settle our debate

[txwife594]

Hubby was talking about how much looser I am than a few years ago. I told him people say women can't get loose. He said how come he can basically fist me now but a few years ago all that fit was a few fingers. I don' know how to answer that one. Someone told me I am more relaxed now. Is that any different than loose? Thanks for the answers in advance.

 

[Username_of_Sean]

Increased use does stretch, but also works it out. The result is that you can fit more when you relax, but be tighter when you contract than you could before. Remember, there are muscles there designed to squeeze, and any muscle gets stronger from use. Working out any muscle can also increase that muscle's mass some as well.

Anecdotal:

There are two women that I've fisted, let's call them Amy & Brittany.

Amy is older, at least in her 50s, and has had several kids (now adults). She's very tall and travels the country acting as a demo bottom for fisting and large insertibles demonstrations.

Brittany was 18 at the time, short, with some experience but not a whole lot.

It took more work to get my hand into Amy than Brittany. Brittany simply had wider hips, so there was a wider space between her hip bones. Bones don't move (unless you break them).

Biology has so much more of an effect than usage does.

I didn't have sex with either woman to compare how tight they felt around my penis. Both scenes were pick up play at parties. The girl I'm referring to as "Amy" had just been the demo bottom for a pre-party demonstration of stimulating the anterior fornex with fisting.

 

[Joeknoxville]

After reading many of your other posts describing the things you or someone else has done to your pussy, it's not really that surprising to you, is it?

 

[txwife594]

It is loose and when I cum it doesn't clamp down or anything. He can't feel anything when I cum at all. My ass spasms but not my pussy. He has used many large toys and his hand and activically stretched me more than a few times a week for the past couple of years. That is the debate can you really make a pussy loose or not?

 

[Klinkster]

It's gonna get looser no matter what you do anyway.
It's an age thing, and it doesn't matter....or shouldn't.
Tits sag lower.....
Balls hang lower.....
(They all go for the knees...)
Cocks don't get as hard....and as fast....
Guys cum, and it doesn't break the window behind the bed....and it doesn't flood the room....
Pussies get looser....
They don't slobber girl-cum all over the place like they did....

If there's a 'usage' thing too....doesn't matter....

It's all a matter of taking advantage of what is there!

 

[txwife594]

He has also done something called perineal massage on me. Google it and see what u think. He has been determined to make me loose. So the question is it possible to make someone loose?

 

[Klinkster]

He has also done something called perineal massage on me. Google it and see what u think. He has been determined to make me loose. So the question is it possible to make someone loose?

We're parents....we know about that!
When the Doc told us it would be a good idea, and gave us a pamphlet on how to do it, I was like ......whoa!
That's OK.....did what the Doctor ordered!
Worked for the first baby....not as well with the second. Go figure.

Sounds like your guy is into loose pussies. Something you have to decide if you are OK with.

 

[Domesticity]

Sean answered your question. You actually will get tighter with more stretching because those muscles are getting worked. If big things in your vagina kept it stretched out then people like me who had a 10 pound baby would walk around with permanently gaping vaginas. I have great control and clamp down so hard when I cum that it will almost keep my lover or my dildo from being able to move.

I'm sure if you'd like to risk permanent nerve damage and damage to your pelvic floor then yes, you could permanently make your vagina a gaping, sloppy maw but it would probably also lead to other health problems.

I had a lover who wanted to get his hand in me but couldn't because of my bones. I read a lot.about it. I also found kink sites particularly for people who were into stretching and gaping. You might find the answers you're specifically looking for on a forum more focused on that kink.