Sex in exchange for a place to live

[sixfeetundernea]

I have to be out on my own not too long here and I'm thinking about moving in with a man and giving sex as rent. Has anyone on here done this before, being on either side? Do you have any recommendations or tips?

 

[bluesky496]

I have to be out on my own not too long here and I'm thinking about moving in with a man and giving sex as rent. Has anyone on here done this before, being on either side? Do you have any recommendations or tips?

i would say dont do it ,it will make life awkward and you deserve better .x

 

[yourkinkygirl]

I'm open for most things, but it could get manipulative pretty quickly.

Do you still consent? What if you're not in the mood?

My tip would be to get some sort of written/verbal contract. It may seem overboard, but it's an unusual situation. You both may have very different ideas about it. It's nice to have a clear understanding of what you're getting into!

 

[Algos_Idoni]

I would agree.. Get it written into the lease agreement or a separate form of agreement. While sex is nice, it doesn't pay his bills. How often would it be? When he wanted it?

Is he married? That would complicate how often, and what if she found out and kicks you out?

 

[davenjenn]

I did something like that at college for almost two years. It worked well enough.

I think it is important that it is clear from the beginning that this is not an exclusive relationship and that he doesn't see you as his gf

 

[Carnevil9]

That's called "marriage."

(just kidding!)

 

[sixfeetundernea]

I would agree.. Get it written into the lease agreement or a separate form of agreement. While sex is nice, it doesn't pay his bills. How often would it be? When he wanted it?

Is he married? That would complicate how often, and what if she found out and kicks you out?

I would still be working. Based on my past relationships, I think I could do it any time he wanted. I'd be fine unless I was sick or it interfered with my life too much. Yes, I would expect it once a day, possibly multiple times.

I don't have anyone right now, I've just seen it advertised. I would not be doing it with a married man however.

 

[sixfeetundernea]

i would say dont do it ,it will make life awkward and you deserve better .x

How would it make life awkward?

 

[CindyCD478]

I have to be out on my own not too long here and I'm thinking about moving in with a man and giving sex as rent. Has anyone on here done this before, being on either side? Do you have any recommendations or tips?

If your guy backs out, we have an empty room.

 

[littlecordelera]

Accept only cash.

 

[hashtag45]

How would it make life awkward?

Hi, saw your posts in GB a few times I thought they were witty & funny.
Not intending to be judgmental, but to me that sounds like a bad scenario. You're giving him a lot of power by moving into his house, on His terms. And you are young & you don't know the guy.

 

[may_I_please]

Do you have whore fantasies?

 

[Purduemyron]

Contract

In no uncertain terms you need to get it in writing. How frequently it will happen. What is acceptable what is not. Are you or he allowed to introduce additional people? Location it will occur. Just make sure it doesn't turn into a abusive situation.

 

[Little_Girlxx]

I don't think it would be wise to do it. The situation could turn bad at any given moment

 

[hashtag45]

I don't think it would be wise to do it. The situation could turn bad at any given moment

Exactly. I'm not getting into the sexual arrangement part of it,
but she could be accused of stealing or even raped if she has a bad day and refuses to comply… So many things could go wrong.
One Has to think about the worst case scenarios before giving that much power to a complete stranger.