Science question : can an impotent man enjoy a blow job?

[Tharkibudda]

I need this answer for a story im thinking of where a woman has sex with an impotent man despite he declaring he can't .
She says she doesn't need penetrating...
Can a blowjob cause him pleasure? Pleasure enough to get an orgasm ? Will he cum ?

 

[TheRedChamber]

I mean, it's not going to feel bad.

I think an orgasm would be unlikely though

(This is all obviously conjecture and obviously not based on any actual experience obviously)

 

[Rustyoznail]

Is the guy impotent physically or mentally? That would make a difference.

 

[CiaoSteve]

Depends on the definition of impotence. So, if your definition of impotence is just the inability to get a hard enough erection to sustain penetrative sex, then most definitely an impotent man could enjoy a blow job or even masturbate successfully. There are still nerves which get stimulated and with carefully placed hands you can keep the firmness sufficient to reach climax. If your impotence is due in part to hormone imbalance (not to get aroused in the first place) or nerve damage then this may be more difficult. To an extent, and unfortunately, I am talking from experience.

 

[oggbashan]

Impotent generally means unable to produce sperm.
If you have had a vasectomy - you can't produce sperm but:

It has been described as standing beside a river. It is still a river even if there are no fish in it. The sensation is identical.

 

[sirhugs]

my river is fully dammed up, but I still get an emotional/hormonal/neurological climax that feels like an explosion in my brain, spine, chest and belly.

 

[masustacy]

I went through a period a a couple of years back when I could get an erection, but I was not able to sustain it.

I’d get hard and start to have sex, the sensation would be strong, just like it always is while having sex. However, after about three minutes of having sex, I would go soft. It was terrible because the horniness and the need to ejaculate didn’t go away. I was just incapable of doing it.

My wife discovered that if she held the base of my erection tightly in her hand, she could keep enough blood in me that I could orgasm.

So, mid-oral, I would start to go soft, she’d squeeze my shaft and could continue until I orgasmed. If she let go of the base of me at any point, I would have immediately wilted.

Thankfully, after a couple of months of that, my function went back.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Impotent generally means unable to produce sperm.

I've always understood it to mean inability or extreme difficulty in achieving erection and/or orgasm. Somebody who's had a vasectomy but isn't otherwise impeded wouldn't usually be described as impotent.

Impotent or not, the penis still has a ton of nerve endings, so I expect it could be pleasurable if handled right, though presumably a different kind of pleasure - and a lot of guys have so much ego wrapped up in their erections that they'll need to get past that baggage to enjoy it.

I recall reading a post by a submissive woman talking about her late partner/Dom's impotence. He turned it into an angle for humiliation play - "you're so bad at this you can't even get me hard!" kind of thing. Not everybody's cup of tea but apparently it worked for them.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Somebody who's had a vasectomy but isn't otherwise impeded wouldn't usually be described as impotent.

Having had the snip, that's my take on the definition, too. Shooting blanks, maybe, but still able to shoot!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Unless the nerves in your penis have been damage or the nerve that runs through your prostate has been damage, you would still feel the same sensations you would if you had an erection. You may even ejaculate. You would still get that rush of endorphins in your brain which give you that pleasant feeling of having an orgasm.

I'm not a doctor but I have talked to a lot of doctors about just this kind of thing. So unless the impotence if from damage to the penis or prostate nerves, it should feel the same when you penis is soft as it does when it is hard. Impotence usually just prevents penetration of the vagina. But there are also things to help with that.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Impotent generally means unable to produce sperm.
If you have had a vasectomy - you can't produce sperm but:

It has been described as standing beside a river. It is still a river even if there are no fish in it. The sensation is identical.

Ogg, impotence means that you can't get an erection or that you are sterile. Getting a vasectomy does not mean you are sterile. They can be undone.

Impotent

adjective
not potent; lacking power or ability.
utterly unable (to do something).
without force or effectiveness.
lacking bodily strength or physically helpless.
(of a male) unable to attain or sustain a penile erection.
(especially of a male) sterile.

 

[Escierto]

I went through a period a a couple of years back when I could get an erection, but I was not able to sustain it.

I’d get hard and start to have sex, the sensation would be strong, just like it always is while having sex. However, after about three minutes of having sex, I would go soft. It was terrible because the horniness and the need to ejaculate didn’t go away. I was just incapable of doing it.

My wife discovered that if she held the base of my erection tightly in her hand, she could keep enough blood in me that I could orgasm.

So, mid-oral, I would start to go soft, she’d squeeze my shaft and could continue until I orgasmed. If she let go of the base of me at any point, I would have immediately wilted.

Thankfully, after a couple of months of that, my function went back.

What was the cause? Was it a mental or physical thing?

 

[sirhugs]

Unless the nerves in your penis have been damage or the nerve that runs through your prostate has been damage, you would still feel the same sensations you would if you had an erection. You may even ejaculate. You would still get that rush of endorphins in your brain which give you that pleasant feeling of having an orgasm.

I'm not a doctor but I have talked to a lot of doctors about just this kind of thing. So unless the impotence if from damage to the penis or prostate nerves, it should feel the same when you penis is soft as it does when it is hard. Impotence usually just prevents penetration of the vagina. But there are also things to help with that.

that assumes you have a prostate. I donated mine to science. Together with my bladder, half my bowel, and my anus.

