sexual autobiography

[Dion95]

Hi. I’m in the process of compiling my sexual autobiography. Is anyone else doing something similar?

 

[Unplugged]

Hi. I’m in the process of compiling my sexual autobiography. Is anyone else doing something similar?

A couple years ago, I started to chronical my sexual escapades through the years. My memory was sketchy for some years, but I think I got most of them. I was impressed with myself with the number if not quality. I have to say, as a young man I was not always the most discriminating, and I'm sure there are women out there that, in remembering, think the same about me...lol.. oh well...such is life..

 

[AppleBiter]

Hi. I’m in the process of compiling my sexual autobiography. Is anyone else doing something similar?

Mine would be fairly short, considering I've only ever slept w/my husband and he with me, but then we're pretty wild. In any event, no I've never taken up writing my sexual autobiography. But, I do have a sex journal that I call my Book of Whispers that may be illegal to read in 6 states.

 

[taolanes]

That's a really good idea. It's a good way to document and remember all things sexy

I would also loooove to read someones. Just to see how many hot things one person had done in their life

 

[karndav]

That's a really good idea. It's a good way to document and remember all things sexy

I would also loooove to read someones. Just to see how many hot things one person had done in their life

i would also think it would be a cool idea to write one and get it published. i bet it would be a big hit. Not just fantasies but real life experiences!

 

[eudaemonia]

Interesting notion. I'm not sure it would do much for me, as I can recall nearly every incident with every one I've ever had even a crush on (going back to 4th grade <g>).

But I would probably write more of a commentary on my sexual attitudes and inner life viz a viz others'. After reading a few threads here -- I originally came here looking for info on uncircumsized men -- I'm struck by what some consider wild, dirty, etc. and why that might be. My hypothesis, regarding myself, is that I was never given any explicit information one way or another by either parent (only child, no other family around) so I was pretty much left to my own devices. Kids are naturally curious and will explore their bodies without preconceptions of the normative evaluation of doing so. Thus, I conclude that since I was nearly free of influence on the matter, I developed a pretty healthy regard for my own sexauality as I grew up.

I guess what I'm saying is that I'm very interested why things labeled kinky by some seem perfectly natural and normal to me, and things and situations that I would find painful or humiliating are valued as the heighth of sexual experience by others. How and why my parameters of will-do/won't-do were established fascinates me as well as how others' were established.

I'm also struck by the tenderness and sincerity that bubbles under the surface of some of the threads here. I take that to be an indication that at a fundamental level we're all looking for some universal: a profound connection with another human being.

The one conclusion that I've drawn and feel confident in sharing is that physical and emotional needs (and capacities) change dramatically over the course of a lifetime. While I've always felt sexually capable, I've never felt so sexually confident as now. I wouldn't trade the latter for the former under any circumstances. (Good thing that I can't either!)

Thots, questions, criticisms?

 

[fgarvb1]

Are you out of your fucking mind?

I have to live here!

No one has tried to kill me in over 15 years and I like it that way.

 

[Ravin the Poet]

I can do mine....





















..................keep going




















...........getting there















....I swear next page



Ravin

 

[BigM]

Hi. I’m in the process of compiling my sexual autobiography. Is anyone else doing something similar?

I just love statistics. So naturally I put together a list of all my sexual partners. What a blast it was to crunch some numbers on them: % of brunettes vs. blondes... % that were one-nighters vs. something more... % that I'd like to meet again (if I were single) vs. those I'd run from screaming... % in which oral sex was involved...ranking them by their sheer sexual prowess...

Yeah, I know, how heartless it is to think in such cold terms. And it's not an autobiography, either. But it could make for one of those nifty charts in USA Today.

 

[midwestyankee]

Who would read a 1 page book that is also boring and repetitive? Just don't see the point.

 

[bobsgirl]

Who would read a 1 page book that is also boring and repetitive? Just don't see the point.

I was just thinking the same thing about my own! LOL

 

[midwestyankee]

I was just thinking the same thing about my own! LOL

If we got together, at least it might fill a Hallmark card sized volume.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

I began a detailed journal of my sexual experiences about a year ago. Not only did I write down the physical aspect, but also the emotions that were tied to each one.
I think it is fun to reflect on past lovers and one nighters. There is something special about all of them, even though some I wouldn't know if I saw them today.
I am very oriented with my senses, so I still find myself propelled back by a scent or song on the radio.
I think an sexual autobiography is so self teaching. Interesting to watch your sexual identity develop and emerge.

 

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[LadyFunkenstein]

Maybe I'd do this if ever I were incarcerated.

 

[taolanes]

I'm also struck by the tenderness and sincerity that bubbles under the surface of some of the threads here. I take that to be an indication that at a fundamental level we're all looking for some universal: a profound connection with another human being.

I noticed the same thing. It's interesting to see how genuine people are with each other when they don't fear ridicule.

 

[Munachi]

well what i would like to do is write a book about sexual differences of people from different countries... all nicely cliched, based on my experience of one to four people per country... so, i am working on it...