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Bluebanzai

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I like literotica, because it's hot. It's a place of refuge from the many shades of shit that exist out there in the real world.

And I've chosen not to do social media, because it's full of lies, hatred and anger.

But.

When I look at the new threads now, they're about 50% focused on the latest posturings of a single (not even attractive) US politician. I try to stay open to the kinks of others, so I'm asking this with an open mind.

Does he appear here so much because he's now achieved the status of fetishism: like, folks can't get aroused on a sex site without discussing him? Does hie tie get you hard? Does his hair intrigue you? Does the poetry of his prose leave you weak at the knees?

Or, should literotica remain a place of relative refuge, leaving twitterXfacebookToktikblueskymastodon to cover those other hate-filled bases of unlistening rant, thinly disguised as 'discussion'?

Asking for myself, and fellow online refugees.

*Stands back, and waits for the storm.
 
I like literotica, because it's hot. It's a place of refuge from the many shades of shit that exist out there in the real world.

And I've chosen not to do social media, because it's full of lies, hatred and anger.

But.

When I look at the new threads now, they're about 50% focused on the latest posturings of a single (not even attractive) US politician. I try to stay open to the kinks of others, so I'm asking this with an open mind.

Does he appear here so much because he's now achieved the status of fetishism: like, folks can't get aroused on a sex site without discussing him? Does hie tie get you hard? Does his hair intrigue you? Does the poetry of his prose leave you weak at the knees?

Or, should literotica remain a place of relative refuge, leaving twitterXfacebookToktikblueskymastodon to cover those other hate-filled bases of unlistening rant, thinly disguised as 'discussion'?

Asking for myself, and fellow online refugees.

*Stands back, and waits for the storm.
A few questions first: Are you an American? Who did you vote for? Are you a white heterosexual or identify as a Christian male?
 
It's a "free speech forum" by premise, and somewhat by design. That, plus the nature of its focus, brings out people who hate the free expression of sexuality (right-fringe incels), who love it, and who secretly love it but have been told to hate themselves for loving it, and thus express mostly hate.

It's still a refuge for great people, but also for awful people whose families won't interact with them any longer. I don't see the latter going away unless the administration radically changed the focus of the place.

We do, however, have a separate Politics forum now. Better than nothing.
 
I like literotica, because it's hot. It's a place of refuge from the many shades of shit that exist out there in the real world.

And I've chosen not to do social media, because it's full of lies, hatred and anger.

But.

When I look at the new threads now, they're about 50% focused on the latest posturings of a single (not even attractive) US politician. I try to stay open to the kinks of others, so I'm asking this with an open mind.

Does he appear here so much because he's now achieved the status of fetishism: like, folks can't get aroused on a sex site without discussing him? Does hie tie get you hard? Does his hair intrigue you? Does the poetry of his prose leave you weak at the knees?

Or, should literotica remain a place of relative refuge, leaving twitterXfacebookToktikblueskymastodon to cover those other hate-filled bases of unlistening rant, thinly disguised as 'discussion'?

Asking for myself, and fellow online refugees.

*Stands back, and waits for the storm.

There are many subforms on Lit. This one is for political discussion/argumentation.

If the discussions/threads which are here upset you, you should seek another subforum for refuge.
 
There are many subforms on Lit. This one is for political discussion/argumentation.

If the discussions/threads which are here upset you, you should seek another subforum for refuge.
And once again you fail to comprehend the OP.
 
Welcome to the Free Speech Ghetto known as the Literotica Politics Board.

Have you ever been minding your own business on, say, a New York City public subway and a mentally unbalanced man (or, in rare instances, a woman claiming to be some Marine Corps captain's wife) boards the car and proceeds to lecture his (or her) captive audience with detailed accounts of space aliens and anal probes?

That was the Literotica General Board about six or so years ago. A select brand of hyperconservative ne'er-do-wells essentially hijacked the General Board on a daily basis. Most of them were unemployed and on disability, so this allowed them the freedom of lecturing their captive audience for literally hours at a time, from sunup to sundown

Management of this board saw the dwindling engagement numbers of the General Board, many folks "voted with their feet" and left forever, it just wasn't pleasurable to being lectured daily by White Supremacists (and their "even more odious" mixed race "Semi-White Supremacist Auxilliary".

Ergo, this board.

It's not for everyone.
 
And once again you fail to comprehend the OP.

You should follow the OP back to the Lounge because it's been obvious for a long time now that the PB upsets you to the point of dithering and foaming at the mouth.

Please remember that after you pack your bags and reserve your train ticket outta here, you will not be missed.
 
You should follow the OP back to the Lounge because it's been obvious for a long time now that the PB upsets you to the point of dithering and foaming at the mouth.
Sorry, you're wrong, again. The PB gives me some of the funniest ways to fill in some time.
Please remember that after you pack your bags and reserve your train ticket outta here, you will not be missed.
You should say that to a mirror.
 
Sorry, you're wrong, again. The PB gives me some of the funniest ways to fill in some time.

You should say that to a mirror.

Not my fault you can't keep up. Especially when the times, they are achanging.
 
Think of Literotica is being like a small city. There are some nice older sections, and some nice newer sections. Flowers bloom, birds sing, trees bud out in the spring time. And then there is the political board. It is the neighbourhood down by the sewer treatment plant. Think of derelict streets strewn with trash and used needles and broken glass, with abandoned houses and its only occupants being meth whores and on-the-run criminals.


