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I want a pm where a guy doesn't apologize for sending it. Doesn't start out with something like "sorry for the pm or hope I'm not bothering you....." pssst most of us are on here for a reason.![]()

I love receiving random private unexpected PMs
As opposed to random PUBLIC unexpected pm's? So if that's the case......and I were wanting to send you a random PUBLIC unexpected pm of me in my birthday suit......you wouldn't want it? wow you really know hot to make a girl feel wanted.ok gotta go cry my eyes out now.
I want a pm where a guy doesn't apologize for sending it. Doesn't start out with something like "sorry for the pm or hope I'm not bothering you....." pssst most of us are on here for a reason.![]()
Well said! ^5![]()
I'm Canadian, we're known for saying sorry a lot and I gotta say, WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT? Nothing says you lack confidence in yourself like apologizing for speaking to them.
My two cents at least.
I actually did a thread about this very thing once. Yeah I want a man to be a gentleman (sometimes) but I still want him to be a man. I don't bite. (look that ONE time I was drunk ok so get off it) I nibble a little.
Now, I understand where they'd be coming from. Women get bombarded with a lot of shitty PMs on this site. But, if they were that annoyed by it, they'd disable PMs. Don't start off by apologizing. Start off with something witty. Something surprising. Something with substance.
Not a dick pic, or a text speak pile of crap either.
Anyway, I'm rambling now.
Now, I understand where they'd be coming from. Women get bombarded with a lot of shitty PMs on this site. But, if they were that annoyed by it, they'd disable PMs. Don't start off by apologizing. Start off with something witty. Something surprising. Something with substance.
Not a dick pic, or a text speak pile of crap either.
Anyway, I'm rambling now.
Can't ever go wrong with witty or substance. Well said.
I can't stand small talk. Give me substance any day. Tell me your passions. Your interests. Talk about sex. Talk about life. But not about the weather. Flirtatious banter is another matter entirely though![]()