Sexual orientation?

Littlefinger

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So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.

You were raised Catholic?
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.

It means you are a pansexual, a celibate pansexual.
 
A giant wanker.

Are you able to jerk it with both hands? If so, you're Ambidexual.
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.

I have diagnosed you as a sexual being that is attracted to almost everything.

Please do not start humping the furniture.

How old are you? Just wondering if maybe you're fairly young and just beginning your sexual discovery journey,
 
It means you are a pansexual, a celibate pansexual.

Ah, okay. Celibate, THAT'S my sexuality!

I have diagnosed you as a sexual being that is attracted to almost everything.

Please do not start humping the furniture.

How old are you? Just wondering if maybe you're fairly young and just beginning your sexual discovery journey,

I'm 27 and I've been in a ton of relationships and with lots of people. Neither the sex nor the romance do anything for me.
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.
I assume you masturbate to orgasm, yes? Do you fantasize during masturbation, and if so, what about? How many people (and what types - women, men, etc.) have you had sex with?
 
Drag-racing is a turn on for me.

No wig is required, but a huge... engine is an certainly advantage :)
 
You are Asexual. Asexual people can enjoy quality time with themselves, some fantasize about other people..don't experience attraction to other people.

Probably some good answers for you here:

http://www.asexuality.org/home/
 
The GB is a rather poor substitution for psychotherapy.

Why do you think I need psychotherapy? Why can't I just enjoy platonic friendships and not enjoy sexual intercourse with another person? This ain't the '90's anymore. Other sexualities and choices are acceptable without being veiwed as "unnatural" or "mentally defective".
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.

My guess would be fat loser.
 
So, I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is and I was wondering if you guys could help me out. I'm attracted to men, women, transgendered folks, drag queens. See, I can get horny and aroused and I love masturbation but I dislike sexual intercourse with other people. So, does that qualify as asexual? Because I'm not much for romantic relationships either.

No, I don't think so; an asexual would not even get aroused.
 
Why do you think I need psychotherapy? Why can't I just enjoy platonic friendships and not enjoy sexual intercourse with another person? This ain't the '90's anymore. Other sexualities and choices are acceptable without being veiwed as "unnatural" or "mentally defective".


My advice, spend more time just being whatever you are/want to be, less time on what other people may think of you.
 
Why do you think I need psychotherapy? Why can't I just enjoy platonic friendships and not enjoy sexual intercourse with another person? This ain't the '90's anymore. Other sexualities and choices are acceptable without being veiwed as "unnatural" or "mentally defective".

You can enjoy whatever you enjoy, that's not the issue. You asked for advice, and that is.

But please, by all means, explain to me, a gay man who has been out since the 1970s, about the acceptability of sexual diversity.
 
Okay, sure, pal. Why do I need psychotherapy, then?

"I'm trying to figure out what my sexuality is"

Perhaps you have an outdated conception of psychotherapy. That's exactly the sort of issue it deals with.
 
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