Sensation Play Help please

[wahoo33]

Hi Everyone,

Long time lurker here. I am looking for some suggestions for sensory play. Here is the scenario/context.
I'd like to tie up my wife on the bed, blind fold her and put headphones on her. White noise (static) could be playing - the point is for her not to be able to see, hear or move much. Then I would like to play sensory games with her. I'm looking for suggestions for touch, smell and taste. And example of smell might be fresh basil - that stuff smells so good it's almost erotic by itself! An example of touch might be a goose quill traced down the back of her thigh. Taste, fruit, chocolate ect.
I think this game could be highly erotic and a fun way to spice things up!
So please give me some good tactile suggestions. If you have a suggestion for the earphones I'd love to hear it as well.

Thanks everyone!

 

[NippleMuncher]

Sounds like it could be a fun diversion, just make sure the wife is up for what you've described before subjecting her to it.

 

[LoneOne]

I recommend some of the following:

put an Ice-cube in your mouth and breath over her skin
drink some hot water and do the same

if she is not able to move, lock out for some stones, aluminium foil, pepples and some other small objects. You can put some of them on her body (stones and squeezed aluminium foil are good for this) and the other objects can roll over her body (you can put them in cold or warm water bevor using them to get different results, works well with some marbles).

For something along the line of smell... I love tea and some flowers... spices? Mint, eucalyptus... I love spices but I always beginn to think about cooking and not sex when I smell spices...

 

[wahoo33]

Nipplemuncher, first of all I always smile when I see your avatar! Makes me laugh everytime!
Wife should be up for it. She isn't too wild, but a little light bondage and a sensual tactile experience should be well received. If she isn't into to I'll call her sister. (just kidding)
Lone, I love your suggestions - all of them. Aluminum Foil, heated or frozen marbles, ice... perfect those suggestions are just what I'm looking for.

My hope is to provide a sensual experience that is tactile but not overtly sexual at first. The light bondage should carry enough sexual energy so that I can be subtle. No need to go right for the shot on goal, if I can provide her a slow burn, a passionate experience that is enhanced by her lack of sight, movement and hearing I think it will be a memorable night! A goose quill traced down her leg versus a vibe straight to the clit is what I'm going for. If I do the goose quill right, in the right places, and allow the expectation and tension to build... oh wow it will be a memorable night.

Keep the suggestions coming please!

 

[RagingWillard]

Instead of headphones with white noise (which may or may not be a form of torture) try ear muffs/plugs instead. They will block out her hearing without having an obtrusive noise in her ears allowing her to focus on the touch/taste/smell.

 

[qrayze]

Instead of headphones with white noise (which may or may not be a form of torture) try ear muffs/plugs instead. They will block out her hearing without having an obtrusive noise in her ears allowing her to focus on the touch/taste/smell.

yeah, I agree


I love the idea of what you want to do, but as someone who gets distracted easily, the white noise would drive me nuts.

as far as tactile sensations go...buy some cat toys like the little rubber balls that have nubs all over them, and roll them on her body.

 

[wahoo33]

Rage and Grey,

Thank you for the reply, both your ideas are great. With respect to the headphones versus ear plugs... I was thinking some jazz, maybe Miles Davis. It's all instrumental and less distracting than something with vocals. Anyway, all I'm going for is a comfortable lack of hearing. As long as you do not reccomend Limbaugh I'll appreciate your answers.

Cat toys with little spikes - naughty! I like the cut of your jib buddy!

 

[old_scratch]

Hi Everyone,

Long time lurker here. I am looking for some suggestions for sensory play. Here is the scenario/context.
I'd like to tie up my wife on the bed, blind fold her and put headphones on her. White noise (static) could be playing - the point is for her not to be able to see, hear or move much. Then I would like to play sensory games with her. I'm looking for suggestions for touch, smell and taste. And example of smell might be fresh basil - that stuff smells so good it's almost erotic by itself! An example of touch might be a goose quill traced down the back of her thigh. Taste, fruit, chocolate ect.
I think this game could be highly erotic and a fun way to spice things up!
So please give me some good tactile suggestions. If you have a suggestion for the earphones I'd love to hear it as well.

Thanks everyone!

You have a good idea, and it can be a lot of sensual fun. You can bring a woman to an intense orgasm by limiting some of her sensory input, (from her 5 senses), while heightening others.

White noise might be ok, but I prefer music. Don’t select a piece of music because you like it, or even because she likes it, select a piece of music because of how she responds to the sound emotionally.

Personally, I like to use classical music. Start with something like Pachelbel’s canon. When done by the right symphony, it is a deeply spiritual and relaxing piece, and in the beginning you want to put her into a very relaxed emotional state. Before hand, record the music you are going to use in a continuous soundtrack so you won’t be interrupted by the end of a song. Then progressively, use more sensual and arousing music until you reach something like Ravel’s Bolero. Your prepared soundtrack should steadily increase in tempo and excitement.

