Sex questions...

[CelestialBody]

 

[Wiggles]

Have you seen this thread yet? http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=71990

Maybe he just isn't into it. I've heard a few guys on here say that they couldn't get off that way.

 

[Guest]

You may want to try doing it while he watches some really good porn.

I've always had difficulty cumming from a blow job. I've learned to not like or expect them.

 

[Starblayde]

Happens to me... sometimes i just cant cum while getting a bj... have no idea why. Whether its relaxation, stimulation or what i dunno. When that happens i get her to stop, close my eyes and jack off for the short time it'll take me to cum in/on her mouth/face.

 

[Southern37]

I feel like a monumental idiot asking this.

Why the hell can't I get him to come from a Blow Job? I have done everything I can think of short of deep-throating (nasty gag-reflex). Am I the only one?

It's not you...I don't usually come from a blow job either (not that I hardly ever get one). But it doesn't mean you are doing anything wrong, it's just hard to get the right rhythm and feeling.

But hey, I think the best route to go is the same way as to Carnagie Hall...practice, practice, practice!

 

[TN_Vixen]

CB.. communication is the key.. well, that and longevity. Some guys I've talked to said that they can't get off because the girl doesn't do it long enough. And, the advice about watching porn, or maybe reading erotica to one another beforehand is a very good idea. Maybe he isn't really comfortable with telling you how he likes it? Be patient, it'll work out.

 

[TN_Vixen]

When that happens i get her to stop, close my eyes and jack off for the short time it'll take me to cum in/on her mouth/face.

damn, now that's hot.

 

[Starblayde]

damn, now that's hot.

and thick, and salty.....

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[TN_Vixen]

an hour & 1/2? girl, that's putting in some time. hehe

I wonder why he was so alarmed about the porn issue? That's quite suprising to me. Although my ex husband used to think I was a pervert because I liked to watch movies and read erotica, he encouraged it because it stimulated our sex life. Maybe he's a closet porn-peeker?

 

[Guest]

 

[Starblayde]

Just before he's about to cum in you (the standard baby-making way) - get him to tell you right beforehand, i mean the very instant - withdraw and wrap your laughing gear around his meat and two veg

If that doesnt work, i doubt much else will

 

[Guest]

 

[Starblayde]

YES!! That is just exactly what he does too!! I hate it! Makes me feel less qualified...

I think its stimulation... we're all probably more used to Madam Palm and her five lovely daughters...

But as only one girl has given me anything approaching regular blowjobs, i haven't got much of an experience base for this one

Here's a pic i posted earlier

 

[CarolineOh]

Brian won't look at porn. He was slightly alarmed when I told him I post here-kinda like "Why the hell would you do that?"

I have been on my knees for up to an hour and a half. I just can't get him to cum that way. I'm not kidding, I even used Purp's patented bj technique. He's very appreciative-trust me he is, but he has never cum in my mouth-he has, however gone flaccid after prolonged attention-I wear him out, I guess. I don't know...

It sounds like you are assuming that it is in some way your fault. That may not be the case. Perhaps it's something physical with him. Some men are not as sensitive as others. Does he come easily by other methods?

 

[ExLimey]

It may actually be nothing to do with you and all to do with his head (the melon kind, not the one below his belt). If he's a little prudish about porn and lit, maybe deep down or not so deep down he's repulsed by the thought of cumming in your mouth and this prevents him from climaxing!?

 

[Wiggles]

Here's a pic i posted earlier

So, who else was expecting something different?

Damn male teases.

 

[Starblayde]

And finally, i manage to tease a woman...

YEY!



Anyway... you want a shot of me cracking one off? Just wait 'til i find my webcam...

 

[GambitandRogue]

Wow, I can't believe this thread. LOL I wish Gambit wouldn't come with a bj, I might do it more often. After 5-10 minutes he usually comes. I always feel personally it is such a waste, I'd rather feel him inside me when his head swells, not my mouth.

Star ya teased me too. LOL poor kitties...

Rogue

 

[Juspar Emvan]

I've been there. It might be him. But I'd say more likely it's technique.

My first b/j, well, I'm not going into details, but for a dozen years, it remained the best of my life. The girl in question only did it once, unfortunately, before we parted ways, but I can still remember it. I got blown by a couple of girls in the ensuing years, including regularly in my long term relationship. No one was prepared to swallow, but that was never likely to be an issue, as great as it was, it wasn't orgasm inducing. Then last year I hooked up with a girl who went down on me and damn near blew my mind, it was like the first time all over again. Here I was thinking it was just because it was the first time. absolutely not.

I can't supply deffinative answers, but I'd suggest the following things:

• Lots of saliva
• Watch the angle, dont rub the glans too much, friction can hurt. Tight lips around the shaft, but not the head.
• Use your hands too, wank him in your mouth
• Look him in the eye occasionally

Hey Star, you a kiwi? Haven't heard anyone suggesting wrapping laughing gear around anything for ages, good old Crumpy.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Nope!

Glad yer trying so hard though.

It's the same as women. You never can figure out 'the deal'.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I tend to agree with exlimey on this one. I had difficulty with this when I was younger, mainly b/c I figured no girl would ever want a guy to cum in her mouth.

If he's a little prudish or nervous about it, you may have to go into a little porn slut act or something, and really convince him how much you want him to cum in your mouth.

And if he still doesn't want to, well, then just give him a hand job and try starblayde's trick at the end.

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Cherry Blossom]

Maybe Juspar's right about making it half hand-job, especially if he responds to that better. Concentrate on sucking and licking mainly the head and the first inch or two, and maybe pull back and let him come sort of resting on your tongue?

 

[Starblayde]

Hey Star, you a kiwi? Haven't heard anyone suggesting wrapping laughing gear around anything for ages, good old Crumpy.

Nah, Only the other side of the world.... Eng-er-land!