Seeking for some ideas.

[katalynn]

Hi Everyone ... Very Long time no see!!! I have found my Master and my mate for life.

I have a question though. It is an extremly broad question. I know the typical answer that I will most likely get. Hopefully, I can get what I'm looking for here. Lit has never let me down before!!


Question ~

I am lookin for new ideas that I can put into my own creative ways to please Master. What are some of the things that pleases the Master here? Not the everyday things, spontaneous type stuff. Something that your slave just kind of sprung on you but you liked it.


Typical answers ~

It all depends what your Master likes. If you don't know what he likes, find out and go from there. Be creative. ~


Well.. I do know what my Master likes. I'm just simply seeking for fresh and different ideas that will keep him guessing and on his toes. I love being creative and I love to please Master. I also love to seek out different ways to please him.

Thank you

Kat ~

 

[FurryFury]

Sorry, I'm blank.

 

[katalynn]

OK... I'm giving up I guess... For some reason this seems to be more difficult that it seems.


Different ideas of how to please your Partner?!?!? Gee.. that's a real tuff question. Yea, I know this statement is rude. But for some strange reason I can't get the point across.. to me it seems like a simple question..

Slave sucks on me with ice in her mouth and you didn't know she had the ice...

Come home slave is kneeling on the floor before you....

Slave somehow tied herself up and is waiting patiently for you....

Had a nice hot bath with candles lit all around it, pampered me the whole night...

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This is the kind of things I'm looking for... Not the everyday stuff... off the wall, out of the blue type things.. Trying to gain more ideas of what would please a Master.

But.. I guess... it's to much to ask for... Pretty much got the same response from another forum..

See ya guys around.. I'll keep seeking for my answers somehow...

Kat ~

 

[CutieMouse]

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[katalynn]

which is why i'm giving up....

It didn't have to be sexually.. I know it's an extremly broad question. But the broad question normally bring many different ideas. In this case though...



Sorry to have wasted this space and time...


Kat ~

 

[myinnerslut]

some things ill do for A that i think fits your question

~write him a letter or send him a cute card, just becuase

~bake him cookies just becuase, particularly the ones i know are his favorite

~take pictures or a video of me doing something he would like

~learn a new massage technique to surprise him

is that the kind of thing your looking for?

 

[Netzach]

Most of my interaction with my top at yearend, always an insane time, involves him venting over things he feels he can't vent over to other people because he's an uptight Norwegian and it's not OK to not be OK among his peeps. Whereas I actually find him sexier when he's complaining. So venting time is a thing that is nice for him, and reminding him that it's not an imposition on me and I want to listen to him.

 

[CutieMouse]

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[katalynn]

yes, these are the types of things I'm looking for.

Thank you for the responses.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Well.. I do know what my Master likes. I'm just simply seeking for fresh and different ideas that will keep him guessing and on his toes. I love being creative and I love to please Master. I also love to seek out different ways to please him.

Thank you

Kat ~

I seriously doubt your Master has my hang-ups, but, on the off chance that he does, if your Master is anything at all like me:

Do NOT try to keep me guessing.
Do NOT try to keep me on my toes.
Do NOT try to surprise me, even "nice" surprises make me angry. In other words, in my life there is no such thing as a nice surprise.

I get enough surprises in my employment to aggrevate the living hell out of me. What I want at home is peace, quiet, tranquility, and above all else, predictability. I want routine. I want DULL. When I want something new or different, I will tell you.

Don't give me gifts except on my birthday and at Christmas. Gifts at any other time are viewed with suspicion - "What have they done NOW?" "Okay, what do they want in return?" are my first reactions to gifts given at any other time. I have FINALLY reached the point where I can say "Thank you" for unexpected gifts instead of reacting in anger and getting ugly about getting them. But receiving an unexpected gift still makes me feel uncomfortable as all hell.

If you have to exercise creativity, make it quiet creativity. Do NOT expect me to ooh and aah over it. I might say "Very nice" or "Thank you, I appreciate that." and that's all the reaction I will give you. It's been noticed, but really, what I want is seamless, _unnoticeable_, service. A foot massage or back rub is nice. Sit at my feet in companionable silence, your head on my leg... Polish my boots... Prepare a favorite meal.

Yes, I am an odd duck, contrary as hell and in many ways anti-social. I cover it well in public. In private I don't want to have to cover it up. Expect me to be anti-social and deal with it.

As I said, I highly doubt your Master is much like me. But there you have some of what THIS particular Master is looking for.

 

[CutieMouse]

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[intothewoods]

Don't give me gifts except on my birthday and at Christmas. Gifts at any other time are viewed with suspicion - "What have they done NOW?" "Okay, what do they want in return?" are my first reactions to gifts given at any other time. I have FINALLY reached the point where I can say "Thank you" for unexpected gifts instead of reacting in anger and getting ugly about getting them. But receiving an unexpected gift still makes me feel uncomfortable as all hell.

Really? Hm, that makes me sad, EG. I mean, not from a D/s perspective. Just personal, I guess. Are there nice thingsd people can do for you that make you happy?