Really touchy topic

[Sillyman]

Right. I was just wondering the other day if there were any unique difficulties with having sex with someone who is of large size and weight. I'm not trying to be offensive, I am genuinely curious, and if anyone has any practical experience, with partners of either gender, than I would greatly appreciate it if you would shae it with me? Are there any oitfalls that need to be watched for? What positions are best? Thanks.

 

[lovetoread]

Well hell..

I will take the plunge and answer you.

There is nothing different at all. Why would you think there would be?

 

[lilminx]

Well, my ex was 270 pounds, and I have to say that he was not as limber as he was when he had been thinner. It also wasn't fun when he would collapse on top me after having sex- he almost crushed me with his weight.

 

[Azwed]

My gf is more then a hundred lbs lighter then me. She is tiny and I am kind of big I have to be a little careful at times when we really get into it that I don't hurt her. She likes it pretty rough at times but I have to be careful because she is so small.

I have to be careful when I am on top not to put too much pressure on her. She was on top of me once and I rolled her over so that I was on top and we think that i bruised one of her ribs. She had a pretty bad sore spot there for a while and the way she desicribed the pain it sounded like how I felt when i hurt my ribs years ago.

 

[michaelmt1]

My SO (Female) is double my weight and it makes little differance to be at all.

I dont see why you would think it would, mind you woman on top positions I know who is in control there !!!!


Mike

 

[Sillyman]

Well hell..

I will take the plunge and answer you.

There is nothing different at all. Why would you think there would be?

Because I wasn't sure if there would be or not.

Unlike most basically cosmetic differences between people, being overweight tends to limit physical capability. I wanted to know if there was need to factor this in for a vigorous activity like sex, or if there were any unforeseen difficulties that could come up is all.

 

[Nora]

I'll bite...

There's individual differences, of course. I can only speak to what me and my gfs have discussed among ourselves.

Some of us are less limber than others (which is true of any population, not just us squishy types). Some girls might be really sensative about their weight and not like you touching or kissing their stomachs (or whatever part they're most concerned over). Some girls might prefer sex with the lights out for the same reason.

Otherwise, we're put together the same way as everyone else.

 

[Guest]

Have you tried rolling her in dough and looking for the wet spot?

 

[Rambling Rose]

*pointedly ignoring our "guest"*

A quick search on the wonderful world wide web unearthed this little gem! Hope you have someone wonderful in mind, Sillyman.

click here:
Helpful Hints for Bopping Big Girls

 

[Sillyman]

A quick search on the wonderful world wide web unearthed this little gem! Hope you have someone wonderful in mind, Sillyman.

click here:
Helpful Hints for Bopping Big Girls

Thank you Rose. Very Enlightening. I hope to ut the knowledge to good use in the future.