Rimming

you and me both. I had quite an experience about two weeks ago. A rimming lover like myself. We went at it for a long time. It was great.
 
If anyone has any advice for a reluctant partner, please share. I long to rim my wife, but she cannot get past the mental block. She's knows that I want to do this. I stopped pressuring her, but it comes up from time to time. I usually bring it up as a "prize" for something innocent between us, but the conversation ends with her protest. I leave it alone, so as not to cause damage to the relationship.

I've seen her light up before when my tongue has drifted lower & lower during oral. I think physically, it would send her over the moon based on those candid slips.

Now however, if I get "too close" she'll clamp up in an untrusting manner, even when I'm not trying to push a boundary...

Any advice, I'd appreciate it.
 
If anyone has any advice for a reluctant partner, please share. I long to rim my wife, but she cannot get past the mental block. She's knows that I want to do this. I stopped pressuring her, but it comes up from time to time. I usually bring it up as a "prize" for something innocent between us, but the conversation ends with her protest. I leave it alone, so as not to cause damage to the relationship.

I've seen her light up before when my tongue has drifted lower & lower during oral. I think physically, it would send her over the moon based on those candid slips.

Now however, if I get "too close" she'll clamp up in an untrusting manner, even when I'm not trying to push a boundary...

Any advice, I'd appreciate it.
I hear you buddy... after oral, after you're done with the front, stay a bit and lick her bum..go hard fast..dont give her time to think.

also, when in doggy, say 'i'm about to cum" and pull out.. and then dive in and lick/eat her anus...for a bit... then put your cock back and thrust away...

if she reacts negatively, just say, you couldn't resist because you looked so F'in sexy or her hole looked too sexy not to dive in.
 
I hear you buddy... after oral, after you're done with the front, stay a bit and lick her bum..go hard fast..dont give her time to think.

also, when in doggy, say 'i'm about to cum" and pull out.. and then dive in and lick/eat her anus...for a bit... then put your cock back and thrust away...

if she reacts negatively, just say, you couldn't resist because you looked so F'in sexy or her hole looked too sexy not to dive in.
Yeah, don't do anything like this-forcing something on someone non-consensually isn't going to get them to magically come around on it. Giving the benefit of the doubt, acting "in the moment" sounds like it should be something hot, but it's just a bad way of forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do.

You may need to be patient and slow with her, and communicate. Tell her why you like it, see what qualms and concerns she has, and go from there. If she thinks it's dirty, try it in the shower after washing or fresh out of the shower. If it makes her feel "dirty," explore that-dirty doesn't have to be bad. Also, be prepared that the answer might just be permanently be "no," and be willing to respect that boundary.
 
I hear you buddy... after oral, after you're done with the front, stay a bit and lick her bum..go hard fast..dont give her time to think.

also, when in doggy, say 'i'm about to cum" and pull out.. and then dive in and lick/eat her anus...for a bit... then put your cock back and thrust away...

if she reacts negatively, just say, you couldn't resist because you looked so F'in sexy or her hole looked too sexy not to dive in.
I don't hate the idea, and there's certainly something to be said for pushing past a comfort zone in the heat of passion. But the betrayal of trust isn't worth it. One step forward isn't worth the 10 steps back.

95% It has to be her idea when she's finally ready.

Less than 5% that I could get "lucky" when an errant tongue leads to ectasy...
 
When I was young, I had a lot of prejudices against anything to do with ass but at the same time felt irresistibly drawn to it. Whereas my first boyfriend, who was some years older than me and had way more experience, just loved to be rimmed. I still remember how he vividly described to me what he loved so much about it and how for him it was one of the most intimate and intense experiences. He sensed my dilemma, wouldn´t push me though, only said if I wanted to fuck him, I would have to rim him first. So one day I finally gave up my resistance because he had really made me curious and I wanted to fuck him so badly.
Maybe rimming is not for everyone. People like different things. For me the gentle pressure of my boyfriend opened up a whole new world of sensation. To spread his cheeks, feel him on my lips, explore him with my tongue ... And afterwards, when I pull out, to see him red and puffed, clinging to me as if he didn´t want to release me ... it´s a huge turn-on for me.
 
When I was young, I had a lot of prejudices against anything to do with ass but at the same time felt irresistibly drawn to it. Whereas my first boyfriend, who was some years older than me and had way more experience, just loved to be rimmed. I still remember how he vividly described to me what he loved so much about it and how for him it was one of the most intimate and intense experiences. He sensed my dilemma, wouldn´t push me though, only said if I wanted to fuck him, I would have to rim him first. So one day I finally gave up my resistance because he had really made me curious and I wanted to fuck him so badly.
Maybe rimming is not for everyone. People like different things. For me the gentle pressure of my boyfriend opened up a whole new world of sensation. To spread his cheeks, feel him on my lips, explore him with my tongue ... And afterwards, when I pull out, to see him red and puffed, clinging to me as if he didn´t want to release me ... it´s a huge turn-on for me.
Wow that’s hot!
 
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