Sex Advice?

[Guest]

Aside from reading lots and lots of stories here, does anyone have any good resources for sexual advice? Particularly, my boyfriend wants to learn how to eat pussy better. Of course, I tell him practice makes perfect

, but maybe I can give him a "head" start? Thanks!

 

[Guest]

Dear DD,

Uh...are they really Double D? Got a pic with that? Sorry...habit. Well, for one, make sure your boyfriend finds your magic button, i.e. the clitoris. I found my girlfriends and let me tell you...she's rode me raw. Hope this helps DD...and pictures are a good idea.

 

[Southernhelle]

TELL him. He can read a manual and learn how to technically perform oral sex, but all he's concerned about (or should be anyway..) is pleasing YOU. I've found that some guys take advice as a put down, so if you put it gently, or just be like, that feels good, but if you do THIS it'll drive me nuts...or initiate a little sex education evening. Tell him you want him to show you exactly how HE likes to be sucked, licked, and fondled, then turn around and show him what YOU like. From personal experience, I think it's sometimes hard for a guy to find the clit unless you're already aroused and it's swollen and obvious. Also - don't get frustrated. He's probably not going to get it the first time you show him. Give him porn-like feedback (slutty little moans, cheesy expletives, etc.) that makes it OBVIOUS when he's doing something right. It's important to take your time, too. This isn't like a five minute review. Devote hours to it. Luckily it's a fun thing to teach and learn...

 

[Guest]

DD, feedback is ALWAYS good.. At least with the guys I've been with, one of the things they enjoy most about any sexual experience is knowing that their partner is enjoying herself.. So if he gets the noises he likes, he'll be sure to do that again.

And I have a converse problem.. A guy I'm seeing LOVES a good blowjob (what guy doesn't?).. I've got my tactics, but I -really- want to blow his mind along with his anatomy. Can some guys PLEASE throw me some suggestions?

 

[DCL]

Best advice I ever heard (I think it first came from Sam Kinison) was "Lick the alphabet".

Dixon Carter Lee

 

[Russo]

I personally would advise getting his tongue pierced!! But that's not for everyone. I have mine done and I've bee with women before and after I got mine done and they say there is a DEFINATE difference! But there r a few that prefer I take it out because they like the rough sand-paperery (SP?) sensation. But the BEST advice is...try, try and try it again!!

 

[Guest]

I do this to my girlfriend. I create a a complete suction around her opening, and then lick like mad at that pink button, which I assume is her clit. But don't spend too much time there because it may hurt. Tell him to explore other parts briefly, but then come back too finish you off. The only prob about the suction is that you obviously cant breathe thruogh your mouth, and sometimes the juices can creep up towards my nose, and it makes an odd whistling sound. That could be a turnoff.

 

[Richard Janice]

One of the most reliable and thorough sites for ideas and instruction regarding sex technique and relationships is http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/. The suggestions made at this site are prettymuch amoral and non-judgemental from what I have seen there. Good luck in your search for The Good Time.

 

[Guest]

Thanks everyone...great advice, one and all. I knew you'd all come through for me!

 

[Guest]

My wife likes for me to lick and suck on her while she's on top with me lying on my back. That way it's easier to find her clit as it is pressing down on my lips and tongue. She comes to a much faster orgasm that way, and she says it is also a much more intense sensation. I know it is by the way she vocalizes when she cums [groaning & moaning like crazy]. I love it, and she always sucks my cock afterwards as a reward.
It's so lovely to release a big warm jet of my own cum in her mouth and watch as she rolls it around before swallowing it. Good
luck with all your oral pleasures.

 

[Unclebill]

I found a pretty good write-up on another site (URL below) which gives a pretty good description of how to eat pussy. I learned by experience and consider it the lesson and greatest delicacy ever discovered.

Like the fabled answer to the question, "How do I get to Carnegie Hall?", the answer is "Practice, practice, practice!". I practice every chance I get but unfortnuately those are too few and far between anymore.

Here's the URL: http://www.xxxstories.com/goiggles11/PSYEATG.TXT

Read, enjoy, and practice, practice, . . .

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Ahhhh.....

Back to days gone by.

blue

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Can you spell....

nostalgia? I hope I can.

blue

 

[Siren]

OPPS NEVERMIND

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Siren....

Check out the dates. Its a blast from the past, baby.

blue

 

[Siren]

Holy shit do I feel dumb

 

[Melody_lane]

DCL?

Dixon, was this you in a former literotica life?

[Edited by Melody_lane on 08-23-2000 at 04:09 PM]

 

[Gil]

<stumbling and falling onto thread> OUCH! How the hell did I wind up on this old thread? SIREN.....!

 

[Siren]

DAMN IT GIL.............

 

[Gil]

ooops! k...<shufflin' off>

 

[April]

Damnit, FlamingoBlue!! Knock that shit off!
I got no problem with bringing back a thread
that is maybe a week old, but one from last year?


NO!!!!!!!!!!!! Now stop it! And that goes for
everybody else, too. This shit is not fucking funny!

 

[Never]

April, April, April.
It's all right, really. It's not like he's doing it to annoy. I'm guessing he couldn't find anything to comment on on the current post and he began to shuffle through memory lane and just found a few things he liked.
Here. Have a Mentos, it's a freshmaker.

 

[April]

If this was his first time doing it, I would ignore it. But he's done it several times, and I don't find it funny at all.

 

[April]

BTW Never. I sent you mail yesterday. Did you get it? I'm just checking up.