Sexual Numbers Questions...

[Visfun]

GUYS:

What is it with guys wanting to know a girls sexual number? Does it really determine how you look at the girl, and do you think she tells you the truth?

Ladies :

Do you care how many girls a guy has been with, and does it determine how you look at the guy?
Also do you tell him the truth when he ask?


To me it does not make a difference how many girls he has had, and I do tell the truth, almost....I leave out Spring Break, what happend at 4 spring breaks stays there...

 

[tonethebone]

I'm guilty of asking my wife how many. Just curious I guess. Some guys probably would want the lady to only have a couple of experiences. Others might get off on her saying she was with 25 guys.

For me, it wasn't the number (4), it was getting her to tell me a little about each one.

 

[JamieB]

I ask

It helps me to know, cause I can meet her needs better. If she's a virgin, that's a very specific-needs situation. Likewise, if she's been with one guy for a long time, you know she probably is used to it one or two specific ways.

If she's been with three or four or five guys, all of them hopefully for a few months at least, that's ideal. I also ask like to know how often she masturbates and how, cause that's telling.

More than about twenty or so, and I start to feel like a log in a woodpile.

J

 

[curiouskinkwife]

Geez, I think this question gets too many people in trouble. I was with a guy who was horrified by the thought that I had been with about 5 guys. No way was I going to confess 3 times that number (at that time). Later the SOB gets my diary and figures out the number is higher. He wasn't bothered by the fact that I let him believe the number was lower (he never actually asked so I never actually lied). But the idea that I had been with 15 guys suddenly changed me into a whore in his eyes, and he began to treat me accordingly. He was definately better off not knowing, but then....I am better off without that asshat.

Edited to add that Hubby knows all and has never held it against me. As a matter of fact, during a Dom moment, he demanded that I name each guy on command while I was on my knees servicing him. I would bob for a few, and then he would pull me up by my hair to name a name in sequential order. He was very turned on by it, as was I. I guess it depends on the person.

 

[bubbliebabs]

I tell the truth and it isn't many compared to others and compared to rumors that fly through schools back in the day...lol...I do care who he's been with though, not the how many. I see it as I sleep with them as well so if it is someone who gets around and has a rep or has had some STD or something, I want to know!

 

[koalabear]

A guy doesn't want the gal any one can have....he wants the one no one can.

 

[happysam4321]

rule of three

Can not remember where i heard this but whatever number a girl says, it is actually three times that and what ever number a man says, divide it by three!!!!

As for me, i was told by my girlfriend how many she had slept with and she wanted to know how many i had. It made no difference to me either way, the older i get the less bothered by details like that I am.