Reading Ads - Which are not real?

[ShyLana]

I am a hopeless ad reader - on that other well-known CL website. It is creepy to think it's usually men posing as women - and I am usually looking for other mature bi women. I guess the most sexual are usually from men. I'm learning the ropes. How ca n you tell which are fake? (I just discovered the board here. Already in "love.")