Seeing wife with another man

[dashd]

I don’t know if this qualifies as a fetish or just fantasy, but I have an overwhelming desire to see my wife used by another man while I watch and later have sloppy seconds. This fantasy starts by having my wife tied spread eagle to the bed and then blindfolded. I leave the room telling her I’m getting some toys and that when I return I will not speak. I leave the room to return a few minutes later with some toys, a bucket of ice and another gentlemen. He is already naked as he enters the room. Using the ice and toys, I begin to stimulate her more sensitive parts running the ice over her nipple sand clit and playing with some toys. Then after about ten minutes of play I allow the other gentleman to take over while I watch and remain fully clothed. As her squirming increases he eventually slides his cock into her mouth still teasing her clit with the ice. As she becomes increasingly stimulated she begs to be fucked and he obliges. After some hot fucking as the both begin to climax I remove my wife’s blindfold and as she cums she realizes, because I am still clothed that this stranger has been the one pleasuring her. Of course I take her afterwards.
My question is how many women would enjoy this? I kind of want to take a poll before I try this for real.

 

[Fmature2play]

Need some advice on how to make this a reality? Start by forgetting your anniversary and then her birthday. Show very little (if any) appreciation for her efforts and NEVER ever compliment her on how she looks or notice her hair when she gets it cut. After that, lie around on the couch all day on your day off and don't even think about asking her to see what she would like to do. Finally, drive a wedge between her and her friends because of a complete lack of self security and ...voila, SOON you should be able to see her with another man.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Actually, start by talking to her about it.

If you spring it on her without any warning, you will have a rough time all the way through to the end of your divorce.

And then your wife will post comments like the ones fmature2play has been posting all over the place.

 

[PhilGarlic]

Lol

Need some advice on how to make this a reality? Start by forgetting your anniversary and then her birthday. Show very little (if any) appreciation for her efforts and NEVER ever compliment her on how she looks or notice her hair when she gets it cut. After that, lie around on the couch all day on your day off and don't even think about asking her to see what she would like to do. Finally, drive a wedge between her and her friends because of a complete lack of self security and ...voila, SOON you should be able to see her with another man.

LOL yeah I have the same fetish? but know deep down if it were to hapen it would be the end of our long and happy marrage, lot of truth in the quote above, but we can dream though!

 

[Fmature2play]

And then your wife will post comments like the ones fmature2play has been posting all over the place. [/QUOTE]

Stella you take this place much much too seriously. There are bigger tragedies in life than 99% of the things posted on Lit. (discrimination issues excluded) Most of my posts are written with my tongue firmly in my cheek. Laughter is my pressure release valve. As for posts "like the ones fmature has been posting all over the place", prolly won't stop anytime soon.

 

[littlekumu]

alot of married men have this fantasy... just be careful with it

 

[shadowheaven]

Look up this...

Cuckold

My hubby recently came to me and told me that he is a cuckold. I was like ummm what??? This was a week ago about. I have learned some on it. He has been in this fantasy for a good amount of yrs. I am using this to my advantage and doing what I want to do which is D/s.

He wants me to humilate him and I am not used to it. So taking a Domme role is the best way to come about it for me.

We have not done this in real life but with my toys. I have several large toys and we play it out that way. I am not sure I want to do the real life and same as him at this moment but he knows what he likes and I will do my best to please as he is doing his best as my sub.

You need to have an open communication with your wife. And if this is something you are in you need to stress to her that you LOVE her and value her but this is a fantasy you would like to play out regardless if its real life or with toys only.

 

[twister947]

... posts "like the ones fmature has been posting all over the place", prolly won't stop anytime soon.

Jeezus, I hope not!

 

[LindsayRae]

Laughter is my pressure release valve.

I thought your nipples were. Ya know, like you press one and steam comes out or something?

 

[Fmature2play]

Play with them too much and yes something will be flowing but it won't be from my nips.

 

[LindsayRae]

So, they are your pressure release valves! I was right.

