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Holly Delight said:
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Is that just too much information, or what???:D


can you have too much info when you're dealing with such critical issues?
 
Holly Delight said:
You're right. It is critical isn't it?

How are you TOG?



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good thanks. just went for a long walk inthe woods, through a foot of snow to look at some land someone wants to sell. it was gorgeous. is that too much info? :D
 
TheOlderGuy said:
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good thanks. just went for a long walk inthe woods, through a foot of snow to look at some land someone wants to sell. it was gorgeous. is that too much info? :D


Are you looking to buy woodland?

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MistyBluEyes said:
Could it be because after 2 bad ones, it kind of makes you leary about doing it again?


did you know that the fifth time was the charm for me? :eek:
 
MistyBluEyes said:
Do you ever Really know when it's right TOG? I thought I did twice, and was wrong.


do you know i became very cynical over the years?
but i tried to maintain my faith while restoring my own values after each failure. and in the end it was all worth it. we have such an easy perfect time with each other. it can happen. and it doesn't take compromising values. maybe compromising about where to put the furniture, or whose relatives to visit on the holidays. that's easy, but if you find yourself giving up on core values (and there's signs really early on if you're paying attention) then it's the wrong person, not a bad person, just the wrong one for you.
was that too long an answer?
 
TheOlderGuy said:
do you know i became very cynical over the years?
but i tried to maintain my faith while restoring my own values after each failure. and in the end it was all worth it. we have such an easy perfect time with each other. it can happen. and it doesn't take compromising values. maybe compromising about where to put the furniture, or whose relatives to visit on the holidays. that's easy, but if you find yourself giving up on core values (and there's signs really early on if you're paying attention) then it's the wrong person, not a bad person, just the wrong one for you.
was that too long an answer?

No it isn't too long of an answer.....and thank you, you made me realize that I may still have a chance....at least when the time is right.....but it's ok to shy away from the word marriage right now right? :D
 
would it be innapproriate for me to jump in?

Could it be that one reason so many Marriages fall apart, is because one or both members don't see it as a partnership, and don't get beyond the what can this person do for me? Instead of what can i do for them? or what can we do together?

Might it be that this society is so "self" oriented that maybe it discourages people from thinking of their lifemate as partner and compainion?
 
Maester said:
would it be innapproriate for me to jump in?

Could it be that one reason so many Marriages fall apart, is because one or both members don't see it as a partnership, and don't get beyond the what can this person do for me? Instead of what can i do for them? or what can we do together?

Might it be that this society is so "self" oriented that maybe it discourages people from thinking of their lifemate as partner and compainion?


Of course you can jump in when you like. Welcome....

Are you married?
 
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