Sensitivity

[Sendry]

Hi Everyone!

I haven't done much posting...but I know the whole routine, and I need some advice...

I'm 25, a female and a virgin...not really a big deal. This weekend I ended up "living it up" a bit...I hooked up with a guy I was working with. Pretty surprising for me since that's not my style at all...actually I've been feeling a bit like a man-repellant. Anyway...one minute he's Hottie McHot Pants...the next...Hottie McNo Pants! And it was nice and fun...and the best part about it was that I got to leave...no big emotional attachment...just a general physical attraction and fun. Sorry...I'm rambling...

so, the question is...there was lots of touching and kissing and sucking...but I didn't enjoy it as much I thought I would have. It being my first time actually doing more than just kissing a guy I would have thought my body would have been tingling from his touch..but I wasn't..so I'm wondering about my sensitivity level...is it weird that I didn't jump at his touch? Could it have been that I wasn't totally connected to it? I don't know...it was just a bit weird and surprising how I DIDN'T feel.

I hope this makes some semblance of sense..any thoughts are greatly welcome!

Thanks!

 

[Cerberus666]

perhaps you'd enjoy it playing for the OTHER team?

 

[Sendry]

I had thought about that before this...but I'm just not attracted to women.

 

[Cerberus666]

hmmm. well then, maybe he wasnt doin it right.

 

[Guest]

Hi Everyone!

I haven't done much posting...but I know the whole routine, and I need some advice...

I'm 25, a female and a virgin...not really a big deal. This weekend I ended up "living it up" a bit...I hooked up with a guy I was working with. Pretty surprising for me since that's not my style at all...actually I've been feeling a bit like a man-repellant. Anyway...one minute he's Hottie McHot Pants...the next...Hottie McNo Pants! And it was nice and fun...and the best part about it was that I got to leave...no big emotional attachment...just a general physical attraction and fun. Sorry...I'm rambling...

so, the question is...there was lots of touching and kissing and sucking...but I didn't enjoy it as much I thought I would have. It being my first time actually doing more than just kissing a guy I would have thought my body would have been tingling from his touch..but I wasn't..so I'm wondering about my sensitivity level...is it weird that I didn't jump at his touch? Could it have been that I wasn't totally connected to it? I don't know...it was just a bit weird and surprising how I DIDN'T feel.

I hope this makes some semblance of sense..any thoughts are greatly welcome!

Thanks!

Do you have any feelings of attraction towards this opportunist?

 

[Blindinthedark]

I can't speak from experience since I'm not a woman but:

have you concidered that you have to "learn" what feels good with another person. First contact is great. It's exciting but sometimes it takes a bit to figure out what each person wants.

 

[Problem Child]

Hottie McHot pants?

Sweetie, it's time for you to put up your Lego's and scoot off to bed.

 

[Nora]

Ok, first off "Hottie McHot Pants" is the cutest thing I've ever read. I'm going to be stealing that, so thanks in advance.

Secondly, you're not required to feel any particular way. I mean, the first time you do ANYTHING is always weird and different and new, so you have a lot more sifting through your mind than just "omg that's it! there! there!"

That stuff comes with relaxation, and there's no way to relax doing *anything* the first time, whether it be uh..sexual in nature or not. But sexual stuff is even weirder cuz you have an audience lookin' at (or at least touching) what's been formerly private spaces.

Additionally, it doesn't sound like there was much a romantic interest in Hottie McHot Pants (I love that!!) anyway, so why would you expect to disassociate from the mechanics into the romantic sensation of it all?

Wait 'til you find someone with whom it feels right, and your responses will likely be far different. At least once you're used to him and the newness rubs off a smidge.

So relax..don't fret over it. It'll happen when it's right and good for it to happen.

 

[His_kitty]

I'm curious if you had been drinking that night ...... that could have something to do with it.

 

[Nora]

Hottie McHot pants?

Sweetie, it's time for you to put up your Lego's and scoot off to bed.

Shush you! I like Hottie McHot Pants! You're just jealous cuz nobody's calling you that!

Although, lemme be the first!

PC...you are SUCH a Hottie McHot Pants!! *snicker* hehe That was FUN!

 

[Bidin~Time]

Shush you! I like Hottie McHot Pants! You're just jealous cuz nobody's calling you that!

Although, lemme be the first!

PC...you are SUCH a Hottie McHot Pants!! *snicker* hehe That was FUN!

I think it should be his new title...or sig line....or maybe both!




p.s. Sounds as though you just had a case of the first time jitters. Chemistry and attraction are always important.

 

[digitalmedia]

It will be different when you are in total lust for him, and you just want him to ram his fat fuck rod up your throbbing wet pussy. Once you've been fucked hard, and put away wet there is no turning back.

Once is never enough

 

[Sendry]

Re: Re: Sensitivity

Do you have any feelings of attraction towards this opportunist?

Oh...absolutely...but I guess I was afraid of leading him on...there was certainly no sex going to take place and I was pretty clear on that point with him, which he was cool with...that didn't exactly stop him from trying...and although he tried...he was still very respectful

 

[Sendry]

I can't speak from experience since I'm not a woman but:

have you concidered that you have to "learn" what feels good with another person. First contact is great. It's exciting but sometimes it takes a bit to figure out what each person wants.

never thought of it that way...
I guess I figured that if there was an attraction that everything would be pretty electric...

 

[Sendry]

It will be different when you are in total lust for him, and you just want him to ram his fat fuck rod up your throbbing wet pussy. Once you've been fucked hard, and put away wet there is no turning back.

Once is never enough

What else can I say...but WOW

 

[Sendry]

Ok, first off "Hottie McHot Pants" is the cutest thing I've ever read. I'm going to be stealing that, so thanks in advance.

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I can't complete credit for it...but it is fun...especially when you are trying to talk in code around people.