SAD TIME

[JEGGS]

sorry people had to move on.

 

[Laurel]

I'm sorry you had to deal with such a terrible loss. It hurts by heart to think what I'd do if I lost the love of my life. Manu and I wish you all the happiness in the world, since you surely deserve it.

 

[Nicole]

My heart honestly goes out to you.

I have never felt such a deep loss like you have, I know that I wouldn't cope too well at all.

I am thinking of you.

*Hugggggggggggggg*

As for the "should you go out looking for love again" you will know when the time is right for you. Follow your heart, as I am sure that you will find someone when the time is right.

Good luck

 

[SimplySouthern]

I know that none of us have any magic words to say that will take away all of the pain and the hurt that you are feeling. Perhaps just knowing that there are people here who care and are concerned is enough.

As for the "looking for love" part. I'm not a big believer in that. I don't think that looking for love is effective. I think it comes to you . The only problem is being aware and ready. I think you have some issues with yourself that you probably should resolve before taking on another person in your life, who will of course bring their problems with them. Perhaps you should use this time for some quiet inflection to see who you are and what you want and need out of a potential mate.

My heart goes out to you at this terribly trying time in your life.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Adversity,

if it doesn't kill you it will make you stronger. It certainly has made you strong enough to share your life with us.

Peace and love, my friend.

 

[Ambrosious]

Congratulations on the sobriety, I know how tough it is. I once drank heavily to cope with my mother's death. Stay strong. Love will come looking for you, like it did me. The important thing is that you love yourself. And you do. You quit didn't you? There you go.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I know this sound strange...

but it seems tremendously sweet to remember her even now

 

[Weird Harold]

i still go out with my friends and have a good laugh but should i look for love again, because i now soon a loved one could pass away and it would not fair to put pressure into a relationship.

I think that finding the right person could help you weather the coming storm. As a reformed lush myself, I know how little it takes to "fall off the wagon" and how much the support of loved ones can do to boost you back onto the wagon.

I don't think that "going looking for love" is going to be the way you find it. Just don't push love away because you're afraid of the stress you know is coming. Stay open to the possiblity that shared troubles often make a relationship stronger when they have passed and shared burdens are always lighter than those borne alone.

Platitudes and cliches, I know. Still cliches often become cliches because there is an element of truth to them.

 

[JEGGS]

Thank you all for your kind words i didn't post the story for sympathy, but it's but I've gotta do this and move on



So to everybody thats replied thank you laurel, manu, nicole, southern, blue, ambrosious, svedish chef and last but not least weird harold. THANKS