Romantic ideas needed!

[pyrokitten]

Thanks for the help all, editing post to "cover tracks"
C x

 

[HandFan]

Okay, this may sound weird, but this worked for me and sure made the moment memorable.......Plus, it helps if your guy has a good sense of humor.

One time, I did all the standard things you would do, candles, flower, wine, good food, sexy outfit.....but I did add one thing. I made a homemade sign that I hung around my neck that read, "Hot Naked Woman, Really Wants Your Sexy Body, If Interested Look Under Sign!" I'm the kind of girl who often tries to be at least alittle funny when it comes to sex. Well, I walked into the room with this sign haning off me, two glasses of wine, and a rose in my teeth, garters, high-heels and a smile. He laughed so hard, grabbed me......let's just say the sign didn't stay on for very long! Have fun!!!!

 

[yodaboy]

Thought I might chuck in some half baked ideas:

Do the whole romantic thing: dinner, movies, hold hands and just go for a walk, watch a sunset.....

But spice it up a little, go commando, let him know that by whispering in his ear as you head out. If that’s not daring enough for you maybe try a toy you can wear in public.

It will really work him up because he has to go through the all that ‘normal’ stuff but he will be thinking about you the whole time.

Make up a book of coupons that entitle him to you or your time in some way. (don’t make it all sex stuff, but don’t make your self a slave) ((unless you like it like that?? ))

Any thing sentimental is good, practically all I own right now is a car, my clothes and a box full of old letters and collectables. So give him something that will always remind him of the night.

Wrap up some massage oil and give him that. I did that for my gf just so I could use it on her

Have as much sex as you can but remember to cuddle too

haha, after he falls asleep pick up all his clothes and put them back in his suit case and pad lock it. The next morning make him prove his love for you before you give the key back. (I’m sure you would get kick out having a naked guy down on one knee reading you poetry) ((if he is like me he will love it too))

Maybe I will think of more later.

Good luck!

 

[SweetErika]

Good ideas so far. I like to do something completely for him. One year I bought us hockey tickets...I wasn't especially excited about the game, but I was happy to do something he I knew he'd enjoy so much. Along with the tickets, he got several pictures and a poem in a frame of our first two years together (still hanging on the bedroom wall). So maybe do something that you don't really care for, but he'll love (include in coupons maybe?).

 

[Weird Harold]

So, to recap, what I'm asking is, guys what would YOU want? Is there anything I've got here that would make you cringe?

The old joke that a man's idea of romance is a naked woman with a six-pack of beer is a sexist stereotype, but it's also often not far from the truth.

Almost everything that you've proposed is something that I would love if it was me trying to make a day special for a woman, but would make me very uneasy if it was sprung on me as a "romantic surprise."

I think Yodaboy's suggestion --

Do the whole romantic thing: dinner, movies, hold hands and just go for a walk, watch a sunset.....

But spice it up a little, go commando, let him know that by whispering in his ear as you head out. If that’s not daring enough for you maybe try a toy you can wear in public.

-- is probably closer to the male idea of a "romantic weekend" than candlelight and bath oils is.

Of course, you are the one who has been together with him for two years, so go with your insticts and knowledge of what HE thinks is romantic -- but I'd still avoid springing it as a "surprise." Building his anticipation is going to be far more effective than secrecy.

 

[yodaboy]

hehe Weird Harold has it right.


The idea of a "romantic weekend away" is a bit of misdirection.

Its basically a polite way you can tell your family and friends you are going away so you can screw like rabbits.


The trick is to find the balance between the romance and the lust. (And also finding a way to mix the two)

I’m a romantic guy so I’m happy with the overly romantic, but some guys just don’t want it.

Maybe you should give us a description of your guy it would help us with more specific ideas (that is if you can do that in a way that won’t give the gig up).

 

[dcraz]

I missed your post before you deleted it so I am behind the power curve here to know exactly what you were asking for.

The idea is to include him in an activity that brings you together but minimizes other distractions.

Cook him dinner, but get him to help. Or at the very least, get him to watch you. Of course it should be Italian food 'cause you ALWAYS get laid when eating Italian. You will be surprised at how much he gets involved. The tough part will be keeping his hands off you.

If you are going away for a weekend, find a place that has a secluded porch or balcony. Sunsets are nice, but sunrises are even better. Set an alarm, get up early, make some coffee and head out on the porch together. Cuddle under a blanket for two, sipping coffee and watching the sun rise. Share your body warmth in silence and feel the bond between you grow with the day's light. Once the sun is up, he will be too and you can head inside to take care of business before drifting off together for a much needed nap.

The massage oil idea is always a winner. But start with a nice sensual shower together. Tell him to relax, and let you bathe him. He will love the personal touch and you can spend as much time as you like washing all those special places. Once you are done, send him to the bedroom alone while you finish your own shower. His desires will be building thinking of you and waiting for your return.

Just a few ideas that quickly came to mind.

P.S. These have all worked for me!

 

[yodaboy]

Thanks for the help all, editing post to "cover tracks"
C x

After the deas is done let us know what you used and how well it went.

Good Luck.