TheRedChamber
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I'm not sure what fantasy you're talking about. Man rescues a woman and she swoons for him? I'm not sure that's a fantasy so much as it is a trope. It seems pretty common.
I have to agree, sadly. Pulling just one example at random, think of the Flash Gordon flicks of the 1930s, where the hero kept rescuing Dale Arden from Ming the Merciless' forcing her to marry him. (Cheesy now, that last was no doubt very daring a century ago.) It's not a bad trope, truly, but it's probably not N/C.
I think it's a common enough idle fantasy. Nothing highlights your good points and genuine commitment to a person like saving them from mortal danger. Of course, it's a short step from casually reflecting on how Kelly Smith in sixth form might actually agree to go on a date with you if you save her from a raging fire in the Chemistry building to actually sneaking in and mixing a timed exothermic reaction during third period - and so perhaps the insecure shouldn't dwell on them too much.
There are two extremes for writing this - the Flash Gordon version where the hero has to save the girl because that's just what heroes do and he'd save anyone without a second though, and the version where it's more of a hope-springs-eternal for the nerdy no-hoper.
Modern feminist analysis of course stresses that women shouldn't go around feeling sexually indebted to men just because they've saved their life. This is perfectly reasonable, but I feel like modern media sometimes takes this to extreme. Particularly in How to Train Your Dragon 3 where a lot of the emotional drama centers around whether the FMC will finally agree to marry the MMC. Now, I'm not saying that a women has to marry a man just because he's saved no only her own life but her whole village twice, but I am saying that the guy has saved her village twice AND her other options look like this...

...there's only so much indecision this audience member is going to be able to take.


