Rape Scenarios

[PCE_Keeper]

Ok so is anyone here into rape scenarios? I know it's not unheard of. It's even been on TV so there has to be other people who are into the idea of a rape scenario. Was just curious if anyone here had actually done it? If so I would love to hear the story behind this and maybe get a few tips on pulling one off.

 

[HeyItsDani]

I've been "raped" several times as a part of sex club play, and have very vivid forced sex fantasies of my own. I'm not going to discuss the scenarios publicly or tell any "stories" about them, though. If you have specific questions about logistics or how to prep for that kind of thing, ask and I'll answer from my experiences.

The three most important things to keep in mind when contemplating rape play are scope of play, safe words, and aftercare. The person(s) raping and the person(s) being raped need to discuss specifically what's in bounds and what's out of bounds, how realistic you want to make it (will it be a surprise, or occur at a specific time? Will you hit her or not, and if so, where, how hard, etc. Will you use condoms or not? Will you use lube or not - very important if anal rape is going to occur.)

Pick some safe words. The person being raped should use a safe word if it gets to the point where s/he's no longer comfortable with what's going on, either psychologically or physically. Like most people, my personal safe words are "yellow" for something that's approaching a limit, or "red" to call an immediate stop to whatever's going on. You also need to have physical "safe actions" that s/he can use in the event s/he can't speak (kind of hard to articulate a word with someone's cock down your throat, I've found). Three taps, three raised fingers, three blinks of the eyes, or something. Whatever you decide to use, make sure you're keeping an eye out for it.

And then there's aftercare, which is especially important if you're going to make it something approaching a realistic rape. You'll need to comfort the "victim", let him/her know that everything's okay and that they're safe, make sure they're hydrated, and keep an eye on their psychological condition for a period after the rape. This increases in importance with the "realness" of the rape scenario.

I may think of more stuff you need to keep in mind, but that's the first things that come to my mind at this point.

 

[PCE_Keeper]

Wow thanks for the info. Very informative. My only concern is that if I plan it out that much with her then I'd be afraid it would ruin the actual play when it came. She desires a surprise scenario with a very realistic follow through.

 

[HeyItsDani]

Wow thanks for the info. Very informative. My only concern is that if I plan it out that much with her then I'd be afraid it would ruin the actual play when it came. She desires a surprise scenario with a very realistic follow through.

You fail to plan, you plan to fail. Rape scenarios can involve both physical and psychological damage if done incorrectly. I wasn't suggesting you sit down and write out minute details, but at a very minimum you need to set some boundaries so you don't end up hurting her.

 

[subwannabe]

Are you raping her or is someone else?

 

[PCE_Keeper]

I understand what you mean Dani.

@subwannabe, I would be doing the rape. Possibly have a friend of mine in on it as well. Make it seem a little more realistic taking turns and what not. Haven't really done a lot of planning yet to be honest. Just have some ideas.

 

[LindsayRae]

Rape scenarios can involve both physical and psychological damage if done incorrectly. I wasn't suggesting you sit down and write out minute details, but at a very minimum you need to set some boundaries so you don't end up hurting her.

Very well said.

 

[LindsayRae]

P.S.

Who is the "she"? A girlfriend? A wife? Just a friend? (Not trying to be a bitch here, but...) A total stranger who has no idea you are "setting this up"? (Hey, it has to be asked!)

 

[BongoGal]

At the very least, a safeword needs to be agreed upon ahead of time. Also, you'd better make damned sure that having a friend involved would be welcome.

I've been involved in three scenarios like this. Two times were planned ahead of time role play and a lot of fun. The other time was unplanned and not fun, but I was angry instead of scared. It was also quite literally "all my fault", not in the sense that I was "asking for it", but rather in the sense that I foolishly challenged him, told him he couldn't if I tried to resist, and then put myself in position to let him try. He did stop when I told him to stop, of course. At the time, I was angry at myself for losing and very frustrated, but as time passed I came to view the whole thing in an erotic light. I should turn it into a story someday.

 

[PCE_Keeper]

@Lindsay, she is a good friend.

@BongoGal, Thanks for the reply, would love to read that story some time. Maybe gimme some ideas of what to do and what not to do. lol

Sounds like I definitely have to do some planning. lol I told her next time she came over I wanted to discuss some of this with her. I just don't wanna plan it to the point that when it happens she instantly realizes it's all a game. From what I was told already, she really wants it to seem real till the end.

 

[KatieTay]

Reminds me of that one episode of House where it looks like a rape and home invasion, but turns out it's just a couple spicing things up... and the husband suddenly encounters a medical complication.

I did think at the time, what if the wife had been the one to encounter that medical complication... depending on a lot of factors like the lighting, the mood, the husband's perceptiveness, the position they happen to be in... it could prove somewhat dangerous.

 

[Jaydoes]

I've done it by request...similar to what the ladies are saying....there were specific things that she did and didn't want. How we worked it out is that we set up a framework of clue's and discussed her interests and what general times and days would work. So she knew that it could happen, but I never specifically told her I was going to do it but made sure I had permission. In our case, she loved it and it probably happened maybe 4 times, always randomly, before she found a relationship and let me know that was it.
I agree with the ladies though, you need to know that she's okay with the plans before you try anything..just be noncomittal about it so she won't know for sure if you'll actually go through with it..and the element of surprise is still there.

