Sex and Neighbours

[Munachi]

Have any of you lived in conditions, where you shared a room or lived in an apartment that had very thin walls, or for a longer time were a guest of people in whose house you preferred not to have sex for whatever reasons, and how did you cope?

One of the reasons I ask this is, because I currently live in a room where I can hear every word my neighbours say, and every step they take, and I suspect they can hear me too. Now, they are a married couple, with the wife pregnant, so I they must have sex sometimes. Well, sometimes their TV is turned up quite a bit, maybe that is when - but I really wonder how they cope with it, and how I would cope, should I happen to get a boyfriend while I live here...

Or also, any interesting stories on hearing your neighbours?

 

[Denae]

Years ago I had upstairs neighbors who fucked like rabbits. No one believed me when I told them how loudly and quickly they banged, that is until my best friend witnessed and afternoon session. My hall closet door rattled and my friend busted out laughing. We both agreed that no way could it be pleasant like that all the time.

The funny thing was, I played on the same softball team as the woman and I mentioned in passing that it sounded like they had fun the night before. The next time they banged, she let out lots of screaming. Knowing the two of them, it wasn't a turn on for me at all.

I had another set of upstairs neighbors that I could hear. They woke me up a few times. I felt sorry for the guy, because IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARD & EVERY SINGLE TIME the woman took a shower. I would think that would kind of ruin whatever kind of sweaty afterglow they had going.

 

[Eilan]

I've done the apartment thing in the past, and I never worried too much about it, but our walls seemed to be pretty soundproof. Or we had quiet neighbors.

We have neighbors right now, but they're not too close, and we have lots of trees separating us and them, and the neighbor on the right works out of state all week. We could have sex outside if we wanted to, and we have done so on occasion.

for a longer time were a guest of people in whose house you preferred not to have sex for whatever reasons, and how did you cope?

A couple of months after my ex and I had our first child, we moved back to our hometown. There was a brief period where we lived with my recently widowed grandmother while we saved up money for a place of our own. I was paranoid about having sex when my grandma was in the next room, but I figured that she HAD to know that I wasn't a virgin at that point.

Other than the time that I was staying with my grandma, I haven't really worried about fucking in other people's houses. But, then, sometimes I have no shame!

Then there was that time that I traveled with my ex and his brother. We shared a hotel room (with two beds). My husband and I tried to have really quiet sex while his brother was asleep in the next bed. I THINK we succeeded!

 

[Denae]

Then there was that time that I traveled with my ex and his brother. We shared a hotel room (with two beds). My husband and I tried to have really quiet sex while his brother was asleep in the next bed. I THINK we succeeded!

This so reminds me of my unsuccessful attempts in college.

 

[Eilan]

This so reminds me of my unsuccessful attempts in college.

At this point, I don't want to find out what my ex brother in law knows, even if it WAS 10 years ago!

I commuted from my parents' house my first three years of college, and was married my senior year, so I missed out on all the dorm/apartment stuff. My ex-husband has some stories from his college days, though.

 

[Elizafairy]

I dont know

 

[Suzins]

I was seeing this guy about a year ago. He lived in an apartment too. I thought it was pretty sound proofed, I'd never heard anybody before.

One time, around 4am we heard the mail slot on the door open and something come in. We were busy having fun. When the fun was over, I said aren't you dying to find out what just got put thru the mail slot?

So he went over and picked up the note. It read:

To the ******ts of ***

We are more than a little concerned at the level of noise coming from your apartment, particularly on the weekends. If you could keep it down it would be greatly appreciated.

Signed the ******ts of ***

I have to say I was more than a little embarassed. I mean how bad must it have been to get out of bed in the middle of the night and write such a note LOL

Maybe they were just jealous LOL I had no clue that I was that noisy.

 

[Lynxie]

When my hubby and I first started having sex, he still lived at home with his parents and two much younger siblings. Loud sex wasn't an option, so we quickly learned to master stealth quickies.

This came in extremely handy when I moved to college and he moved into his own apartment (with the dreaded thin walls). We used his place most of the time, since a queen-size bed was much preferred over my crappy little dorm bed. Most of the time we were quiet, but we had our noisy moments once in a while - We never got complaints, but we did hear a neighbor shout in the hallway one time, "Sounds like someone's having a good time!" We instantly bust out laughing, and it took a while to get back in the mood after that.

