My biggest erotic turn-on is provided by spanking - not the hard punishment stuff you often read about - but very erotic spanking and lots of sensual massage as foreplay. Can even manage without the spanking. I'm a male who loves foreplay!!! Basically I like female company. I'd much rather spend an evening chatting with one or more ladies than with a bunch of guys. I'm 50+ and live in London's Barbican cultural complex and would love to meet any ladies who may also be interested. I'm sane, civilised, cultured - and still employed running a publishing company (engineering).