Rough Sex is Pain and Pleasure

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Looking for other lovers of rough sex. Tell me what you love about it or what you like to do during rough sex, just anything and everything. I'm an erotic writer/role player and while thinking up of scene ideas I wrote a summary of what I find to be delicious about rough sex:

Two people throwing their bodies around on the ground, up against the wall, down on a bed, over furniture, breaking things in their path, and knocking things out of their way. Ripping off articles of clothing or tearing it off so it's out of the way when it seems like there is not enough time to properly remove it or take it all off, they just need it out of the way NOW. Sex with clothing on, partial clothing or torn/tattered clothing is very sexy. It can always be replaced of course, it's just a material object that acts as nothing more than a prison in such hot and passionate moments, sometimes it's just too constricting. Who cares if there is a mess or if something gets broken? In such a moment their minds are only on each other and what happens between them...all other worries can be taken care of afterwards.

Heavy breathing, guttural groans, panting like they cannot get enough, screams and cries containing mixtures of sharp pains and ecstasy with gasping moans of pleasure. Mind-blowing, breathtaking sex to the point where it is hard to breathe and exhausting...just letting it all out and not caring if someone else can hear the racket. Just crisp sounds of flesh smacking together over and over again during the brutal romping as he ravishes her body. Throwing themselves at one another in public or places in which they may get caught or are taking a risk in being seen...when the moment strikes sometimes there is no time to look for a bed behind a closed door. Even if the door is closed that does not mean there was time to cover the windows, but who knows perhaps the two would like to have some eyes watching the show.

Clawing, biting, smacking, hair pulling, getting a little scrapped up and collecting some bruises, marking each other with teeth, nails and sexual scars. Things like the male's back being covered in red scratch marks, or his biceps or chest, maybe his own nails digging in her back, hips, ass or waist as he clutches her tightly and thrusts into her over and over again...bite marks on each others necks or anywhere else a love bite seemed relevant at the time. Coating each other with mouth watering saliva as they explore each others bodies with their lips and tongues, sucking hungrily and passionately. Becoming wet and slick with sweat and sexual secretions as they go round after round. Basking in the afterglow, falling asleep in each others arms or perhaps going another round in the shower to clean up until they lead each other into sexual exhaustion and finally pass out. Groping, grinding, rubbing, dry humping...getting the pleasure and release anyway they can after all penetration does not always have to occur in order to have some fun. Hands, fingers, oral, teasing and foreplay, there are so many other ways to please each other.

End. Now share some of your thoughts, also feel free to comment on anything I just listed.
 
Rough

Love the tearing of clothes
The whimpering and crying the tears of emotions
The control
The gasps of surprise and concern
 
While I generally am a proponet for slow, gentle, sensual sex...sometimes rough, aggressive, animalistic sex is just what a person needs to expierence with their partner.
 
I think my favorite part of all of that is waking up in the morning and your muscles screaming in protest when you try to move them. It's a nice reminder of the pure, unadulterated passion and ecstasy of the night before.
 
I think my favorite part of all of that is waking up in the morning and your muscles screaming in protest when you try to move them. It's a nice reminder of the pure, unadulterated passion and ecstasy of the night before.

Very true, that and the marks left on you by the other person, or the marks you left on them.
 
I pretty much always want rough sex. . . sometimes I'm in the mood for "lovemaking" but that's rare! I think the more restless or jumbled up I feel emotionally by life in general, the stronger my desire is to be subjugated and fucked hard, because it allows me to feel everything so intensely. I love the feeling that I can't get any closer to someone, mouth on flesh, teeth on flesh, arms twisted around each other, exquisitely hard thrusts, over and over. . .
 
I guess everyone is different. My initial thought was rough sex wasn't loving. But in retrospect I guess sometimes that is just what someone needs. To get out the aggression. I guess it wouldn't be doing anything that wasn't wanted.
 
Rough sex can be very loving, it's just about losing yourself in the moment. It can be very passionate. Full of pent of need and desire for the other person.
 
Rough love-making is how it's supposed to be done. Sex is a raw, primal, animal drive. Not tea and cake with the vicar. It isn't supposed to be genteel.
 
Yeah. I guess I have two things going on. My natural gentle nature and the inner voice that says this is what we want, what we need, and how it should be. Very complicated imo.
 
