Rough Sex

[hoi polloi]

I have fantasies of rape (I believe a lot of people do), and I usually get off only if I'm having rough sex. My partner is unwilling to cater to this fantasy, and I find myself resentful because of their lack of participation. Why do I want this? Is it a control issue?

 

[s'lara]

Hello hoi. Please take a look at this link which is from the Introspection section of our Library. The topics covered under the Introspection thread deal primarily with thoughts on what motivates us to venture into BDSM-related practices. It might be enlightening.

Good luck to you.

lara