Since then, we've apartment-hopped so much that we've given up caring about our noise level. Sometimes we're quiet, but if we want to be loud we just don't care. I know it's somewhat rude, but I don't know any of our neighbors currently and we're only planning on staying here for another month or so til we buy a house (and then we'll be able to have all the loud sex we want!).

 

[Râleclins]

I can hear a lot of what happens in my neighbour's appartment.

At first, there was this couple that kept arguing and banging doors all the time. But they went away, and instead came a woman whose dog kept wailing as soon as she was away.

Now we've got a new neighbour again, and it's more interesting, because she really screams when she's having fun. I've heard her shouts in the evening, in the day, in the middle of the night, and even a Sunday morning at 9 AM.
It's even more funny when you see how petite the neighbour is !

 

[bisexplicit]

If you get a boyfriend, I would say don't worry about it. As long as you aren't having sex at obnoxious times (three am, for example), or loudly screaming out quite inappropriate things (different from moans), than I would say that things should go fine.
Personally, the only time I have to worry about this sortof thing is when my boyfriend is visiting me back at home. Then, you bite your lip and deal.
Oh wait, correction. Anything in a public-ish area also requires biting your lip, too. hehe.

 

[horuss]

lived in a sound vacum

For about two years me and my girlfriend lived in this fourplex that had real thin walls and for the first year we were quiet all the time.

But the second year we moved upstairs and new people moved in downstairs in apt.a was two cllage guys and i though they were gay untill one night at 3am we heard moans at first then a womans voice Spank me adn the slap slap this went on and on for a long while then the front door opened an slamed shut.the poor other guy had to leave so they could finish. I gave them shit the next day.

In apt B there was a girl who just got a new boyfrien and she was soo loud 3 or 4 times a day it realy turned me on and sometimes it would get me and the girl in the mood so that whole side of the house would be moans and dirty talk.when my girl wasnt around i woud lay on the floor and get off listening.
one time i heard her and her man getting off and there were other voices in the room with them cheering them on and moaning too then the front door opened and closed and they were alone againit was hot.
I dont miss that place though it was horable to here everyones music and talk at night.

 

[JRaven]

Don't worry about it!

That's nothing.
Wait until you have a three year old come into the room and ask, "Daddy, what are you doing to Mommy?"

Jenny

 

[Ibsen]

That's nothing.
Wait until you have a three year old come into the room and ask, "Daddy, what are you doing to Mommy?"

Jenny

Thats a real anticlimax!

 

[Munachi]

ah, i wonder what my neighbours are going to do when their kid is born... the wife is four or five months pregnant, and they have only one room... they want to save up for a house, but i think this is going to take some years...

a friend back when i lived in chile also had only one room and had their little daughter sharing the parents bed...

and of course other families i know around here also have tiny houses and usually some of the siblings share beds, while the parents share the bed with other of the smaller children...

i guess sex is more something you do when everyone else is working in the fields, then...

 

[Eilan]

and of course other families i know around here also have tiny houses and usually some of the siblings share beds, while the parents share the bed with other of the smaller children...

I very, VERY rarely let my kids sleep with me. The one exception was when my first marriage imploded a few years back. My oldest daughter was two at the time, and she wanted to sleep with me. It seemed like something that we both needed at the time, but I can't imagine allowing it to continue. Unless, of course, we needed to share a bed out of necessity, and I can't see that happening anytime soon.

My oldest kids share a full-size bed for the time being. They're sometimes a little scared at night. It keeps them from coming into our room!

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Normally I didn't mind my noisy and ambitious up-stairs neighbors. But there was a period of time when I was working 7 days a week and the hours were 12 to 17 hours a day. I needed the fucking sleep.

One night the two of them were apparently attempting to knock down the wall that their headboard was up against. They held a good rhythm of various sound effects for quite a while on a night when I really needed to not hear them.

That next weekend I ran into some of the other neighbors. A couple of them asked about the noise from that apartment and if I was disturbed by it. I looked up and saw that their sliding glass door was open so I figured they were home. I proceeded to explain in detail and with a number of impressions the sounds that I heard from their apartment. I kept the tone of my voice loud enough to still sound somewhat normal, but I also figured they could hear me since sound carried very well in that little courtyard.

The bunch of us had some pretty good laughs at the expense of that couple, and I'm sure they heard all of it. I never heard their activities again after that... during the wee hours of the night, anyway.