I think my favorite part of all of that is waking up in the morning and your muscles screaming in protest when you try to move them. It's a nice reminder of the pure, unadulterated passion and ecstasy of the night before.
uhhhhh... which muscles would those be, now?
 
Sometimes slow and sweet is needed...I personally see it as more of a build up and foreplay though to the main even. Of course after you have released all that you can, cuddling affectionately and what not afterwards can be rewarding. Gentle is not always bad, just depends on the the situation, who you are and your partner really.
 
Rough sex can be very loving, it's just about losing yourself in the moment. It can be very passionate. Full of pent of need and desire for the other person.

I completely agree with this--I don't think of rough sex as any less loving just because it's so raw. . . but I'm sure it does depend on the partners, as has been mentioned. It makes me feel closer to and so much more known by my husband. . .
 
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Ouch! :) I don't think I leave many marks on him--but I often have welts and handprints on my ass. . .
 
Rough sex is great. Love the bruises on the inner thigh from biting. The kind that remind you later as your jeans rub against them. But soft slow sex has it's place too. Diversity is the spice of life.
 
Ouch! :) I don't think I leave many marks on him--but I often have welts and handprints on my ass. . .

Haha I don't like it quite like that, just the idea and fantasy of it. I don't mind the sting of a slap, scratch of the nails or bite, however in those pics it looks like it would hurt like a bitch unless you were too caught up in the pleasure and passion of sex to give a damn...which is typically the idea of rough sex.
 
I like role playing nonconsent and being tied up, handcuffed, blindfolded.

Mhm, all fun and interesting. Role playing non-con is just some of the best play for rough sex. If I bound and blindfolded a woman...I would probably spend hours just exploring her body.
 
Looking for other lovers of rough sex. Tell me what you love about it or what you like to do during rough sex, just anything and everything. I'm an erotic writer/role player and while thinking up of scene ideas I wrote a summary of what I find to be delicious about rough sex:

Two people throwing their bodies around on the ground, up against the wall, down on a bed, over furniture, breaking things in their path, and knocking things out of their way. Ripping off articles of clothing or tearing it off so it's out of the way when it seems like there is not enough time to properly remove it or take it all off, they just need it out of the way NOW. Sex with clothing on, partial clothing or torn/tattered clothing is very sexy. It can always be replaced of course, it's just a material object that acts as nothing more than a prison in such hot and passionate moments, sometimes it's just too constricting. Who cares if there is a mess or if something gets broken? In such a moment their minds are only on each other and what happens between them...all other worries can be taken care of afterwards.

Heavy breathing, guttural groans, panting like they cannot get enough, screams and cries containing mixtures of sharp pains and ecstasy with gasping moans of pleasure. Mind-blowing, breathtaking sex to the point where it is hard to breathe and exhausting...just letting it all out and not caring if someone else can hear the racket. Just crisp sounds of flesh smacking together over and over again during the brutal romping as he ravishes her body. Throwing themselves at one another in public or places in which they may get caught or are taking a risk in being seen...when the moment strikes sometimes there is no time to look for a bed behind a closed door. Even if the door is closed that does not mean there was time to cover the windows, but who knows perhaps the two would like to have some eyes watching the show.

Clawing, biting, smacking, hair pulling, getting a little scrapped up and collecting some bruises, marking each other with teeth, nails and sexual scars. Things like the male's back being covered in red scratch marks, or his biceps or chest, maybe his own nails digging in her back, hips, ass or waist as he clutches her tightly and thrusts into her over and over again...bite marks on each others necks or anywhere else a love bite seemed relevant at the time. Coating each other with mouth watering saliva as they explore each others bodies with their lips and tongues, sucking hungrily and passionately. Becoming wet and slick with sweat and sexual secretions as they go round after round. Basking in the afterglow, falling asleep in each others arms or perhaps going another round in the shower to clean up until they lead each other into sexual exhaustion and finally pass out. Groping, grinding, rubbing, dry humping...getting the pleasure and release anyway they can after all penetration does not always have to occur in order to have some fun. Hands, fingers, oral, teasing and foreplay, there are so many other ways to please each other.

End. Now share some of your thoughts, also feel free to comment on anything I just listed.
This pretty much sums it up perfectly for me :)
 
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