He gives me great companionship, great conversation and he is a wonderful parent but we do not have sex. Am i asking for too much when everything else is in place?
Well, that depends. Sex is not the foundation of a marraige/relationship. How long has it been? This may not be something that is permanent. My husband and I go through dry spells sometimes, too. Then one day, out of the blue everything is back to normal. If it hasn't been that long, give it some time. If it has, I would suggest counseling because this is obviously something that's important to you.
It's been like this for 4 years now. We have one child--she's almost 3. He knows how I feel and it's not like this is a surprise. He told me that he wasn't as interested in sex from the beginning (and my desires have always been strong) What bothers me is that he does get his needs met through porn on the internet--I found this out accidentally so I wonder how strong his needs are and how much does he hide from me.