Okay, so me and girlfriend for the most part have what would be called a normal relationship, but I've got a dominant streak (though nothing that major), and she enjoys being submissive so we've been playing around with master slave roles in bed. However, one of the things that's happened in the past with this kind of relationship where hte master-slave play only really occurs in the bed is that...Hmm, not sure how to say this right. But the relationship's realities can intrude on the fantasy. That is, she can say I can make her do anything I want, but I know she doesn't mean she'll clean the house or do something she's not thought of herself already. How can I minimize this/bring her around to trying new things through orders without breaking the mood?