Sex With Co-Workers

Megumi

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I've been thinking about this topic for a long time, because I'm REALLY attracted to my co-worker! If this person was just one of my friends or somebody at a bar or social gathering, I wouldn't think twice about pursuing this, but... there's a whole lot more at stake, personally and professionally, when the object of my desire is the guy I share an office with.

Have any of you been in this situation before, and if so, how did it turn out?
 
I once had a one night stand with a co-worker and it was a huge mistake. We were never really friends after that. Then there were all the rumors about us. He ended up leaving the job.
 
Megumi,
I have in the past been involved with a co-worker. While we were working n the same office we had a very hard time keeping our hands off each other. There were times when we had to work alone in a dark editing suite and we would get so turned on that we just had to satisfy ourselves.

What you need to understand is that others were working in other areas of the office as he was cumming in me. God! just thinking about it as I sit here makes me hot.

Do what you can live with and what will make you happy.
 
once, 20 years ago, girl who worked for me in a small team - we were druink after the office party, all back to someone's flat, we were a slithery heap on the floor ... all rather embarrassing the next day - but we still go to each other's parties and I look at her children and thank god they don't look like mine ....!

Then about 9 or ten years ago; a relationship I've descibed on a thread a few weeks ago; passionate affair with a co-worker, with sex in the office, in meeting rooms, after hours, in her house while hubby weas in next room, when she borrowed a friend's flat for a weekend ... it was fantastic, and though it came to a natural end a few weeks later - she left hubby and someone she had long desired left his wife for her ... we remained firm pals til she moved away. I still look back on that as one of my very best experiences. Though if we'd been caught it would have been no job, and worse for both of us. Hugely risky; and we were both lucky, I guess, that it ended happily and mutually - so there was no mess in the work environment.
 
I never have had sex with a coworker, but many years ago I dated (once) a girl I was working with on a summer job. We had a fairly intense makeout session in my car. By the time I dropped her off, I had decided that I did not want to persue the relationship any further. I still shudder when I remember how uncomfortable we were around each other for the rest of that summer.

I would not recommend any relationship with someone you have to work with unless you are fairly certain that the relationship will last.
 
Thanks for your comments...I have some of the same concerns that were listed in your posts. I spend a lot of time with my co-worker and only my co-worker in a small office. There are only a dozen or so people working there, and everyone comes and goes depending on their schedules. We've also spent some personal time together away from the office, so I've gotten to know him pretty well. I've flirted with him pretty outrageously and been pretty open about myself- he seemed a little taken aback at first, but he's really opening up lately. My gut reaction is that he feels the same way as I do- he's intrigued but thinking about the same issues I am.

A side note- if he knows I'm working that day, Mr. M will ALWAYS ask me, with a twinkle in his eye and a very knowing grin, if I plan on teasing ------- later. They've met before and Mr. M. is fine with this idea...I'm not going to force the issue, but I'll see how it works out and let you all know if you're interested.
 
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