 

[PCE_Keeper]

Thanks for all the info peeps. She is coming over tonight or tomorrow so we will discuss some of this stuff and see how things look then.

 

[webjock]

Rape Scenarios.

I've been "raped" several times as a part of sex club play, and have very vivid forced sex fantasies of my own. I'm not going to discuss the scenarios publicly or tell any "stories" about them, though. If you have specific questions about logistics or how to prep for that kind of thing, ask and I'll answer from my experiences.

The three most important things to keep in mind when contemplating rape play are scope of play, safe words, and aftercare. The person(s) raping and the person(s) being raped need to discuss specifically what's in bounds and what's out of bounds, how realistic you want to make it (will it be a surprise, or occur at a specific time? Will you hit her or not, and if so, where, how hard, etc. Will you use condoms or not? Will you use lube or not - very important if anal rape is going to occur.)

Pick some safe words. The person being raped should use a safe word if it gets to the point where s/he's no longer comfortable with what's going on, either psychologically or physically. Like most people, my personal safe words are "yellow" for something that's approaching a limit, or "red" to call an immediate stop to whatever's going on. You also need to have physical "safe actions" that s/he can use in the event s/he can't speak (kind of hard to articulate a word with someone's cock down your throat, I've found). Three taps, three raised fingers, three blinks of the eyes, or something. Whatever you decide to use, make sure you're keeping an eye out for it.

And then there's aftercare, which is especially important if you're going to make it something approaching a realistic rape. You'll need to comfort the "victim", let him/her know that everything's okay and that they're safe, make sure they're hydrated, and keep an eye on their psychological condition for a period after the rape. This increases in importance with the "realness" of the rape scenario.

I may think of more stuff you need to keep in mind, but that's the first things that come to my mind at this point.

Thanks for educating me on that, HeyItsDani. I did not know that many folks were into Rape Fetishes/Fantasies. As for me, I can't even dream about raping anyone or being raped, period.

 

[DarkRefuge]

We should really thank the ladies for giving such wonderful tips!
From a guy point of view I would like to tell you only one thing: Do not get carried away. I cannot stress it enough when I say that you have to keep a check on reality all the time. In a rape scenario it is very easy to go overboard. Even if it is a play-acting, your partner will be actually in your 'mercy' and when in the heat of the moment you see how helpless and vulnerable she has become, you WILL have a strong urge to 'conquer' her. This is genetic behavior, you cannot help it. 99% of the male population will feel the same, me included. Be prepared to overcome this instinct.
Rape-plays can be a lot of fun and you should be able to enjoy a lot even with safe words and agreed-upon actions.

 

[Diana1488]

Rape role play

Tried some role play at the weekend with Hubby and another guy.... A rape scenario in which I was abducted and driven out into the countryside and raped by two guys before being murdered. We got as far as to tie cord around my neck to choke me. It was such a turn on that I peed myself

 

[LindsayRae]

Tried some role play at the weekend with Hubby and another guy.... A rape scenario in which I was abducted and driven out into the countryside and raped by two guys before being murdered. We got as far as to tie cord around my neck to choke me. It was such a turn on that I peed myself

Let us know how the murder part of your fantasy comes out. Still molesting your son? That may motivate your husband!

 

[DarkRefuge]

Tried some role play at the weekend with Hubby and another guy.... A rape scenario in which I was abducted and driven out into the countryside and raped by two guys before being murdered. We got as far as to tie cord around my neck to choke me. It was such a turn on that I peed myself

A bit more details won't harm anyone...

 

[LaRascasse]

Let us know how the murder part of your fantasy comes out. Still molesting your son? That may motivate your husband!

WTF??!!

 

[LindsayRae]

WTF??!!

She has a lot of old posts where she "molested her under aged son", "couldn't come to terms with it", but then "bragged" in other incest threads. Seems she was all over the board regarding her seduction.

 

[LaRascasse]

She has a lot of old posts where she "molested her under aged son", "couldn't come to terms with it", but then "bragged" in other incest threads. Seems she was all over the board regarding her seduction.

"Molested her underaged son"??!!

That is sick . How is she even allowed on this forum?

 

[LindsayRae]

That's a good question. She resurfaces once in a while. Then when people tell her how gross her posts are (as in, those older ones) she vanishes for months again.

 

[LindsayRae]

Some old gems...

Here's one gem.
Disgusting.

Seems in How To, the mod deleted her "delemia" post about molesting her son.

 

[LaRascasse]

That's a good question. She resurfaces once in a while. Then when people tell her how gross her posts are (as in, those older ones) she vanishes for months again.

OMG That is wrong on so many levels.

Is this a forum for people to describe their exploits which should have ideally sent them to jail? Brag about them even?

 

[DarkRefuge]

A lot of people seemed to like that in fact...
And that's worse...