Sexual compatability

[Halo_n_horns]

Right back atchya.

 

[Kassiana]

1. Must be male. Females don't do anything for me sexually. (Honest. In my fantasies women either are part of the set dressing for the orgy, or introduce my poor character to the men who are going to fuck the hell out of me.)

2. I would prefer someone who can act like a dominant, even if he isn't naturally one, but not necessarily all of the time. Cuddles and equal-basis sex work for me too.

3. Playful. Must enjoy being playful.

4. Must honor my limits. Playing with human waste, needles, or cigarettes are right out, for example.

5. I love giving blow jobs, but I do sometimes need to rest and let my hand squeeze you until you explode all over my tits. I hope you can respect that.

6. Power-play scenarios excite me. I hope they excite you.

7. Impregnation fantasies excite me, but let's not act them out unless we're really financially and emotionally ready to be parents.

8. Role-playing in general turns me on. Whether it's fantasy, science fiction, or an actual RP world, I like exploring different people when I play with you.

So, wanna play?

 

[Liar]

I'm failing to see why anyone wouldn't want you for a sexual partner...

Agreed. Possibly gay men and straight women... But I'm not so sure about that either.

 

[sophia jane]

Agreed. Possibly gay men and straight women... But I'm not so sure about that either.

I'm blushing. I don't see why anyone on this thread has trouble finding a partner.

 

[Guest]

Check 1. Must be male.

Check 2. I would prefer someone who can act like a dominant

Check 3. Playful. Must enjoy being playful. (How about naked twister, and strip monopoly?

Check 4. Must honor my limits. (my limits are six times a night. Is that okay?)

5. I love giving blow jobs (I love you)

6. Power-play scenarios excite me. I hope they excite you. (220v flowing through me is always exciting)

7. Impregnation fantasies excite me, (fleeing)

Check 8. Role-playing in general turns me on. Whether it's fantasy, science fiction, or an actual RP world, I like exploring different people when I play with you. (You be Denise Crosby, I'll be Data (Star Trek Next Generation reference))

So, wanna play?

And 9 : must like birds.

 

[Matadore]

10. Some "outdoorsy" tollarance--no need to run naked with the wolves, but sleeping over night beside a waterfall should be a positive thing as wouls be a shit in the woods.

 

[scheherazade_79]

1. Must be female.
2. Spontaneity and imagination in love-making are what keep my sexual fires burning. Sometimes I like to be romanced, other times I crave a dirty quickie in an inappropriate setting. Variety is the spice of life.
3. Mustn't be too fussy about the bed. I've known girls who've treated it like a temple - no eating, no drinking, no outdoor clothing, no pets, no jumping on the mattress... it drove me nuts.
4. 90% of the time physical contact is more important to me than sex. If that part isn't right, then the sex doesn't come. I'm a cuddle junkie, especially when I'm watching late night movies.
5. Must have a sense of humour about sex. Things don't always go right, and it's great when you're able to roll round on the bed laughing at them.
6. An imaginative role-player would be a dream come true.
7. Types who roll over and go back to sleep after sex needn't apply. I like to hold and be held after the act.
8. When I'm into someone my sex drive is high, so I guess it would help if theirs was, too.
9. I like taller women.
10. Patience is essential

I think that's pretty much it

 

[ewopper]

Rob's thread made me start thinking about what I look for in a sexual partner because I'm beginning to realize that not everyone I like will please me in bed (and vice versa).

So...what I look for in a sexual partner:
must not be afraid of sex or sex play, but be open minded and see it as fun
must be willing (and able) to have sex on a fairly regular basis
must love oral sex
must be able to listen to the answer if you ask what I want
must not freak out if I have trouble coming
must initiate sex/sex play equally. I hate being the one who gets things started everytime

Bonus points if:
you like to spank
you get turned on by tying me up
toys don't intimidate you
you bite
you pull hair
my nipple clamps don't freak you out


So...what about you?
(I hope I'm not the only one who's so demanding)

edited for Penelope

I myself prefer sex to be spontaneous, a lot of kissing, feeling,exploring
etc. Although I'm not totally intimidated by toys I do feel some of the intimacy is lost between the two partners, plus how would you feel if you've sucked the skin off a man's cock to satisfy him, and he whips out a sex sleeve and tells you to hold it while he gets off. Would you be totally happy with that??? just a thought

 

[Quiet_Cool]

I'm failing to see why anyone wouldn't want you for a sexual partner...

It's in the fine print, Halo. Read here:

toys don't intimidate you

It's an odd deception. SJ, for the hundredth time, farm animals do not count as toys...


































...well, maybe a goat or two (if they're a minimum of 18 years of age).



Q_C

(Just kidding, SJ. You're perfect, hon)

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Be warm.

Be ready.

Frequent repetition is imperative.

