Lancecastor
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celiaKitten said:But don't start saying she's blameless in the whole drama.
You are right, she is not blameless.
I've seen plenty of qualified, backhanded psuedo apologies here before and find them insulting when they are given to me as well.
My point in this cluster-fuck revolves more around the pack mentality and grade-school social committee heirarchy here.
Next week or the week after that, somebody new will say or do something that pisses off one of the HeavyPosters and a new pile-on will commence.
Whereas if that guy with the Caesar Romero as Joker av chooses to say nothing but "You are a pig fucker." after your posts for a week, many of you will find it amusing, because you are used to him and take him for what he is I assume.
KidRock, for example, despite apparently being grossly disliked here, posted late last nite with some points about Indigo's stunt that were sound and helpful advice to some here who apparently are not very sophisticated Internet users despite their strong interest in Lit.
Because I prefer to look at the merit in what is said over any perceived "status" gained via the Unwritten Laws and decided over PM Net and other backchannel setups, I see no problem in agreeing with you, Indigo, KidRock, Marxist, DCL, KillerMuffin, etc, when they make what I think is a good point.
Likewise, I see no difficulty in disagreeing with you or anyone if I think your point of view is flawed.
It's an exchange of ideas for me, most often without emotional investment, a desire to learn how people think, and to have a few laughs.
I'm sorry, for example, that Siren's computer isn't in a happy place...but I have no problem making some humour hay with her grossly emotional and illogical responses.
Those are her trademarks and sometimes I find them funny, as I do Texan's BigDick Mr Man attitude, Ishmael's ramrod stiff opinions, Lavender's grad-school passion and DCL's talent for a scalpel-like one liner.
Indigo Rose did something naughty. But no naughtier than a lot of what I see here daily.
It just took a different form and that touched a nerve by raising the possibility that your activities on Lit might entend out past one's keyboard.
It is fair game to let her know that people didn't appreciate that as a breach of the Unwritten Law.
The rest of it is a poor reflection on those who stoop to it.
That's what I think.
Cheers;
Lance
