Sex toy alternatives

Okay, okay, I have to ask. Don't some of these crazy things hurt? I mean oooouuuccchhhhh. 😣
Some people get a thrill out of the pain - getting hard or drippy when well-spanked. Others want to show their obedience to orders - "Stand still and count!". Others don't like the spanking but DO like other bits that partner brings - aftercare cuddling, mindblowing orgasm(s), whatever. And of course things change over time - people can change their minds.

The other bit is HOW the 'pain' is applied. Sometimes groping someone's butt could cause bigger bruises than a spanking! It's also possible that someone with practice can spank someone so it sounds much, much worse than it feels to the spanked one - or vice versa. Canes or singletail whips are classic examples of the latter - very little effort can welt or break the skin and hurt like hell, while a semi-flexible broad & lightweight paddle or cupped hand are probably reasonable examples of the former.

As always, if you're submitting, find out who and what you're submitting to before giving up control. Watch their play with others, chat with others who've submitted to that person, and (the gold standard) have a serious talk with them first. Ad-hoc submission can be thrilling but you're taking a helluva risk.
 
I recently - and very carefully - used an empty champagne bottle. She loved it so much I'm thinking of investing in a glass dildo with little knobs on it... :devilish:
I tried it once and at the time she squirted like a fountain but the next day we realised that removing the foil is a must. It was not a pretty sight.
 
For this thread, I want to talk about sex toys that aren't sex toys. Me and my partner liked to use this baton.I bought years ago, she likes to ride the handle and pop the fat knob in and out of her pussy, she loves the way it rubs her g-spot. We keep it thoroughly cleaned, but cover it with a condom before using.And as the picture illustrates, I like to strap it to the bench straight up so she can ride it. This leaves her hands free. What do you her spouse are significant other use to play with when no sex toys are available?
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