Sex without a condom?

I love sex without condoms. In fact, I hate condoms and resent that I missed out on the sexual revolution of the 60s dammit!

However, as my husband and I do have multiple sex partners, we do use them.

Ruby
 
I used to use them all the time (never minded them too much) but my wife and i have come to a permanent solution so...

1-no more condoms
2-just the one partner
3-dont worry bout diseases
4-dont worry bout pregnancy
 
*bratcat* said:
How often? Do you have multiple partners...or just one? Are you worried about STDs? Are you worried about getting pregnant?

When i was single, i used condoms when i felt like it or if i didn't know the guy well... there were plenty of times i didn't use a condom, and i never lived an exactly monogomous lifestyle. i never worried about pregnancy, because i was on the pill... i (perhaps foolishly) didn't worry about STD's either, but have been tested for all of them periodically and i'm clean... i've been married and monogomous for almost 7 years, so i don't think it's an issue anymore.
 
How often?
As often as possible, everyday for sure when we can.

Do you have multiple partners...or just one?
No. Just MS.

Are you worried about STDs?
No, we're both monogamous and have been for a couple of years.

Are you worried about getting pregnant?
No, i had my tubes tied before i left the hospital after having my little guy. No matter what, i'm all done making babies.
 
I much prefer sex without a condom. It is really not an issue for me though since it has been quite a while since I had sex at all. If I ever get into another relationship, then I will probably go and get myself fixed. As for STDs - I do not engage in casual sex, I don't have any STDs, and hopefully any future sex partners won't either, so it shouldn't be an issue. No pregnancy, no STDs, no problemo.
 
How often?

I've always used them although latex irritates me if I use them too much. Since BK though, I've been on birthcontrol so it's not an issue.

Do you have multiple partners...or just one?

Just BK

Are you worried about STDs?
Nope. We're committed and neither of us plan on sleeping with anyone else. He's clean, I'm clean so it's also a non-issue.


Are you worried about getting pregnant?

Nope. I'm on birth control. Not to mention the fact it's kinda hard to have sex more than once every few months cause he's in Florida and I'm in NY (for now).

I know BirthControl isn't always a failsafe - but that is also a non-issue. If I were to get pregnant I would be happy, although I prefer to wait until after I move down to Florida and we're settled in. BK needs to finish school and I need to go back.
 
How often? never without a condom
Do you have multiple partners...or just one? just one.. never had another
Are you worried about STDs? a little bit
Are you worried about getting pregnant? yes.. but i dont think it's going to happen since i'm on the pill and we use condoms all the time
 
Angel-

Try non-latex rubber condoms, or even better (though 3x more expensive and dont protect against disease, just pregnancy) use lambskin. Once I tried lambskin i never wanted to use latex again.
 
I know, but when I would have sex with a person for the first time it was never a planned out event - and usually what the guy had on hand would be latex. One time wouldn't bother me too much, but if we had sex more than once or for a very long time, then the irritation would set in.

I adore lambskin but yes, they're expensive and they're a bitch to find compared to latex. Luckily I no longer have to worry about it. :)
 
Angel said:
I adore lambskin but yes, they're expensive and they're a bitch to find compared to latex. Luckily I no longer have to worry about it. :)

I know what you mean...so many stores don't carry them. But once i found a place that did (and relatively inexpensively) I didn't ever want to switch back.

But no condom being necessary is always the best! ;)
 
*bratcat* said:
How often? Do you have multiple partners...or just one? Are you worried about STDs? Are you worried about getting pregnant?

well i found out that I have "condom issues" never was a problem with my last gf but with my current one things just don't work right. I have no idea why I mean i had no problem with sensativity with condoms before but I do now.

So no we don't use condoms but,she is on the pill. We tried using condoms a couple of times but did not work out so well. We actually did not use a condom the first time we had sex when we had only known each other for a few weeks. Yeah yeah bad I know not very resposible.


We only sleep with each other I have only had one previous partner she has only had two. She is clean cause she got tested like once every 6 months in the past. I have only been with one other person who was a virgin so I know i am clean.
 
