Seduction. How to

[Sinner_18]

What would be the best way to seduce someone whom you've had sex with before but doesn't think we should anymore because he thinks its wrong? I know he wants me because we got drunk 2 nights ago and ended up having sex 2 times. Both of witch he started and even admitted later (when sober) that he still wants me but its not right. You see we are related. What would be the best way to break down the barrier he is trying to put between us?? I definatly don't want it to stop so no lexures ok. Just helpfull hints will be greatly appreciated.

 

[Cg1369]

My advice would be, and is, to be honest and above board with him. Let him know your TRUE feelings about him, but don't push!! If he's interested, he'll show you, if not, then that's HIS loss. Be true to yourself and your feelings. Nothing else really matters does it? Good luck to you. No lectures, no recriminations. If it happens, it happens. If not, keep it as a fantasy.

[This message has been edited by cg1369 (edited 11-22-1999).]

 

[Sinner_18]

Its not a fantasy. It came true. The thing is is that he is in love with me and I him. He thinks it will be easier if we don't touch eachother or make any sexual contact. I know it is hard for him to resist something he has already had. Once you have a taste of something its hard to resist more...

Anyways. I want to know the best way to seduce him.

Should I:

A) Wear skimpy cloths
B) Let him catch glimpses of me naked
C) Get him drunk agien

D) blantently touch him
E) None of the above
F) All of the above

Please i need some advice. I know it is hard for him to resist touching me because just yesterday we were standing in front of eachother and he reached out and started massaging my breast.He kinda stopped and smiled and smacked his hand "Bad Hand, very bad" And he just gave me a wicked smile and turned away. I don't know what to do. I havn't touched him in almost 2 weeks and I am going crazy!!

[This message has been edited by sinner_18 (edited 11-29-1999).]

 

[Butterfly]

Well okay no lectures. You wouldn't listen if I did lecture. Your mind is made up so...if you're both of age and I take it you are and neither one of you are married so there is no significant other to get hurt by this. You need to talk to him, I mean sit him down alone and really talk, explain your feelings to him and let him know that the little touches that he is doing is driving you crazy. Wear skimpy clothes, let him get peeks here and there. Getting one drunk only loosens him up but still has regrets when he becomes sober, so I don't see where that will help. If it happens enjoy, if it doesn't I can't see trying to force something on to someone, you end up miserable. Good luck.

 

[XXplorher]

Apparently – feed him several drinks is the answer……….
And definitely don’t write him letters (that ones for you Deb)

 

[Rodrigo]

Multiple choice, huh? I'm guessing that's what the SAT's look like on the Bizzaro Planet. I say just show him your goodies and see what happens.

 

[Sinner_18]

Thanx for the advice guys.

By the way yes we are of age. Him 21 me 18. He is not married and he doesn't regret what happend between us. Niether one of us feel the least bit guilty. The problem is that we love eachother

It makes it hard to do because we know it can never be more than hidden touches and unproclaimed love. He thinks it would be better in the long run if we stop. I don't want to. I know that every part of him wants to grab me and fuck the hell out of me every time we are alone. I just want some advice on how to push him over the edge.

 

[Bs]

Tried to resist responding to this but somthing that might help would be to know what the relationship is? brother/sister 1st cousins? How often do you see other? Can this be an open love affair or secrect? Maybe you will have to look at it from a guys point of view....and just enjoy the sex for the sex....not try to push a love issue and maybe he won't feel threatend by the whole "family thing" ........and since you asked my answer would be: "get him drunk".......yes I'm sure, if thats what it takes then....thats my final answer "get him drunk" .......now keep us posted, thanks

 

[Guest]

Uh, Sinner...in your first post you said you got drunk 2 nights ago and had sex. In your second, you say you haven't touched him in 2 weeks. Which is it?

 

[Sinner_18]

It was 2 weeks ago!! 11/20 is when it happend. It is now 12/2 anyways. First of all your not getting the picture bs. He told Me that he loved me first. Thats not the issue. the issue is that we both want more than just sex. We want a relationship. He thinks that by distancing ourselves the love will fade and we won't get hurt. He is my cousin. He isn't uncomfortable with loveing me. He just doesn't want us to get hurt. Thanx for the advice. I will try that this weekend.

 

[Crystal]

I don't know what the fuss is about. If he is your cousin then it is perfectly legal to consumate you love. You can even marry him (where I come from anyway). Have you not both considered confronting your family with this?

 

[Sinner_18]

Considered yes. But you have to understand. My family is realy realy religous. They are great and something like this would upset them greatly. I think i might discuss it with him though because this is driving my crazy!!

 

[Guest]

sinner_18, your story about the cousins sounds very familar, did it happen in Rexburg?

 

[Sinner_18]

no. it happend somewhere else.... I don't know if anyone i know looks at this shit so.... but no. why do you ask??

 

[Guest]

The names in the story match mine and my cousin's. She was a small town girl and while my family was visiting our relatives we had an "almost" encounter. Just sounded extremely familar.

p.s. Good story.

 

[Sinner_18]

well, this was more than an almost incounter

It was an incounter

Thanx, I'm glad you liked the story.