Some of the music on the original soundtrack of Fantasia from the 1940’s works quite well. I have even found some women, (when she is ready to ejaculate, or squirt), becomes very sexually excited by Iron Butterfly’s In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida. The point is, start slow and help her relax, then as the tempo increases, stimulate body keeping time with the music until she reaches a fever-pitched orgasm. The sound should be light, never overpowering.

Aroma in the air is important, but the aroma of some type of food or spice may make her hungry, and you don’t want that. Use something romantic. I like Lavender, but not everyone does. There should be just a hint of the fragrance in the air, but not overpowering. Think romantic and stimulating.

Blindfolded is good. Denying her sensory input of vision forces her to focus on her other senses, the senses you are going to stimulate to bring her to orgasm. Restrained, or tied-up is usually good. When a woman approaches orgasm, she naturally wants to move, and if she is restrained, she will begin to struggle against her restraints. Some woman when restrained during orgasm, will become even more aroused. Restraints work for some women, but not every woman. Don't use restraints that are rough or chafing.

Now the hard part: learning to stimulate her erogenous zones, (spots). Regardless of what you read on the internet, not every woman responds to physical/sexual stimulation in the same way. You have to learn where your lady’s sexually sensitive spots are, and this takes time and practice. For some women, their lips are sensitive to light touch, as are their ears and neck. Usually the skin on the tummy is sexually sensitive. There is a place on her lower back, just above her butt. Also, the skin on the inside of her thighs. Some women’s feet are sexually sensitive, other women, their feet are just ticklish. Learn how to turn her on with touch well beforehand. Stimulation should be done lightly, teasingly and sensually. It takes practice. You have a wife: practice!

Taste. Whatever her favorite treat, (chocolate, fruit, whatever), when you stimulate her lips with your fingertip, smear a little on your fingertip and wipe it on her lips. Not enough for her to swallow, just enough to give her a teasing taste. Remember, you are stimulating.

Another way to help her relax in a sensual way is how you stimulate her nipples and areolas. In the beginning, don’t stimulate her nipples like you are trying to arouse her, stimulate her nipples and areolas as if you are milking her, or like she is being suckled. As the music plays, and she is milked in this way, after a few minutes, she will drift into a deep state of relaxation, (slightly aroused), that makes it easier for you to control her sexual sensitivity. This also takes practice to get it right.

When you stimulate her body, with light touch, stimulate her body as if you are playing a fine musical instrument. Make your stimulation keep time with the music. Learn to play her sexual sensitivity like you are playing a fine musical instrument.

When the music has reaches it sensual fever-pitch, begin stimulating either, or both, her clit and G-spot. She should have had multiple, minor orgasms by this point, but there is one orgasm that a woman can have that can almost make her pass out. It is at the height of sensual ecstacy that you want to bring her to this orgasm. If she is restrained, she can tense her body against the restraints and help force this orgasm. Her body may get very tensed physically, but as long as she in not in distress, she is ok.

If you are stimulating her G-spot, stimulate it in time with the music. When she orgasms, the music should be at its peak of excitement. Again, it takes practice. Play her G-spot in time with the music like you are playing a fine musical instrument.

When she has this last, intense orgasm while you are stimulating her G-spot, she is likely going to squirt. If she has never ejaculated, (squirted), before, talk to her about it before hand. The first time, she will initially feel like she is going to pee, and when this happens, she will instantly turn off. Assure her it is not urine, rather it is a clear ejaculate fluid. It is odorless and does not stain.

It takes time and practice to bring a woman to this intense orgasm, so don’t be disappointed if everything doesn’t happen on the first try. Also, using sensuous massage oil can sometimes help. Don’t want to chafe her skin and turn her off.

 

[locomotionlotion]

I think a good set of ear plugs would be more comfortable than head phones with white noise. Unless you are trying to subject her ears to torment for your pleasure.

 

[silverwhisper]

wahoo: i see that loneone has suggested temperature play. along those lines: there's a reason glass dildos are popular. they're expensive, but might be of some interest to you.

i agree that sensory deprivation (e.g., blindfold or earplugs, as suggested by ragingwillard) can have salutary effects. sensory deprivation is more of a thing in BDSM circles, i believe.

i understand that our sense of smell is wired most directly to our memory. you could try making some use of that detail as well.

all right, i don't really have much to add here.

ed

 

[NomadLady]

If you want a good music suggestion, purchase "No Words" by Jim Brickman...it would be perfect for this type of experience!!!!!

I just burned a copy for my massage therapist because the pan flute crap he was playing drove me nuts after a few times and I wasn't really able to relax.