Separation Sex

[mrdalliard]

I'm in the process of a separation at the moment. After chatting to a few of my mates, I've come to a conclusion. Sex with your [soon to be ex]-partner is virtually always brilliant!

Anyone got any ideas why that might be ? This has happened to me before and I thought it was just unusual, but now I'm starting to scratch my head and wonder. Chatting to a friend a few nights ago, he confirmed the same theory when discussing sex with his ex.

Any ideas ? Is it just that you appreciate it more ? Is it something to do with the condition of the brain and the sense ? What indeed ?!

Thanks for your time.

M.

 

[Guest]

For some strange reason, my ex and I had the best sex of our lives a month after we split apart. Why that is, I don't know.

 

[TN_Vixen]

I'll take a stab at it

When you're a couple you carry a lot of baggage with you into the bedroom. "Damn he left the f'n toilet seat up AGAIN- now he wants to get naked..." that combined with whatever inhibitions or need to please feelings you may have causes you to be less free sexually than you normally would be and subsequently sex is less pleasurable.

Take the relationship away and focus on sex and there's no baggage. You're free to be selfish, free to be wild, free to focus on pleasure instead of petty little resentments that build up over the course of the day/week. In addition to that, you have the familiarity of one another's bodies so there's no awkwardness.