sex acts, flash card style....

1dom_b

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We've got a game that's fun to play, but needs some spicing up. Looking for idea's for stimulating/super sexy acts for either me or my wife to do.

Last time we tried it, it didn't last long. Mostly cause we skipped through most of it cause it was just pretty tame stuff.... kind of thing that would maybe help 'get in the mood', but were pretty lame once we were both already there, and wanting to play...

We're looking for some raunchy, dirty, and sexy acts that can I can do to my wife, and her to me. Outside of it just involving just me and her, I don't think there is a whole lot we wouldn't entertain, so don't be shy with your ideas.

As a relevant note, we do enjoy BDSM. She is the submissive, I am the dom. So ideas along those lines would be good, but not a prerequisite.... Mostly we are looking for creative acts to drive one another wild...but a little pain as a good measure never hurts...

I don't have the creative juices to come up with much more ideas that vary too far from positions, and oral sex.... I have some, but not enough. Maybe it's cause I love the oral so much.....

Throw out ANYTHING you got.... Anything that works for me and my wife is good....we are willing to look at anything, so fire away...

Thanks!!
 
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We've got a game that's fun to play, but needs some spicing up. Looking for idea's for stimulating/super sexy acts for either me or my wife to do.

Last time we tried it, it didn't last long. Mostly cause we skipped through most of it cause it was just pretty tame stuff.... kind of thing that would maybe help 'get in the mood', but were pretty lame once we were both already there, and wanting to play.

You sound like me. I love new experiences but at the same time I'm not great at coming up with ideas. My wife and I got some cards with things like "What is a fantasy that you've never shared with your lover?" How many times can you answer that?

I like sex that is intimate and simmers. A good hard pounding is always fun, but the biggest sex organ is the brain, followed closely by the skin. Anything that makes us communicate, anticipate, or wait while we focus on each other's arousal is always good. I'd suggest using your cards as a starting point and adding twists to them. Add "Scenario Cards". Kiss your lover for 5 minutes is completely different with restraints and a blindfold. Or kiss her anywhere except her genitals and mouth. Or, with an ice cube in your mouth. Or while one of you is blindfolded. Or while you describe the last time that you made love.

Try them during role play. If she's being a little dominant teasing me then a simple touch can be exquisite if it's done right :) If I'm at the edge then going back to a simple teasing kiss is deliciously hot and frustrating. *fans self*

If you're doing role play then one of you can answer "tell me" questions "in character", make something up, or add a spin to it.

"Get you in the mood" kinds of things are much different if you pick two. "Guess what I'm licking off of your body?" Kissing her nipples might suddenly involve clamps and a vibrator.

This is a great thread. I know those aren't the most exciting ideas, but I'm off to go dig out those cards and start writing ;-)
 
Your flash cards already exist in full form in the Control thread. I'd just pull it up and hit a random page number and the image you see, you do. Flash card. Dont like it? Hit another page. Do it. Make the second image mandatory If you dont like the first. Might add a tinge of fear.

Then you use your own personal experience and tastes to modify the theme. Maybe have some tools toys and props randomly at your disposal.

If the threads in BDSM are a bit light for you, there are other, heavier websites available for ideas.
 
Control is in the Playground. I was saying the pics on randomly selected pages could be the flashcards.

BDSM is an entire section. Plenty there too.
 
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