In short, there are so many places to post on lit for kinks and other things. This forum isn’t it.
 
Not my fault you can't keep up. Especially when the times, they are achanging.
For you maybe, nothing much has changed here. Trump bluffed, we called him on it, he bailed. Just a typical day of me putting you and your lot in their place.
 
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Also, the question of fetishizing trump should be directed solely towards those who voted for him. Everyone else sees and recognizes him as a danger. I, and I would venture to bet no other member identifying as a voting democrat, own no no article of clothing idolizing any candidate that we see fit to wear 365 days of the year. Our hats, buttons and pins are in a box as soon as an election ends.
 
Gosh, it didn't take long for intolerance and bickering to emerge. Honestly, that's kind of my point when these futile shouty topics crop up, and I wonder, 'why here'? It's not like there's much respectful consideration of alternative views in most of these posts.

Guess I'm encouraged to get the history lesson on why this forum is at least now segregated, which seems positive. Thanks for enlightening me, Rob. And Wat, your metaphor made me smile. I'm new here, but still bewildered as to why so many want to polemicise on Lit. Takes all sorts.

I'm not sure my own attributes are that relevant to the broader question, but in response to bn2f's query, and for what it's worth, here goes. Much of the info you seek is on my profile, but as a summary, I'm not American, humanist, male, hetero, and white. If you're from the US, my political choices don't equate to yours, because labels like "right wing", "liberal" and "socialist" are pretty reductive. So although I could tell you about the last vote I cast, it would be irrelevant: plus, voter confidentiality is a principle people died for, and I'm not compromising it here.
 
Gosh, it didn't take long for intolerance and bickering to emerge. Honestly, that's kind of my point when these futile shouty topics crop up, and I wonder, 'why here'? It's not like there's much respectful consideration of alternative views in most of these posts.

Guess I'm encouraged to get the history lesson on why this forum is at least now segregated, which seems positive. Thanks for enlightening me, Rob. And Wat, your metaphor made me smile. I'm new here, but still bewildered as to why so many want to polemicise on Lit. Takes all sorts.

I'm not sure my own attributes are that relevant to the broader question, but in response to bn2f's query, and for what it's worth, here goes. Much of the info you seek is on my profile, but as a summary, I'm not American, humanist, male, hetero, and white. If you're from the US, my political choices don't equate to yours, because labels like "right wing", "liberal" and "socialist" are pretty reductive. So although I could tell you about the last vote I cast, it would be irrelevant: plus, voter confidentiality is a principle people died for, and I'm not compromising it here.
The overall scene that I see members trying to convey to you, is that the PB exist and if other members do not like it, they do not necessarily need to come here. I respect that. I have said that I am a fool for coming to a sex site and debating politics, but here I am. You can judge me on that and I will not object.

You are a foreigner. I aKnowledge that and tell you that you are correct that indicating who you voted for is not a necessity. Here’s what you are missing from American politics. Those who stand for democracy are never ashamed to tell you who they voted for whether times are good or bad. To bring this full circle, those who voted for Trump are quick to leave a discussion when things go bad And are the only ones, that I have found to see, who will not tell who they voted for.
 
Also, I asked about your race and sexual identity because I have found that those people are not as threatened by the existence of a felon and rapist in the highest political office. If you watch commentary by even left-wing white males, they will freely admit that they will be OK in Trump‘s America.

So yes, in whatever part of this world that you may occupy, the talking about the dangers of Trump may seem like a fetish to you.
 
I like literotica, because it's hot. It's a place of refuge from the many shades of shit that exist out there in the real world.

And I've chosen not to do social media, because it's full of lies, hatred and anger.

But.

When I look at the new threads now, they're about 50% focused on the latest posturings of a single (not even attractive) US politician. I try to stay open to the kinks of others, so I'm asking this with an open mind.

Does he appear here so much because he's now achieved the status of fetishism: like, folks can't get aroused on a sex site without discussing him? Does hie tie get you hard? Does his hair intrigue you? Does the poetry of his prose leave you weak at the knees?

Or, should literotica remain a place of relative refuge, leaving twitterXfacebookToktikblueskymastodon to cover those other hate-filled bases of unlistening rant, thinly disguised as 'discussion'?

Asking for myself, and fellow online refugees.

*Stands back, and waits for the storm.
Welcome, Noob. You picked an interesting place to stray to from the Playground. I originally joined Lit for the porn and stayed for the free-er speech. I recommend bringing a tough skin if you plan to hang out in here.

The politician I think you're referring to lives rent free in the heads of most of the posters here.

Enjoy the ride.
 
Welcome, Noob. You picked an interesting place to stray to from the Playground. I originally joined Lit for the porn and stayed for the free-er speech. I recommend bringing a tough skin if you plan to hang out in here.

The politician I think you're referring to lives rent free in the heads of most of the posters here.

Enjoy the ride.

I think it's obvious that he wandered in here thinking he could just toss a few well couched progressive viewpoints and anti-Trump comments around and not catch any flack for it.
 
I think it's obvious that he wandered in here thinking he could just toss a few well couched progressive viewpoints and anti-Trump comments around and not catch any flack for it.
Maybe. I'm trying to be objective. Still, not even 25 posts and he comes here?
 
Maybe. I'm trying to be objective. Still, not even 25 posts and he comes here?

It's rather obvious. Self important geek thinks he's the be-all end-all of Lit sexy and decides his opinion is of greater import than ours.

He on Lit trying for a hook up for heaven's sake.
 
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