Sexual Dislikes

[Gilly Bean]

Ok, aside from the normal, anti-same sex, anti-oppisite sex, etc, what is your most prominate sexual dislike. One that would normally be a fetish, I guess. Mine is an unnatural dislike for sperm. I hate sperm. I can't stand it dribbling down my legs, I don't like to feel pre-cum rubbing against my back when my hubby is hard. I don't like having to see, or feel the 'wet spot'. I absolutly hate it.


So, what's yours?

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Well besides wetsports/scat I don't know of any mainstream fetishes that would turn me completely off or that I couldn't deal with. I don't want someone causing me pain, but I could give a spanking, etc. if they wanted it.

As I mentioned elsewhere, crying as if in distress, etc. would be a real turn off. But that is not normally experienced during sex I would think.

There are so many kinks that I am sure someone will come up with something I don't like that I hadn't even thought of, but the mainstream stuff I am probably okay with. Certain "extreme" BDSM stuff I am sure would turn me off as I don't like to see people disfigured, not even whip lash welts.

 

[cymbidia]

whip lash welts.

OTOH, i love welts. They make me shiver and remember and feel and want and need and moan, all over again.


Ahem. This is about what we *don't* like, right? Sorry.


Okay, i absolutely detest dirty bodies, teeth, breath, etc. I cannot play happily with anyone who is dirty. The whole touching/sharing/kissing thing is disgusting to me and my body cannot relax next to an unclean body. It goes beyond a normal dislike for an unclean playmate in my case, too, and i know it. ~shrug~ And i don't care.

No dirty bodies.
Seriously.

 

[MissTaken]

Well, I hate, absolutely abhor , wet, sloppy kisses! You can do everything else perfectly, one wet sloppy kiss would deflate me.

Oh. And I don't mind dirty talk, but don't call me names. While that does turn on some women and men, if the name is derrogatory or demeaning, it will instantaneously quell my arousal.

 

[TinaG13]

Ok, aside from the normal, anti-same sex, anti-oppisite sex, etc, what is your most prominate sexual dislike. One that would normally be a fetish, I guess. Mine is an unnatural dislike for sperm. I hate sperm. I can't stand it dribbling down my legs, I don't like to feel pre-cum rubbing against my back when my hubby is hard. I don't like having to see, or feel the 'wet spot'. I absolutly hate it.


So, what's yours?

Not getting any!

 

[nasty]

I can't think of a single thing that turns me off. I'm game for anything, at least once. Although, the thought of beastiality, is questionable. I LOVE HUMANS!!!!!!!!!!!! Actually, come to think of it, blood is a turn off. I LOVE pain, if it's what she wants, but to that point, NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Mellon Collie]

It would probably be scat and bleeding. Blood is just creepy.

 

[Trinka]

what about

a wet squishy tongue right in your ear hole?

Ooooh, nothing like that as a mood breaker for me I love nibbling and sucking all over my ears and neck, but when the tongue goes crazy and tries to dig deeper than it should ~shakes~ yuck!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Although, the thought of beastiality, is questionable.

Okay - I knew someone would come up with something I disliked - and that qualifies.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: what about

a wet squishy tongue right in your ear hole?

Ooooh, nothing like that as a mood breaker for me I love nibbling and sucking all over my ears and neck, but when the tongue goes crazy and tries to dig deeper than it should ~shakes~ yuck!

Deeper than it should?

Too bad - I like lots of tongue action on my ears, and I like to give it too. I don't know why some people tend to dislike this; it is a recognized erogenous zone, and most people like nibbling and kissing. Most people like oral sex. Most people like tongues when kissing. What's the deal with ears? Is this any more nasty than someone sticking their tongue in their pussy, etc.? Is it the feel?

 

[nasty]

Okay - I knew someone would come up with something I disliked - and that qualifies.

Figures that I'd be the one to bring it up.

 

[lobito]

Re: what about

a wet squishy tongue right in your ear hole?

