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[storypost603]

same boat been married for over 33 years and went out for 11 years before that. We have only been with each other as far as sex goes and we have talked about this several times. I have had ED for a few years and told her I would love to see her with another man. it gets her wet but she is a hard no so I have not pushed that. We do still talk about it when we have fun. Yes it is a huge turn on for me and it seems to be for her but maybe one day.

 

[Sweetdreams71]

I am sure it does

I am sure it does. Love to try the same room adventure. Even maybe just have a guy watch us during sex and stroke. Working on getting her to have a massage I line up on vacation where I find an attractive guy and tell him I want her to have a sensual experience so he completely understands my goals. I would have it arranged in our room and tell her to relax and enjoy having another mans hands on her but she wouldn't know about my instructions to him. If she didn't like it he would be told to back off. ?? We role play the massage fantasy in bed and it makes her very wet.

Omg if my husband did something like this without my knowledge.... furious, disgusting and disappointed and possibly divorce.

Inviting a stranger to sexually assault your wife .....I have no words. She could even charge all parties involved with sexual assault!

 

[KatieDoes]

Omg if my husband did something like this without my knowledge.... furious, disgusting and disappointed and possibly divorce.

Inviting a stranger to sexually assault your wife .....I have no words. She could even charge all parties involved with sexual assault!

 

[YourSecretDesires]

.so why won't she do this for me.

Ask her.

 

[kLangleybi]

...so why won't she do this for me.

Me, me fucking me! You just don't get it ffs! She doesn't want to. That should be the end of it. One day she'll tell you to fuck off. She'll have the house, car and half your bank account. Then you'll be alone asking, "Why did she do this to me?"

 

[docoral]

I agree and appreciate all your comments. I'm sure I probably push to hard but have wanted this for so long and so badly. exciting to send her pictures to guys and know they are looking at her thinking about her in bed and some stroking...just don't understand if she cheated why she won't try this for me

It may take lots and lots of role play. While orally pleasuring your wife try dropping some names of guys you suspect she's attracted to. Dare her to dress somewhat provocatively when you go out, maybe a flowing sundress without panties. Take her to classy restaurants and comment how guys are checking her out. Make her feel sexy and attractive. Keep her supply of wine flowing. If you happen to notice a guy checking her out let her know!! Dare her to show him little skin, some leg and thigh. Make her feel comfortable with you and make sure you reinforce the fact that she's in the driver's seat and that your marriage is on very solid ground and should anything percolate you'll love her even more in the morning. Find a way to get that man to join you and your wife for cocktails. Make the guy feel comfortable. Tell him you and your wife are out for some fun, dancing and whatever else the night brings. Tell him that your wife would maybe like to dance. Don't push, just let things flow. If they hit it off suggest to your wife to visit the lady's room and remove her panties. Get her hot and bothered. Let them dance slow dances. Invite him up for a night chaser then let them play.

 

[lncln483]

Love to watch her slow dance with another guy

 

[eaee]

Why does she fuck another but not in front of you? Remember the principle, that if you can comprehend a round pizza in a square box served as a triangle, you can understand women. Just sayin there is no accounting for taste.

 

[maxwellq]

same boat been married for over 33 years and went out for 11 years before that. We have only been with each other as far as sex goes and we have talked about this several times. I have had ED for a few years and told her I would love to see her with another man. it gets her wet but she is a hard no so I have not pushed that. We do still talk about it when we have fun. Yes it is a huge turn on for me and it seems to be for her but maybe one day.

My wife and I both fantasize about me watching her having sex with another man. It’s only a fantasy, but imagining it while we are masturbating and fucking is incredibly exciting and leads to amazing orgasms for both of us.

 

[ned63]

Love to watch her slow dance with another guy

Id sure like to slow dance with your wife, Hold her nice and tight. Feel her body pressing into mine mmmmm

 

[Live4themoments]

If she is receptive to the idea, maybe both of you as a couple visit an adult swing club (some are public but expect to pay an entrance fee). You don't have to swap or swing, you can go to just take in the atmosphere, become a voyeur and people watch. There is very little, if any, pressure to participate or do something you are not ready for. I've meet some really nice people there, down to earth, "normal". Then you can see her reaction about watching others, whether she shows any interest in maybe going back another time. Hopefully with each visit you both can get a little more daring, and eventually living out BOTH of your fantasies.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

Mature Married Couple: How do I get my wife to try letting me watch her with another guy? Role play this in bed all the time and really makes her wet but won't try it for real (YET). I am 99% sure she has been unfaithful in the past even though she adamantly denies it...so why won't she do this for me. Any ideas why and any ideas how to get her to move on this

I have a wife who i feel has been bad as well. Definitely denies she has never, but yet still likes to twist the knife into my side.