The rest we'll improvise.

Here we go. Nicely worded, BTW.

I'd add:

Don't pressure me and I won't pressure you. It's better that way. I want to know everything you want, but that isn't a promise to do it all.

Don't lie to me, ever, for any reason. If I don't trust you, I'm not comfortable (and if we even get to the finish, I'm never coming back) and if I'm not comfortable, I"m not enjoying myself.

Let me give while I receive. Rarely do I want to just lay there. So, if you're giving me head, especially, make sure to swing the hips around.

*shrug*

That's about it for now.

Q_C

 

[sophia jane]

It's in the fine print, Halo. Read here:



It's an odd deception. SJ, for the hundredth time, farm animals do not count as toys...



...well, maybe a goat or two (if they're a minimum of 18 years of age).



Q_C

(Just kidding, SJ. You're perfect, hon)

PMSL! That's definitely one kink I'm not interested in.

 

[Guest]

PMSL! That's definitely one kink I'm not interested in.

And it worked out so well for Catherine the Great.

 

[Remec]

I'm failing to see why anyone wouldn't want you for a sexual partner...

<nod>
Yeah, that was one of the first thoughts in my mind too. Definitely.

 

[sophia jane]

<nod>
Yeah, that was one of the first thoughts in my mind too. Definitely.

Evidently every one of you needs to live closer to me.

 

[Remec]

Evidently every one of you needs to live closer to me.

Or, at least, have to free up time and money for more roadtrips. <smile>

 

[Remec]

Well, let's see...so many people seem to have touched on all the same little things that I had thought about saying when I first saw this thread that I'm not quite sure where/how to phrase them myself.

So...what I look for in a sexual partner:
must not be afraid of sex or sex play, but be open minded and see it as fun
must be willing (and able) to have sex on a fairly regular basis
must love oral sex
must be able to listen to the answer if you ask what I want
must not freak out if I have trouble coming
must initiate sex/sex play equally. I hate being the one who gets things started everytime

I think I agree to everything on the initial list.
My own bonus section involves
* occasional anal play
* willingness to be silly and playful even in public
* clue me into what you want, what I might be doing right and/or wrong
* indulge me in roleplaying now and then, and even choose the roles on occasion

I'm sure I'm forgetting things, but that's a good start. <g>

 

[Dar~]

Well, let's see...so many people seem to have touched on all the same little things that I had thought about saying when I first saw this thread that I'm not quite sure where/how to phrase them myself.



I think I agree to everything on the initial list.
My own bonus section involves
* occasional anal play
* willingness to be silly and playful even in public
* clue me into what you want, what I might be doing right and/or wrong
* indulge me in roleplaying now and then, and even choose the roles on occasion

I'm sure I'm forgetting things, but that's a good start. <g>

I can't believe I forgot anal play Must be willing to do anal.

 

[Guest]

I can't believe I forgot anal play Must be willing to do anal.

Don't worry. You got it in at the end.

 

[Dar~]

Don't worry. You got it in at the end.

you wouldn't like me Ted, I don't swallow. Bleck!!!!

 

[Remec]

you wouldn't like me Ted, I don't swallow. Bleck!!!!

Swallowing is a little overrated in my book. 'Sides, if ya swallow, I can't indulge in fetishes involving pearl necklaces and such...<g>

 

[Dar~]

Swallowing is a little overrated in my book. 'Sides, if ya swallow, I can't indulge in fetishes involving pearl necklaces and such...<g>

I guess I don't know what a pearl necklace is . . . sorry. But fantasize all you want. I don't even like it in my mouth.

 

[sophia jane]

I guess I don't know what a pearl necklace is . . . sorry. But fantasize all you want. I don't even like it in my mouth.

Dar- replace pearl with cum and you'll get the idea of a pearl necklace.

 

[Kassiana]

How about naked twister, and strip monopoly?

--Wow. I've never played strip monopoly before.

my limits are six times a night. Is that okay?

--Assuming you aren't inflating your numbers, that's delightful.

5. I love giving blow jobs (I love you)

--

220v flowing through me is always exciting

--I've been called a Goddess before, but I draw the line at lightning.

7. Impregnation fantasies excite me, (fleeing)

--Are you telling me that if you happened to marry someone, the idea of having kids with her wouldn't interest you at all?

You be Denise Crosby, I'll be Data (Star Trek Next Generation reference)

--Um ... couldn't I just be Tasha Yar, as I know too little about Ms. Crosby to give even a fantasy portrayal of her?

And 9 : must like birds.

--Well, if you don't know that already, aren't you out of the running?

 

[Dar~]

SJ, I don't mind cum on any part of my body but I draw the line at my tongue. Feels like a big booger.(not that I would know)

 

[Liar]

PMSL! That's definitely one kink I'm not interested in.

Note to self. Shave off goatee.