Self-inflicted Pain

[sbj]

Hi,

I have recently split up with my partner of 4 years, who although not into BDSM per se, she did used to indulge me with my submissive/masochistic tendencies, through spanking, caning, strap-on and ball beating. Now the level that we went to was never really enough for me, although that is probably more my fault than hers to be fair...

I am looking for some guidance as to what I can do to myself to inflict (quite a lot of) pain on my arse/cock/balls etc whilst on my own?

Thanks

J.

 

[Dogwalker]

Tried the toilet seat?

 

[FurryFury]

It seems to me any number of toys could be used solo. Cock cages and such. Whatever you fancy.

Just be careful about solo bondage if you try that. You have to be certain you can get to the key, knife, or untie those knots and get yourself out of them.

You can certainly spank your ass, balls or cock with any number of items. It isn't the same as when another does it but it can be very relieving and nice to spank yourself. Ping pong paddles are great! Practice helps a lot!

You can absolutely fuck your own ass with toys!

Also you could try munches or play parties in your area, perhaps. I don't know much about them but it's worth a try.

I wish you well.

Fury

 

[sbj]

Thanks Fury, I will try a ping pong paddle! The problem I tend to have is I can't be so harsh with myself, I just need more willpower I suppose...

Fucking my arse with toys is something I have, and will continue to do

What can I do "solo-bondage" wise?!

Any other ideas about pain i can self inflict?

cheers,

SBJ

 

[FurryFury]

Run a fantasy through your head. Imagine it's whomever or whatever you truly wish were giving you the pain then keep at it until it hurts right.

I don't know much about solo bondage. The most I've ever done was make rope "hand cuffs." Someone else will have to help you with that.

I have a nice little flogger that is great on am ass, clit or puss, I'm sure it would be on a cock too. I tried a broken yard stick yesterday, it perked me right up.

Clothes pins are fun and ouchy.

Hair brushes.

You can also have fun with temperature stuff.

Look around the house, I'm sure you can find much more.

Fury

 

[the captians wench]

Run a fantasy through your head. Imagine it's whomever or whatever you truly wish were giving you the pain then keep at it until it hurts right.

I don't know much about solo bondage. The most I've ever done was make rope "hand cuffs." Someone else will have to help you with that.

I have a nice little flogger that is great on am ass, clit or puss, I'm sure it would be on a cock too. I tried a broken yard stick yesterday, it perked me right up.

Clothes pins are fun and ouchy.

Hair brushes.

You can also have fun with temperature stuff.

Look around the house, I'm sure you can find much more.

Fury

I was thinking clothes pegs. They are lovely little devices. There's also a vast number of different type clamps you can buy at the hard ware store. I also found that I could easily get in and out of my sportscuffs. they're velcro and have a clip on them so I could release and lock them on to a lot of different things around the house. Not sure how much that really helps. I also found out that I could tie myself nicely with the plastic pull ties, but they are very hard to get out of.

 

[sbj]

hmmm thanks, I will keep you updated with anything I find/use!

What sort of temperature things can I do?

Thanks,

SBJ

 

[AngelicAssassin]

What can I do "solo-bondage" wise?!
SBJ

Either get Netzach in this thread, or send her a PM.

 

[FurryFury]

hmmm thanks, I will keep you updated with anything I find/use!

What sort of temperature things can I do?

Thanks,

SBJ

I would LOVE updates! Yesss!

Check out this thread about temp play though it's certainly not all inclusive of the possibilities.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=357866

Oh and you also might want to check out this one about "figging" which I hope to update soon.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=350814

Fury

PS, Plastic ties scare me for solo play, I wouldn't advise it.