 

[Tharkibudda]

Is the guy impotent physically or mentally? That would make a difference.

Thanks for all your comment.

My story is about an abused housewife and the neighbour old man who is retired. He has been impotent for past 20 years and his wife has also died

The woman initiates sex but he tells that he is impotent but she is fine with non penetrative sex as she just wants to be loved.

So i want to know if he can get pleasure out of blowjob or handjob on his old cock..

 

[friendlytongue38671]

I have a mild case of MS, so while erections no longer happen (pills just give me a headache), I can still fully orgasm orally or manually. I produce sperm - everything else works just fine...if i edge for a while I can get I wouldn't say erect, but firm.

 

[Dearelliot]

I'm quite old, and have difficulty getting an erection. Now Cialis helps a lot, but also important is a naked lady being there.. that also makes a big difference...not like a young guy and it doesn't last... but when it doesn't work at all,I use E stim. for the "O"

 

[Defluer]

The only time I ever had sex drunk... My soldier stayed a noodle. I got kinda hard going down on her but when it came time my dick passed out drunk. She really really liked me because she didn't seem to mind at. I was pretty embarrassed (Which for sure made it worse) but she went to sucking and let me tell you, it felt damn good! Like I was getting deepthroated. All of it was inside her mouth and she was rolling her tongue around it. I came, it felt damn good, I was still embarrassed but she really didn't seem to mind.

I don't know if that helps but... That's my story.

 

[SubmissiveCeleste]

Thanks guys for sharing and being so honest. Love you for it. I am writing a new story and the husband has problems maintaining an erection, so will help tremendously to make the story more authentic. P.S. my husband has problems now due to health issues and probably age too maintaining his erection from time to time but he still loves me to give him oral whether he ejaculates or not.

 

[MillieDynamite]

People with quadriplegia experience erections from time to time and can still manage to ejaculate if someone manipulates their penis. There is a funny scene in a Brain Cranston movie where he plays a quadriplegic, and Kevin Hart has to jack him off. The film is based on a true story, it's called, The Upside.

 

[sirhugs]

People with quadriplegia experience erections from time to time and can still manage to ejaculate if someone manipulates their penis. There is a funny scene in a Brain Cranston movie where he plays a quadriplegic, and Kevin Hart has to jack him off. The film is based on a true story, it's called, The Upside.

A surprisingly touching and fun movie.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

that assumes you have a prostate. I donated mine to science. Together with my bladder, half my bowel, and my anus.

Well, there are 2 ways to remove the prostate, one where they just rip it out and the second, which takes a little longer, where they leave the nerve that runs through it, so you will still have the feeling of joy.

 

[Tharkibudda]

Thanks for all your advice. The man in my story is quite old and cannot get erect..

He is good to the young woman so she wants to have sex with him just to enjoy the company and she realises that even without penetrating, sex can be good if you love the person

 

[TarnishedPenny]

OK. The title is Can an impotent man enjoy a blowjob? but we immediately jumped to orgasms and such. Let's go back to 'enjoy' for a moment.

I think most men enjoy being sexually stimulated, regardless of how it ends up. There are endless discussions on the Forum about cock worship; many of them note that a woman stroking, fondling or just acknowledging a man's wedding tackle is going to please him. Women are advised, for instance, to sit down beside him when he's doing something else (watching TV, for instance), extract his precious bits from his clothing and just gently play with them, without necessarily going for his orgasm and without any expectation of a return or having it progress to something more physical. Men seem to respond well to the concept. It's pleasurable.

Similarly, I've often thought that one reason men like oral so much is that it's a gift from her, something that she's doing solely for him. Absent that fictional 'Deep Throat' back-of-the-throat clitoris, women generally get no physical pleasure from giving head, but it can be mucho fun for her, knowing how much pleasure she's giving him. (Seeing how much he's enjoying it can of course be arousing for her, but you get my point, I hope.) Another way of looking at it is that with P-in-V sex, the expectation is that he will make sure she cums, too. With oral, there's no obligation and he can simply lie back and enjoy.

Bottom line is that, if the matter is well-handled (no pun intended), then, yes, your old man is going to enjoy the sensation and will be especially happy about the love she is demonstrating by doing it, irregardless of erections or orgasms.


OK, that's psychological. Back to the physical.

As somebody has noted, the big question is if the right nerves are still there and functional. If they are, most men can be brought to orgasm with ejaculation by a patient and skilled partner even if totally soft. It will take longer, but it is entirely possible. As one example, if she oils up his (soft) crown and begins to roll it firmly against the palm of her hand, as if polishing an apple, he will probably have an orgasm. Not quickly and not porn-worthy, but totally real.


Tharkibudda - congratulations on having the courage to investigate this. Men's self-identity and self-worth seems overly-centred on their ability to get it up; not being able to 'perform' an all-too-common problem. I look forward to seeing what you do with this.

Good luck.

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[Tharkibudda]

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Tharkibudda - congratulations on having the courage to investigate this. Men's self-identity and self-worth seems overly-centred on their ability to get it up; not being able to 'perform' an all-too-common problem. I look forward to seeing what you do with this.

Thank you, in the literotica universe,even a 70 year old man would have the energy to cum 3 times continuously and a cock as hard as steel ..