 

[Mugwump6636]

First off, if it is something that you want her to do whether you watch or not is not being unfaithful and the word has no place in your question. If she thinks that you would see her as unfaithful like you think she has been in the past, it will never happen.

 

[TryingTooHard]

Persuade her to dress like this. In public.
https://i.pinimg.com/736x/76/64/54/7664544ec46efd4413c81108d028b690.jpg

 

[bjjazz]

Ask her to go through the process of seducing a guy by herself, but she promises to tell you the details when she returns home from the affair. My bf had three monster orgasams that first time as I reported the dirty details to him!!!

 

[Mugwump6636]

My husband loves that

 

[Dreamer110]

Ask her to go through the process of seducing a guy by herself, but she promises to tell you the details when she returns home from the affair. My bf had three monster orgasams that first time as I reported the dirty details to him!!!

I love that.

 

[Dreamer110]

My husband loves that

I don't blame him.

 

[Scotchlander]

Why not secretly set it up and see how it goes.

I had a husband contact me, as he wanted the same.

I was informed of the bar they would be in and I was to wait at the bar. They were already there. The husband came up to order drinks and we chatted about a mutual sport that was on the TV that we both liked. He asked if I was alone and invited me to join them. So I went to their table and he introduced me to his wife and said he had invited me to join them as I was alone. She was fine about it.

I kept complementing the wife on how pretty she was and could see she was pleased with the compliments.

So we continued to chat and watch the tv. I got chatting with the wife to find out more about her. I already knew she was a very horny woman and they had talked about a threesome, but she always took cold feet.

Anyway the drinks flowed and we had a good laugh and we all got on well. So much so the husband invited me back to their hotel for a nightcap.

Back at their hotel room we sat on the balcony chatting and drinking and the wife was tipsy. I said to them that hubby was a very lucky man and that I was envious he had such a beautiful and sexy wife. He joked that I could have her. So I said sharing is caring and we all laughed. But I think that planted the seed in her head.

So I went to the toilet. When I returned the wife seemed a bit uptight. Already knowing my answer, hubby asked me if I would like to stay longer for some sexy fun, so I asked if that’s what they wanted also and she said she would like to slowly try. So although not 100% sure she was slowly opening up.

With further reassurance from us both, it was game on.

We all had a great time and I met up with them several times more during their stay in my city.

 

[000777]

Mature Married Couple: How do I get my wife to try letting me watch her with another guy? Role play this in bed all the time and really makes her wet but won't try it for real (YET). I am 99% sure she has been unfaithful in the past even though she adamantly denies it...so why won't she do this for me. Any ideas why and any ideas how to get her to move on this

It may simply be a matter of she isn't comfortable or doesn't want you to watch. Some wives just aren't comfortable with having their husbands watch. It can be very distracting for them and makes it difficult for them to let loose and enjoy themselves.

 

[blksoldier]

This is sexual assault. You’re talking about paying a man to sexually assault your wife.

Save the ‘she can tell him to stop if she doesn’t like it’ bullshit. There are a million reasons a woman wouldn’t stop it even if she didn’t want it. Go google ‘Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn’

Any massage therapist who would agree to do this is someone who your wife would not be safe with.

So far you’ve asked for advice on how to coerce your wife into performing sex acts she has already said no to. You’ve admitted to sharing intimate photos and details about her without her consent to strange men over the internet to jerk off to. Now you’re planning to pay someone to sexually assault her.

And when I point out that ‘Hey, your wife is a person with bodily autonomy. Not a prop or object for you to use to get off.’ You say that I must be a bitter harpie. Fuck right off.

something fantasies are better off left in the mind........ just saying.

 

[Filipinahotwife]

Just keep being open and honest about your desire to see her with another man. It took my husband several years to convince me to try black. I had never been with anyone other than my husband. I finally decided to do it when I wanted to do something special for his birthday.

 

[storypost603]

Just keep being open and honest about your desire to see her with another man. It took my husband several years to convince me to try black. I had never been with anyone other than my husband. I finally decided to do it when I wanted to do something special for his birthday.

nice birthday gift... I dont think I will ever got a gift like that.