Sex and Danger

[Guest]

Is danger a turn-on?

Have you ever been in a dangerous situation and found yourself turned during or after?

Have you ever been strongly turned on by someone who shared that dangerous situation with you?

I've never been a skiier or surfer or skydiver or motorcyclist etc. If you are a participant in a dangerous sport, do you find members of the opposite sex gravitating to you because of the danger?

Any thoughts on this topic appreciated.

I hate to start a thread, and then not be around to participate, but I am curious about this and am thinking of writing about it.

 

[Selena_Kitt]

Have you seen Crash? (David Cronenberg's, 1996, not the new one).

Kind of explores that idea: Here

 

[zeb1094]

No. Have been in plenty of dangerous situtations. Never got turned on. Was scared shitless, but never turned on. Adrenline was pumping like liquid fire and had the shakes after everything was over, but turned on is not a word I would use to describ what I felt!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Strangely, nearly getting caught playing with my slave when the landlady's 20 year old son was about to come into the room WAS a turn-on. For BOTH of us.

 

[oggbashan]

Is danger a turn-on?

Have you ever been in a dangerous situation and found yourself turned during or after?

Have you ever been strongly turned on by someone who shared that dangerous situation with you?

I've never been a skiier or surfer or skydiver or motorcyclist etc. If you are a participant in a dangerous sport, do you find members of the opposite sex gravitating to you because of the danger?

Once there was a time...

...but that was long ago.

I used to be a volunteer surf lifesaver and took part in competitions as an oarsman in a surf boat. We had groupies who would follow us from competition to competition. A successful result meant that most of the team were turned on, and so were the groupies.

Later I was part of a cliff rescue team, usually the anchorman at the top of the cliff, but also the man on the dangerous end of the line if the weather was stormy or going down into the waves if the sea was rough. Apart from a useful chatline at a party it was no use in attracting the opposite sex. Most of the activity was in remote locations at unsocial hours when the opposite sex was nowhere near. After a rescue my most insistent desire was to get dry, warm and rest.

No woman would ride pillion on any of my motorcycles because I was dangerous. One girlfriend would ride in the single seat sidecar. She liked tipping into the air on left hand bends (right hand in Europe and US). However both of us were turned on by racing cross-country on horseback, over Dartmoor. She always won because her horse had much the lighter load and was a nimble hunter, unlike my mount that was more suitable for carrying a knight in full armour - slowly.

I found some mutual attraction when mountaineering or rockclimbing but the men outnumbered the women by about 10:1 at that time. There are more women involved in both now.

Now all those activities mean I have a damaged back. I try to avoid dangerous situations and dangerous women...

Og

 

[Selena_Kitt]

Later I was part of a cliff rescue team, usually the anchorman at the top of the cliff, but also the man on the dangerous end of the line if the weather was stormy or going down into the waves if the sea was rough.

<---finds it INCREDIBLY hot, actually!!!!

 

[TxRad]

Is danger a turn-on?

Have you ever been in a dangerous situation and found yourself turned during or after?

Have you ever been strongly turned on by someone who shared that dangerous situation with you?

I've never been a skiier or surfer or skydiver or motorcyclist etc. If you are a participant in a dangerous sport, do you find members of the opposite sex gravitating to you because of the danger?

Any thoughts on this topic appreciated.

I hate to start a thread, and then not be around to participate, but I am curious about this and am thinking of writing about it.

Real and true danger...
IMHO probably not.. you're to occupied with saving your own ass or someone else's to have time to get turned on... I spent more than my share of time in Vietnam and sex in the middle of a firefight was the last thing on my mind.

Perceived danger....
That's another thing all together... I've race stock cars and open wheeled cars on dirt and asphalt since my early teens... to me racing isn't dangerous but most people see it that way..

When you win races or even place high, or if you have a close call or an all out tear it to pieces wreck, the ladies flock to you like you wouldn't believe. Nursing you back to health is not the only thing on their minds....

It doesn't turn me on personal when the action is at is peak but it sure seems to turn on the people viewing it... The adrenalin gives me a rush and I have an abundance of energy for a few days after a race. I much more restless and yes sexual to some extent...

On the other hand, my wife was my pit crew and helper on many a race car. I built her one several years before she died.. uh no it wasn't from racing.. On the weeks that she got to race, i always noticed an increase in the number of times we had sex and the, shall we say, increase in her enthusiasm...

Danger stirs up the hormones... that can lead to almost anything and sex is definitely one of them....

 

[Guest]

sex in the middle of a firefight was the last thing on my mind.

True. I should have been more precise. I meant sexual attraction in the aftermath of danger.

 

[TxRad]

True. I should have been more precise. I meant sexual attraction in the aftermath of danger.

That's what I was alluding to when i said the girls flock around the drivers after a race.... The sexual tension is almost thick enough to cut with a knife... another reason the wife always went to the races with me....

 

[Guest]

That's what I was alluding to when i said the girls flock around the drivers after a race.... The sexual tension is almost thick enough to cut with a knife... another reason the wife always went to the races with me....

Thanks Tx.

This is jibing with my expectation, and my personal experience.