How often?
When single I use them almost all of the time.
When attached...well usually not in the long run.

Do you have multiple partners...or just one?
I have none.

Are you worried about STDs?
For one nighters...yeah sure....double wrap that bad boy!

Are you worried about getting pregnant?
Well I'm a guy and cant get pregnant DUH!!
However am I worried about the girl getting pregnant??
Nope not at all.
 
Rubyfruit said:
I love sex without condoms. In fact, I hate condoms and resent that I missed out on the sexual revolution of the 60s dammit!

However, as my husband and I do have multiple sex partners, we do use them.

Ruby
DAMN!!!!!! Is that you in your av? If so, and you like sex with multiple partners, get your ass in NY.:)
 
When I was young and stupid, I never really thought about condoms and STD's. Pregnancy didn't worry me cuz I was taking birth control pills. I used condoms sometimes if I didn't know the guy very well. Right now, it's not really an issue. I'm seperated from my hubby, planning to divorce. I've not had sex in a year and I don't plan on another male partner til Draco comes, and tho I'm on birth control pills for other reasons, should they fail and I get pregnant by him, I'd be very happy. Not gonna set out to do it on purpose, but down the road, I'd love to have another baby. :)
 
nasty said:
DAMN!!!!!! Is that you in your av? If so, and you like sex with multiple partners, get your ass in NY.:)

Just left the east coast, Nasty. Sorry. ;)

And, yes, that is me. :)

Ruby
 
HOW OFTEN: In the past and if it was casual sex, always. If in a monogamous relationship, no. Now, I don't just have casual sex.

MULTIPLE PARTNERS: No, only one.

ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT STD's: No

ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT GETTING PREGNANT: No, I'm on the pill & in the near future will be getting my tubes tied.
 
Nope don't use them anymore. (with my first and only)
however seeing as I was not his (first and only) I made him get tested for everything.
And I am on the pill (it is so great!) So just a little.
 
i've never seen a sheep skin condom before, what do they look like? has anyone got a picture of one?
I dunno if i have ever seen one in england before, heh
 
*bratcat* said:
How often? Do you have multiple partners...or just one? Are you worried about STDs? Are you worried about getting pregnant?

1. Since I have been in a one on one relationship for quite a while, I do not wear condoms anymore. Though for the first bit, I sure did. If I was just meeting someone and having "casual" sex I wrap it for sure, though I don't typically have "casual" sex anymore, those days are long since over for me. If I were to engage in "casual" sex then I would wear a condom for sure, for her and for me, both of our protections.

2. Nope just one. Well if you consider my hand occasionally as a partner, then two. :)

3. Sure, shouldn't we all be? But I doubt very seriously that I would get any from my current S/O as we are both clean and have been for quite a while.

4. I am concerned over getting my S/O pregnant but really it is a non issue as we have talked about what steps would be taken should she become pregnant.
 
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Unregistered said:


1. Since I have been in a one on one relationship for quite a while, I do not wear condoms anymore. Though for the first bit, I sure did. If I was just meeting someone and having "casual" sex I wrap it for sure, though I don't typically have "casual" sex anymore, those days are long since over for me. If I were to engage in "casual" sex then I would wear a condom for sure, for her and for me, both of our protections.

2. Nope just one. Well if you consider my hand occasionally as a partner, then two. :)

3. Sure, shouldn't we all be? But I doubt very seriously that I would get any from my current S/O as we are both clean and have been for quite a while.

4. I am concerned over getting my S/O pregnant but really it is a non issue as we have talked about what steps would be taken should she become pregnant.

That was me btw, damnit I hate when I clean out my cookie jar and forget to log back in.......... :p
 
i guess i'll just live my life not knowing what a sheep skin condom looks like ;)
 
metz said:
i guess i'll just live my life not knowing what a sheep skin condom looks like ;)

Honey, it's a condom. What do you think it looks like? :)

It's in a little package. You open it and it's kinda flat. When you unroll it, it's penis-shaped. That answer your question? :D
 
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