Ooooh, nothing like that as a mood breaker for me I love nibbling and sucking all over my ears and neck, but when the tongue goes crazy and tries to dig deeper than it should ~shakes~ yuck!

so I take it an ear cleaning via the tongue is out of the question, not that I'm offering.

The things I don't need to have sexually, are blood and scat. Just like some others, but not all, here.

 

[lilminx]

Re: Re: what about

Deeper than it should?

Too bad - I like lots of tongue action on my ears, and I like to give it too. I don't know why some people tend to dislike this; it is a recognized erogenous zone, and most people like nibbling and kissing. Most people like oral sex. Most people like tongues when kissing. What's the deal with ears? Is this any more nasty than someone sticking their tongue in their pussy, etc.? Is it the feel?

There's nothing wrong with it, IMO. A sa matter of fact, it can feel really good. However, I can't stand it when someone is doing that and they're breathing really heavy and it's too wet- it's not erotic at all

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

OTOH, i love welts. They make me shiver and remember and feel and want and need and moan, all over again.

Hey - I've got some pretty good scars on my one foot that cost me $7k, and a lot of pain. They do nothing for me sexually. To each their own I guess.

Okay, i absolutely detest dirty bodies, teeth, breath, etc. I cannot play happily with anyone who is dirty.

I have never heard of anyone who had a fetish for dirty unkempt, etc. bodies, but I would agree, that this would be a turn off - I think it is naturally for most people.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Re: Re: what about

There's nothing wrong with it, IMO. A sa matter of fact, it can feel really good. However, I can't stand it when someone is doing that and they're breathing really heavy and it's too wet- it's not erotic at all

Well, improper technique can be a turn off in just about anything, but the act itself? No, I like it. Of course, I thought the scene where that woman stuck her tongue into Leslie Nielson's ear and it came out the other ear was HOT!

 

[april-wine]

When Rover shows up panting, colour me gone.............

 

[nasty]

It's funny you should mention that

A few years ago, I was watching "Hollywood Squares,"(don't laugh, I cease to watch it, now,)and they had a ? for Whoopi. It said, "Do most woman prefer their man clean, or unclean?" The answer? You guessed it. Unclean. The reason being, woman like the "natural" smell of their men.

 

[pabloback]

obscenely overweight people.
they can look great with their clothes on but clothes off and i cannot rise to the occasion, or if i am aroused , i wilt quicker than a dandelion in a hurricane

 

[Gilly Bean]

Wow, lots of different things I don't like that I had not even thought of!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I just thought of another thing that is a popular fetish with some people; fisting - I would totally "dislike" that being done to me. I am sure I don't want anything too much larger than a finger up my ass.

You know what made me think of this? Outsider's current "Footing" Av.

 

[nasty]

I don't even think you can put a fist in someone. Can't be possible. Can it?*Looking around thread Dazed and Confused*

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

I don't even think you can put a fist in someone. Can't be possible. Can it?*Looking around thread Dazed and Confused*

Oh yeah - it is done. *shudder*

 

[SimplySouthern]

Besides the obvious things that people have posted (watersports, beastiality, etc.) I have to add my own personal dilslikes. Nothing major enough to make me stop right in the middle of a wild romp, but certainly enough to make sure it would be my last romp with that particular person.

Quietness. I can't stand silent sex. I'm a talker, a joker...I must have interaction!

 

[SoftPeaches]

I love to try new things, but there are some things this girl won't even think about........the bestiality thing is just wrong, the fisting thing is both confusing and gross, and while I like to be spanked a bit and tied up, the blood and bruising part of BDSM just isn't for me.

 

[nasty]

Originally posted by SimplySouthern Quietness. I can't stand silent sex. I'm a talker, a joker...I must have interaction! [/B]

You wouldn't mind moving to NY, would you? "OH!!!!!!! AH!!!!!!!!!!" That's such BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!! My translation, "FUCK ME!!!!!!!!! FUCK ME HARD!!!!!!!!!!!"