Reconnecting with a Mistress/Owner

[Beck31]

Hi guys. Beck the pup here after a long absense. I took a long break from my owner due to some personal issues she and I could not resolve and it broke my heart.
I am finding it hard to reconnect with her and I am wondering if it could possible be me?
I am still required to send daily emails many of which go unreturned due to her busy schedule (she has my litter-mate(s) to also deal with).
Have any of you experienced this and if so how did you reconnect? Thanks in advance.

 

[eastern sun]

Hi guys. Beck the pup here after a long absense. I took a long break from my owner due to some personal issues she and I could not resolve and it broke my heart.
I am finding it hard to reconnect with her and I am wondering if it could possible be me?
I am still required to send daily emails many of which go unreturned due to her busy schedule (she has my litter-mate(s) to also deal with).
Have any of you experienced this and if so how did you reconnect? Thanks in advance.

Instead of focusing on your needs, focus on hers and demonstrate how you are able to meet them. In my experience, your ability to actually meet her needs and/or satisfy her desires will make you a cherished pup.

There are lots of challenges in doing that too. First, accurately identifying her needs and desires (and separating them from yours). Second, learning how to satisfy her needs and desires, even if they aren't your own. Third, avoiding the pitfalls of discouragement, self-interest, and fear that your needs won't be met as you work to reconnect.

I've been in this position more than once, and I can tell you that it is possible.

 

[Beck31]

Thank you Eastern Sun. Much appreciated.

 

[subwannabe]

Are you sure that SHE wants to reconnect? Sounds to me like she is playing with you. A relationship is a relationship. Maybe this one has been over and cannot be restarted. It also sounds to me like you are torturing yourself when you should be spending your energy in finding a new playmate. The relationship was over for a reason and I doubt all of the issues that split you apart have been resolved. In my opinion it is time to quit bashing your head up against a brick wall and move on. You sound like a lovesick teenager who won't let go.