Romantic weekend?????
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Thor's Hammer
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pick a romantic spot.....secluded, just the two of you. It does not have to be expensive..just the two of you. The major thing...focuss on him..make him feel 10' tall. The male ego is easy to stroke, and it is fragile.
Samuari
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Thor's right on. Focus is the main thing. That's why escorts get $300/hr to keep a guy feeling good! Look the way he wants you to: like every other man in sight wants you, you are focused on him alone. I would want every other man to wish that he was me. Be a trophy date.
That would turn me on!
That would turn me on!
Things to do and Bring
1. Yourself - The single most important ingredient.
2. Items to turn him on. (Anything that works for him... Toys, HIS favourite Lingerie,... whatever.)
3. Make him feel special. Let him know that he is your man, and that you love him with all your heart (assuming you do).
But don't forget, he should be doing the same for you.... It's your weekend too.
MADDOG
1. Yourself - The single most important ingredient.
2. Items to turn him on. (Anything that works for him... Toys, HIS favourite Lingerie,... whatever.)
3. Make him feel special. Let him know that he is your man, and that you love him with all your heart (assuming you do).
But don't forget, he should be doing the same for you.... It's your weekend too.
MADDOG
What to do and what to bring?
How about starting with just picking someplace that the two of you can be your selves, and let your hair down so to speak. If this is going to be the last weekend for a while, just concentrate on the NOW and not the past nor the present. If the two of you have ever talked about doing things together or trying new things try that. As far as what to bring, start with yourself of course. As a man, there is nothing sexier to me than the scent of a woman fresh from the bath. The nighties and teddys are always lovely, but think about this. After a nite out for dinner and what not, once the two of you get back to your little secluded place and own peice of the world, make three rules, and play a game of sorts.
RULE #1 No clothes unless you are leaving the room some time during the night.
RULE #2 No one leaves the room unless there is a fire.
RULE #3 All and anything the two of you desire or have fantacized about with just the two of you goes.
Basically, just be yourself, he is with you because of you. Alot of people, both men and women put too much emphasis on times like these. Whenever my lady and I are together we know it may be a few weeks until we see one another if not longer. So we are just ourselves, and let nature runt it's course. Have fun, and be yourself!
How about starting with just picking someplace that the two of you can be your selves, and let your hair down so to speak. If this is going to be the last weekend for a while, just concentrate on the NOW and not the past nor the present. If the two of you have ever talked about doing things together or trying new things try that. As far as what to bring, start with yourself of course. As a man, there is nothing sexier to me than the scent of a woman fresh from the bath. The nighties and teddys are always lovely, but think about this. After a nite out for dinner and what not, once the two of you get back to your little secluded place and own peice of the world, make three rules, and play a game of sorts.
RULE #1 No clothes unless you are leaving the room some time during the night.
RULE #2 No one leaves the room unless there is a fire.
RULE #3 All and anything the two of you desire or have fantacized about with just the two of you goes.
Basically, just be yourself, he is with you because of you. Alot of people, both men and women put too much emphasis on times like these. Whenever my lady and I are together we know it may be a few weeks until we see one another if not longer. So we are just ourselves, and let nature runt it's course. Have fun, and be yourself!
Skitten
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A place where no one can find you and no cell phones.
Nice romantic room with candles and a hot tub, some really cool lingerie that he can really use his imagination on.
some romantic music instead of tv. showing him how much you love him, by you taking the initative to start by pleasing him.
Nice romantic room with candles and a hot tub, some really cool lingerie that he can really use his imagination on.
some romantic music instead of tv. showing him how much you love him, by you taking the initative to start by pleasing him.
RisiaSkye
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The truth is, there are some popular standards which are supposed to be "romantic," but what's really romantic is being yourselves, and exploring who you both are when you're together, and what works to make you both happy. The only real question is "what will allow us to express our love and desire for each other?" And it is a question that only you (Both of you) can answer.
goldenboar
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Just be yourself, enjoy and relax... That is what I want from my gf.
I found out that everytime I enjoy myself with my gf, I always remember it as a romantic night.. And my gf always told me the same thing..
I love the time when we watch TV together while she is sitting on my lap, and I hug her..
And please bear in mind that romantic doesn't always mean it must end up on bed..
I found out that everytime I enjoy myself with my gf, I always remember it as a romantic night..
And my gf always told me the same thing.. I love the time when we watch TV together while she is sitting on my lap, and I hug her..
And please bear in mind that romantic doesn't always mean it must end up on bed..
Bonnie Wee Lassie
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I agree with Maddog do those three things and you can't go wrong.
Goldenboar, I agree! Romance, and even intimacy doesn't mean sex has to be invovled. It is what takes place and the feeling(s) you get out of it that counts. An evening of just cuddeling and watching the tv or a movie can be as stimulating as sex itself.
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FLASH! I just got another thought. In some locations (Chicago metro area is one) there are tasteful hotels/motels that cater to couples. They have private pools, fireplaces, in room movies (guess the subjects), mirrors, little bar/sink with refrigerator, and NO windows. There is nothing sleazy about them..and they are romantic to the Nth degree. I have gone to them with both my wives (LOL). Oh, in Chicago they are called "Sybaris" This is not a commercial - I receive no commission.
