dylanr7719
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Hello all,
This is my first thread but I've been an active reader for quite a while. I really enjoy the points of view expressed here and thought I might find some good insight to my particular problem from a like-minded group.
Okay...
The problem is the sexual relationship with my wife. Don't worry, I'm not here to talk crap about her. She and I have been together for 6 years, married 3. We are both in our mid-30s and a perfect pair in practically every way. On top of everything, she is beautiful. Beautiful in the way real women are beautiful, with loving eyes, round hips and breasts and lovely/long reddish brown hair. Being physically attracted to eachother is not the problem.
Sadly, our sex life is dull and inconsistent. Prior to our meeting I was very very experienced in many ways (very open sexually and quite a few partners...maybe too many in retrospect). She had only been with 3 men. While the beginning of our relationship was filled with the kind of sex new partners have, I started to get the feeling I was doing nothing but taking. She'd have orgasms, but I almost felt I had to force her to have them.
Example, I'm a huge fan of eating pussy and have always had success with my lovers in that department. One time I had given her head for like half an hour and had her very worked up. I had my fingers inside of her and could feel her swelling, ready to burst. She came HARD, gushed all over me. It was great. However, she's never let me get her to that point again. She says she feels like "she has to pee" and every time I get her worked up she'll stop the action.
There are numerous examples of this kind of behavior. Behavior that in the past with other women were signs of the sex being great, but with her they seem negative. She's very giving and will always "let me take her", but thats her attitude towards it, that I get to do what I want and my happiness comes first. When I try to satisfy her, she pulls back.
Before I go on, I have talked to her about this. I have asked her to show me what to do, how to touch her the way she likes in case I'm not. I've begged her to let me please her, but it all seems to no avail. She seems perfectly happy to just let me fuck her until I cum, with the very occasional blow job. It just doesn't seem important to her.
Now, she does masturbate so she's not asexual and she will bring herself to orgasm, but what kind I don't know.
Sex has always been a huge part of my life, but so is she. I want us to have a great sex life but I am at a loss on how to keep working at it.
I'm happy to answer any questions that may help with your advice. PM me or post to thread.
Really excited for your insights.
D
This is my first thread but I've been an active reader for quite a while. I really enjoy the points of view expressed here and thought I might find some good insight to my particular problem from a like-minded group.
Okay...
The problem is the sexual relationship with my wife. Don't worry, I'm not here to talk crap about her. She and I have been together for 6 years, married 3. We are both in our mid-30s and a perfect pair in practically every way. On top of everything, she is beautiful. Beautiful in the way real women are beautiful, with loving eyes, round hips and breasts and lovely/long reddish brown hair. Being physically attracted to eachother is not the problem.
Sadly, our sex life is dull and inconsistent. Prior to our meeting I was very very experienced in many ways (very open sexually and quite a few partners...maybe too many in retrospect). She had only been with 3 men. While the beginning of our relationship was filled with the kind of sex new partners have, I started to get the feeling I was doing nothing but taking. She'd have orgasms, but I almost felt I had to force her to have them.
Example, I'm a huge fan of eating pussy and have always had success with my lovers in that department. One time I had given her head for like half an hour and had her very worked up. I had my fingers inside of her and could feel her swelling, ready to burst. She came HARD, gushed all over me. It was great. However, she's never let me get her to that point again. She says she feels like "she has to pee" and every time I get her worked up she'll stop the action.
There are numerous examples of this kind of behavior. Behavior that in the past with other women were signs of the sex being great, but with her they seem negative. She's very giving and will always "let me take her", but thats her attitude towards it, that I get to do what I want and my happiness comes first. When I try to satisfy her, she pulls back.
Before I go on, I have talked to her about this. I have asked her to show me what to do, how to touch her the way she likes in case I'm not. I've begged her to let me please her, but it all seems to no avail. She seems perfectly happy to just let me fuck her until I cum, with the very occasional blow job. It just doesn't seem important to her.
Now, she does masturbate so she's not asexual and she will bring herself to orgasm, but what kind I don't know.
Sex has always been a huge part of my life, but so is she. I want us to have a great sex life but I am at a loss on how to keep working at it.
I'm happy to answer any questions that may help with your advice. PM me or post to thread.
Really excited for your insights.
D