 

[Boundlife]

Need some advice on how to make this a reality? Start by forgetting your anniversary and then her birthday. Show very little (if any) appreciation for her efforts and NEVER ever compliment her on how she looks or notice her hair when she gets it cut. After that, lie around on the couch all day on your day off and don't even think about asking her to see what she would like to do. Finally, drive a wedge between her and her friends because of a complete lack of self security and ...voila, SOON you should be able to see her with another man.

could work for the first half. Do you have a plan to get her to let him watch and sex with him after?
That would be impressive.
(I challenge you )

Sorry dashd, there are no tricks, only talking.

 

[Pantylvr88]

I too have this fantasy. Turns me on to think of her with someone else

 

[Stella_Omega]

Stella you take this place much much too seriously. There are bigger tragedies in life than 99% of the things posted on Lit. (discrimination issues excluded)

Who are you to decide exactly how seriously I should take this place? Those bigger things have a million forums dedicated to them.
That's why people come here instead of those other places-- because this is the place they can talk about sex. Why are you here?

Most of my posts are written with my tongue firmly in my cheek. Laughter is my pressure release valve. As for posts "like the ones fmature has been posting all over the place", prolly won't stop anytime soon.

There can be a fine line between "tongue in cheek" and trolldom. I'm seeing you not notice it more and more often.

 

[TheLM]

I have fantasized about being the 3rd in one of these situations.. I don't like the label of "Bull," but to allow a couple to experience something fresh and new and to be a part of that is really erotic to me. (Never done it before, though, and not sure if I could handle it emotionally if I tried)

 

[littlekumu]

yes it's so nasty and so thrilling to fantasize about. i love it when she gets visably attracted to a guy, how she acts, getting silly, laughing with him, or sitting next to him on the couch, knowing that she feels that way about another man....

 

[Joankraig]

The scenario is great - I would be very hot. However, I would want to know about it a head of time. Some surprises durning sex are not good.

I don’t know if this qualifies as a fetish or just fantasy, but I have an overwhelming desire to see my wife used by another man while I watch and later have sloppy seconds. This fantasy starts by having my wife tied spread eagle to the bed and then blindfolded. I leave the room telling her I’m getting some toys and that when I return I will not speak. I leave the room to return a few minutes later with some toys, a bucket of ice and another gentlemen. He is already naked as he enters the room. Using the ice and toys, I begin to stimulate her more sensitive parts running the ice over her nipple sand clit and playing with some toys. Then after about ten minutes of play I allow the other gentleman to take over while I watch and remain fully clothed. As her squirming increases he eventually slides his cock into her mouth still teasing her clit with the ice. As she becomes increasingly stimulated she begs to be fucked and he obliges. After some hot fucking as the both begin to climax I remove my wife’s blindfold and as she cums she realizes, because I am still clothed that this stranger has been the one pleasuring her. Of course I take her afterwards.
My question is how many women would enjoy this? I kind of want to take a poll before I try this for real.

 

[jimmynich]

Would be amazing!!!!!!!!!!! To see her nibbling and sucking on another mans cock and taking him all the way before a cum frenzied finale!! Yes please but just got to convince the Mrs now!!!!!!

 

[CanCuple]

SOON you should be able to see her with another man.

I strongly disagree... Oh, I agree that if you act like an ass as specified, she will most likely do that, but you will never see what she does with the other men! LOL

If you wanna see what she's doing with other men, then you will need to do completely the opposite of what you suggest, speak to her about your fantasy, make suggestions about it, encourage her to do it, amongst a great many other things!

Trust me... I know!

 

[dannyboy1958]

talk about it

I too have a fantasy, simlar, less the tying up bit and have decided the only way is to talk about it, not right out, stright, but leadig up to it, role playing and finding out what floats her boat, maybe introduce a similar scenario via a movie, which youll find in all kinds of movies ( receommned the private sereis - available at all good newsagents : - ) not ) ( try a porn shop )
Above all talk abot it , you may find that she too has some fantasies.