romantic help

[Pixie Mischief]

OK I have a bf and he has done many romantic things like he tried candles in my room when he was here, unfortunally we didnt thing the one over my bed would spill onto my bed and hair! LOL any the night before he left.. he was umm sentimental and put a big blanket on my wheelchair and decided to take me out, he wanted to hold and kiss me under the stars. we are in a long distance relationship. A few months ago I got a package from him with a rose made of leather that smells like roses. he said he was sorry he couldnt send a real one. and a few weeks after I got a card with a UFO on it, and inside said "Wish I could go and abduct your body" LOL he said he saw that and had to get it was perfect. I need ideas romantic, cute ideas to do for gifts and such, long distance relationship. I've been trying to tihnk of stuff for motnhs but no real ideas. thanks you

 

[Wiggles]

If you think of nothing else, just a card or two.

Maybe you could send him his favorite treat, if it's something that can stand the trip.

Zippo engraved with both of your initials?

I think anything that says you're thinking of him, and went out of your way to do something for him, will be perfect.

 

[Barely__There]

Ahh, sounds like you found a keeper.

My (ex) LD collected certain animal things. I would keep an eye out for unusual pictures, cards, magnets, bookmarks etc. I once sent him a little gold key, (key to my heart).

Re the UFO thing. Check into the possibility of "naming" a star after him. I don't think it is terrible expensive. I believe they get a certificate, and the co-ordinate for "their" star, and it also gets published on a star list.

 

[His_kitty]

If he collects something that's a wonderful idea. I have a friend who collects elephants and around here they are hard to find, so anytime I'm out I'll pick them up. He's always surprised and touched when he receives them.

Its corny but some really like the t-shirts with funny sayings or names on them.

If you have a cd burner, burn him a cd with some romantic music, songs that you like and want to share with him, even some comedy ones are really good.

Cards are always appreciated, be sure to write something personal in it. Maybe add your favorite poem.

Books, if there is one that you know he's been wanting or one that you love and he hasn't yet read.

Something personal from you is never a bad gift.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

hes the one with the CD burner and burns me CDs lol hes the one that send me cards. again hes the one that sends me books LOL I'm just trying to find ideas :|

 

[Georgia Girl]

Hhhmmmm.......

Candals.......their scent will remind him of you each time he lights them.

The makings for hot chocolate (minus the milk, it doesn't ship well)......the comfort it offers will bring you to mind.

A throw to use in his favorite place to sit......scent it with your perfume prior to shipping and then place it in a ziploc so the scent survives the trip.

Something personal of yours to share with him, offering him the notion that what he is touching you have held as well.

A special pen to use......thoughts of you each time he uses it.

The phone numbers to reach those close to you so he has a point of contact if he needs to get in touch with you, it shows you wish to share his presence with those around you.

Just ideas.......my special someone and I do these things for each other.

Dawn

 

[Guest]

Hi Pixie.


You could make him something- paint, frame a photo you took.

Make him a scrapbook. Write in a journal, made especially for his eyes.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Pix...I'll weigh in as a "romantic male".

The candle...a very good idea.

Anything with your scent that he can hold close when he's lonely.

Little objects to remind him you care. A heart-shaped paper weight sits to my right as I type this. A card that came with it to my left.

I'm a romantic, perhaps more so than most males. But it sounds like your guy is, as well.

Let him know you treasure him, Pix. That's all any of us really needs.

 

[Georgia Girl]

Little objects to remind him you care. A heart-shaped paper weight sits to my right as I type this.

I meant for that to go on your desk. Do you need two of them?

 

[IrishWolfhound]

I meant for that to go on your desk. Do you need two of them?

My love...I'll gladly take another. But my desk at home is far cleaner. I kept it where I can see it all the time.

 

[Georgia Girl]

My love...I'll gladly take another. But my desk at home is far cleaner. I kept it where I can see it all the time.

I need one with a cat in it.

Ok.........sorry for the hijack Pixie

The silliest and simplest of things, because it means something to you will be special to him. This man sends me rocks, because he knows I like them.

 

[lizthewizz2000]

Some ideas

Hi, Pixie!

Wow, what a partner! I'm sure he already knows how much you appreciate him but here were some of my brainstorms...

1. If you want to be a bit erotic, you could order some sensual massage oil, lingerie, etc. and have them attach a note that says "For when we see each other face to face..."

2. I think also sending a card in a business envelope to him at work would be a great surprise. He'll be expecting another dull business letter and instead get a romantic letter or card from you!

3. Try looking in kitschy gift shops for out of the ordinary things.

4. If he's into different celebrities/musicians/etc., you can find out their address (or agent) and write them asking for an autograph. Inside, put a SASE and have it addressed to your boyfriend's place so that randomly (a few months down the line) he'll find an autographed picture of his favorite singer/actor/etc. in the mail!

I hope that you and he continue your fantastic relationship. Let us know how things go!

Liz (lizthewizz2000@yahoo.com)

http://www.literotica.com/stories/m....php?uid=141580

 

[Pamela]

I was going on vacation for a month, and I left my boyfriend a pillow. And with the pillowcase, I wrote a love note on it with permanent marker, and sprayed it with my perfume. He slept with it every night I was gone.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

hhhmm I think I need more opinions from males. hehe

 

[IrishWolfhound]

hhhmm I think I need more opinions from males. hehe

OK...you are a sexy looking little thing, and obviously very sweet and romantic. And if I wasn't already madly in love I'd try to get you to send me romantic things.

How's that for a male opinion?

And by the way...your guy is very lucky. But if you are working that hard at this, he probably already knows how you feel.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I wasnt looking for flattery but LOL thank you *Blushes*

 

[kotori]

hhhmm I think I need more opinions from males. hehe

for the most part, i'd say we're easy. i got a post-it note the other day. five words. it's stuck on my computer now. makes me very happy.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

I wasnt looking for flattery but LOL thank you *Blushes*

I'm a shameless flirst, sweetheart. Pay me no mind.

A comedian I saw once said it best: Ladies...if you are having problems understanding men, you are obviously over-thinking the situation.

We are simple creatures, Pix. Pay us a little attention. Stroke our egos. If we are in love...then that is enough.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

men are from mars women from venus

 

[IrishWolfhound]

men are from mars women from venus

See...you are over-thinking it again. Men are about 1 step above dogs, emotionally. Just pat us on the head and let us know we are loved. Thats all it takes.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

And stop changing AV's every 5 minutes. You are confusing me.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Good Pet

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Good Pet

Tell that to Lady D. She hasn't said she loves me in at least 5 minutes.

 

[Malachi]

Guys are pretty easy. If you want to make a big impression though, it's best to think sexy, in my opinion. You can write him a sexy story that you might want to act out. That's one of my favorites. Or you can send him pictures over email or regular mail. They certainly don't all need to be sexy, but it never hurts. I always love getting pictures from my girlfriend. I put them on my desktop at home and at work. I use them when I'm masturbating, too.

 

[Malachi]

When you keep changing your AV every 5 minutes, it's hard to keep up!