Sex in the office...

pepstreebeck

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So, I'm contemplating something.

I've talked to some new friends in here who know I'm currently in a spot where my relationship had fallen apart. We've separated, and are now on an indefinite break. Not sure where it was going to go, until least night when she blew me off for Valentines day, which was the first "holiday" ( it's a Hallmark created holiday) we haven't spent together in 3 years.

Yes, I'm hurt, but shit happens, long story of how it fell apart, bottom line, she got laid off and moved out. I'm starting to realize this it's coming to an end, but during this time, I've been taking to a woman in the office about it who's been through a divorce...

She's pretty understanding, albeit flirtatious, she's older than me by 12 years, 38, which makes her more attractive in my mind, and today she came to discuss Valentines day after she told me she would be alone last night yesterday.

Today, the talk revolved around us getting a drink tonight now that I think the relationship is toast. I hesitated about it for a bit, but I told her I was kind of anti-office relationships. She laughed and said, "honey, I don't want to date you, you're too young for that for me. I'll stop by your office at the end of the day to discuss that drink."

Fucking this woman in my office has crossed my mind about 214 times in the last month, but now I think it could actually happen. One part of me wants to do this, but the rest of me says " you're Young, with a great job, don't blow this!"

I posted in the personals section on the topic, but got only a little response, probably because, as I'm starting to learn, you need to post where the topic is relevant. Any thoughts on what the Fuck I should do here?

The woman is a fox btw, she's short, maybe 5'4", and somewhere around 140 pounds, but it's all in her hips and tits, and she has dark auburn hair she just so happens to have in braided pig tails this casual Friday.

Yeah, soooooo, yeah.
 
That's my theory. Especially when the food is good. She doesn't work in my department though...
 
As incredibly tempting as I'm sure this is to you, and to most men, don't do it. Especially if you see this woman at work on a regular basis.

If you enjoy your job, respect your workplace, and want to progress in that company (and depending, in the field), don't do it.
 
Am a woman and I still agree with what most men are saying here...

It's bad news...

Take all the advice you e gotten here and then consider this:

If something inside you wasn't warning you against it, you wouldn't have posted here asking/seeking permission or an excuse to do it.
 
Take all the advice you e gotten here and then consider this:

If something inside you wasn't warning you against it, you wouldn't have posted here asking/seeking permission or an excuse to do it.

Completely agree with your analysis here....
 
Take all the advice you e gotten here and then consider this:

If something inside you wasn't warning you against it, you wouldn't have posted here asking/seeking permission or an excuse to do it.

You're a priest I take it?

Jk, ok it's settled, I'll tell her no...

Anybody actually go through with this now that the topic is alive?
 
i once had a fling with someone from the office (large company). we hooked up a couple times, but NOT at the office. found out later that he was engaged, and i had just moved into the department where she worked. i could have caused hell, but i was very young (19) and thought it was fun. it was my dirty little secret.
 
Flirt and enjoy it, but you will regret it one way or another if you push it.
 
I will go against the flow here...as long as both of you know that this is just a fling I say go for it. As to whether you should do it in your office, only you know whether the privacy you would need.
 
Don't do it.. she's just using you. She knows you're in a vulnerable place..
where will you be after she's done grinding her wet "you know what" all over your hard body, leaving you so you can barely walk to the chair where you've flung your trousers..
She'll be off doing "mature woman" things and you'll just go home to drink a beer and flip through past editions of SI..
heck.. she may go the corner bar and ask some other young hussy to taste YOUR juices as they moisten her inner thighs..
that selfish bitch
and what if she comes back to you.. deciding that she wants a little more toy.. pinning you to the wall as she reveals the delicates beneath her proper wrap skirt..
I'm seeing nothing but trouble and heartache for you, young man.. lol
 
Giglee, you're, you're bad... A good kind of bad, but still bad. Already turned her down, well have to see where the flirting goes from here.

For those wondering her reaction, disappointed it seems. She reassured me it wouldn't get messy as far as work concerns, I just used the " wounds still fresh excuse." She understood.
 
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