 

[Gangrif]

My wife and I started having sex before we were married. Most of the time at her parents place.
Her parents room was right next to her room, an old house with plaster walls.
the walls deadened sound enough just to keep out a lot of the usual sex sounds.
So any... umm.. Outbursts.. werent a good idea. Well i think we managed to keep it up without alerting anyone. Although we did catch her brother standing outside the door trying to listen...
So anyway, now that we're married, we live in half a double house. nice old lady lives next door, i dont know the layout of her house but i can only hope that her bedroom isnt on the other side of the wall from ours. I can hear her talking if the house is quiet enough, i;d immagine that with some of the noises we've made now that we're married, and have our own place, must have caught her attention if she could hear us.
Doesnt bother me though, its a little bit of a turn on knowing that someone might hear us, even if it is just a sweet old lady.
heh.

 

[jacuzzigal]

Two stories.... I shared a wall with a single gal once when I lived in Texas. She was very quiet and seemed very unassuming. We had several conversations and I never saw her with a man. But late at night she would go at it with someone.... I often heard loud grunts and moans and them almost yelling directions at one another in the heat of passion. It was more weird for me because I would have these really normal conversations with her but in the back of my head I was thinking how she screamed "Make me cum, Daddy!" on a regular basis!

The last apartment/townhouse I was in the couple next door used to go at it a lot. But they were not vocal AT ALL. The only way I knew was the rhythmic squeaking of bed springs...

 

[DevilsAngel369]

My neighbors in college used to start having sex at 4:00 am every thursday! You could set your clock by it and ever thursday they would wake me up since the bed would keep banging on my wall. I didnt say anything for a month, then i started hitting a metal can on the wall and screamed at the top of my lungs to "Keep it down".

sorta work, the banging stopped, but her moans didnt. Had to tolerate three months of that! He was a sucky neighbor to begin with, so it was NOT a turn on.

 

[Munachi]

I very, VERY rarely let my kids sleep with me. The one exception was when my first marriage imploded a few years back. My oldest daughter was two at the time, and she wanted to sleep with me. It seemed like something that we both needed at the time, but I can't imagine allowing it to continue. Unless, of course, we needed to share a bed out of necessity, and I can't see that happening anytime soon.

My oldest kids share a full-size bed for the time being. They're sometimes a little scared at night. It keeps them from coming into our room!

I wouldn't either, unless I have to, but I guess in these cases here it is a necessity... I really wonder how the people here cope. But I guess when you grew up with it, it is a bit different...

 

[thrity]

Years ago, I run a small grocery store, we shared a room with another shop, the wall separates us was very thin.
My then girlfriend and I have to have sex on the attic, my sister and three girls working for the other shop live there too. So we had to try our best to be very quite, it really ruined our sex.

 

[BXGemini20]

I got two stories while I was dorming on my college campus. One night I had came back to my room. I was dead tired and I just crashed for the night. I hear one of my roommates come in with a girl. I think my roommate saw I was asleep. Him and his girl get to having sex. Our room have one single and a bunkbed. I'm sleeping on the top bunk. All of sudden I was woken up with what felt like my bed rumble. I hear the moans and groans them. They must have went at for three hours. When i told my roomate about he got a good kick out. Though I wasn't laughing.

Another time, my friends and I are hanging with these girls we know. We just have a mini party. Some music, soda, and light talking. Everyone basically having a good time. Then a friend said he can see a couple having sex in another dorm. We all think this guy is lying. He shows us and this couple was having sex and forgot the close the shutters. EVeryone got a free peep show that night.

 

[Seduce]

My (second) husband gets very turned on if someone can hear us making love..... so he insists that I should be as loud as possible.

So I tend to forget that sometimes I should be quiet........ like when my 18 yrs old daughter was paying me a visit for couple of weeks...... I was very much embarrassed when she came in one morning and asked me (giggling) "Mom..... could you be a bit less loud in the night? You woke me up."

 

[DarkMuse]

I can hear the mexican parents next door doing it. they do it often, loudly, and short. LOL. The guys that live under us can hear them as well. They also have, like, 12 kids or something. LOL. Which explains a lot.

 

[AV guy II]

There was a couple living in the apartment behind me. Every now and then I would hear the headboard knock on our common wall. One night, I heard the familular pound, only with much more gusto. All of a sudden I heard a guy yell "WTF. Why are you letting him fuck your ass when you won't let me?" That really got my attention. As it turned out, she was doing another guy, and he brough his whore home. Long story short, the cops had to break up the fight, and shortly there after I had a new neighbor.