex (big big giant huge mistake in the first place) and Mr Britwitch :)
And that's how I plan on it staying :D

(Although if I could go back in time, I'd have waited and only had one :eek: )
 
I have only had three.

G/F in high school....
My first wife...(wish I could take that one back....*shivers*)
And my wife now.

Thats it. Not very exciting. ;)
 
MsTexas said:
You're absolutely correct ... but again society tells us not to care then we are still judged by people who don't think the same way we do ... this will never change.

I say fuck em if they cant take a joke ... I told the truth in your poll, but I wont tell you what I clicked ~wink~

Great topic btw

I totally agree, fuck 'em. Please PM me and let's tell some stories.. I bet we could share some good ones.
 
desired_tempest said:
a friend of mine...hes slept with over two hundred and fifty women...hes a player but i love him


I know several girls that've been with 250 and more. I know two girls in Louisiana that have been with probably 500 or more. Seriously. They are great girls, truly, and they like to fuck.

One of them, a good friend of mine, has told me countless times how she likes to go to a club and get two or three guys in a night to fuck her periodically. She loves it.

I knew a girl in college that had a gang bang with 40 guys in one night at a party.

I think people love to mislead other people because it's just easier that way to get along in certain parts of society, but there are a lot of people out there, maybe most people, who simply love to have sex in different and wild ways despite what society says is okay.
 
Almost 500 people have clicked on this thread but less than 100 have voted.

I need people to vote so I can compile the data. LOL. Seriously, this is important info people, keep voting, but be honest.
 
I voted. I was over ten, but fewer than 20.

The vast majority of those were low-quality experiences, to be honest.
 
Two

College GF and Wife.

Wish it was just my wife, but no way I could have convinced that horney teenager (me not the GF) not to do it.
 
Hocky9377 said:
I have only had three.

G/F in high school....
My first wife...(wish I could take that one back....*shivers*)
And my wife now.

Thats it. Not very exciting. ;)

Hey... I'm about the same as you...

I've only been with one man (my husband).... but I've also been with 2 women ;)
 
umchick5 said:
Hey... I'm about the same as you...

I've only been with one man (my husband).... but I've also been with 2 women ;)
LOL...

Yeah, but Im one woman up on ya. ;)

But then again....the first wife shouldnt really count. If there was a mulligan given to everyone in life, she would definately be mine. :D
 
monique1971 said:
I voted. I was over ten, but fewer than 20.

The vast majority of those were low-quality experiences, to be honest.


That is a shame. I think you deserve more.
 
artistgonewyld said:
That is a shame. I think you deserve more.

I'd agree. But sometimes you think someone is going to be good, and then it turns out, you're wrong. Live and learn!
 
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