Rape Advice?

yellow1

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Hello all,

Over the course of these past few months, my girlfriend has expressed a desire to be raped. Not raped in the traditional source of the word, but, well, forcively taken in a way that's loving (yes that makes little sense but I hope you all understand what I mean). In other words, she doesn't want to be savaged by a stranger in a parking lot, but the idea of forced sex turns her on.

I was a little turned off by the idea at first. I do realize this is something she will enjoy, so I'm willing to put aside my objections and try to make her happy. The problem is... I don't know where or how to start?

I'm 100% that jumping her as she comes home from work will result in much pain being delivered onto me, not a fun sexual romp. So how do I go about doing this in a way that wont be perceived as completely malevolent, but the logical conclusion of her fantasy?

I assume we'll be in the right mood before this needs to happen and I'll list the ideas I've come up with so far. If anyone has any input or suggestions about anything, please let me know.
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For starters, we'll probably be fooling around to put her in the mood. At some point, I decided it would be prudent to surprise her kind of.. by heading off to a separate room and leaving her hanging. She'll most likely investigate, and when she wanders into the room - that's when I'll carry it out. If anyone has a better idea, share please. This is to make sure she's very turned on........... the rest though........

From then on, I don't know if I should blindfold her and tie her up (maybe both). Or possibly just have intercourse with her while she's tied up, and pay no attention to her needs while spanking her hard (I'm thinking about making sure she restrained so that she'll be leaning over the edge of a bed and more or less incapable of moving), then wait 10 or so minutes, return and do it again while paying more attention to her fun? Maybe lightly gag her with something I've cummed on a few times beforehand?

That's all I've come up with so far. If it helps the matter any, she's not opposed to light spanking/bondage type activities. Oh, she's not big on anal and rather dislikes having her hair pulled (so that's out of the question unless it's a really good idea).

I'm also absolutely sure this is something she wants done. I just need input and ideas.

Thank you in advance,
Yellow
 
Talk to Cymbidia, she may be your best bet for educated information.

TRUST TRUST TRUST...and most of all COMMUNICATION!
 
Oh I know exactly what you mean yellow1. I can totally relate. I love it when my guy holds my arms up over my head, uses one hand to hold them there and has his way with me. Yummmm. Of course, I agree with dreamer, trust is the only way to go.

Good luck!
 
Raw Sex, thats what I'm talking about.

yellow1 said:
Hello all,

Over the course of these past few months, my girlfriend has expressed a desire to be raped. Not raped in the traditional source of the word, but, well, forcively taken in a way that's loving (yes that makes little sense but I hope you all understand what I mean). In other words, she doesn't want to be savaged by a stranger in a parking lot, but the idea of forced sex turns her on.

I was a little turned off by the idea at first. I do realize this is something she will enjoy, so I'm willing to put aside my objections and try to make her happy. The problem is... I don't know where or how to start?

I'm 100% that jumping her as she comes home from work will result in much pain being delivered onto me, not a fun sexual romp. So how do I go about doing this in a way that wont be perceived as completely malevolent, but the logical conclusion of her fantasy?

I assume we'll be in the right mood before this needs to happen and I'll list the ideas I've come up with so far. If anyone has any input or suggestions about anything, please let me know.
------

For starters, we'll probably be fooling around to put her in the mood. At some point, I decided it would be prudent to surprise her kind of.. by heading off to a separate room and leaving her hanging. She'll most likely investigate, and when she wanders into the room - that's when I'll carry it out. If anyone has a better idea, share please. This is to make sure she's very turned on........... the rest though........

From then on, I don't know if I should blindfold her and tie her up (maybe both). Or possibly just have intercourse with her while she's tied up, and pay no attention to her needs while spanking her hard (I'm thinking about making sure she restrained so that she'll be leaning over the edge of a bed and more or less incapable of moving), then wait 10 or so minutes, return and do it again while paying more attention to her fun? Maybe lightly gag her with something I've cummed on a few times beforehand?

That's all I've come up with so far. If it helps the matter any, she's not opposed to light spanking/bondage type activities. Oh, she's not big on anal and rather dislikes having her hair pulled (so that's out of the question unless it's a really good idea).

I'm also absolutely sure this is something she wants done. I just need input and ideas.

Thank you in advance,
Yellow

Just a guess but it sounds like she wants a guy to take charge. To love her erotically and passionately without hesitation.

Oh wait, maybe thats me*L*
 
Yellow, this is just my opinion, but the IDEA of submitting to forced sex is a turn on in itself for your gf... The brain is everyones biggest sex organ... sometimes if an IDEA is vivid enough, that's all it takes.

What I'm saying is this, if she's turned on by you forcing her to submit to your desires, then you won't have to have any foreplay type activities to get her ready... As soon as you grab her by the wrists and tell her, "Don't scream or you'll be sorry..." I can almost gasurantee she will be more than ready... because she'll realize two things... she's getting screwed whether she wants it or not, and you love her enough to give her something she's asked for...

I would suggest this though, because you seem to be sweet and caring, one who stops when she says "no", Have her pick out a safeword... one like "tomato" that you wouldn't normally say during sex... or in case she's somehow unable to talk...;) a signal like holding up her pinky finger or flipping a bird. That way YOU know that until she gives the signal any begging, pleading, or using the word "no" is just part of the game. Get that squared away first...

Then don't say "hey baby, I'm gonna rape you tonite so get ready..." Just get your safeword settled on and then don't mention her fantasy again... just spring it on her.

Maybe call and tell her your gonna be late or something... (having made sure you can get into her house somehow... if you live together no prob, if not you could always get there, duct tape the thingy (on the side of the door) so the door won't lock when it closes and tell her you need to go get something from the store...) then go out to your car and drive away... park a block away... grab a mask or whatever so she can't see your face, then go back and give her her fantasy... when she hears your voice she'll know it's you and then things will get hot hot hot...

I wish that a BF would be willing to play those kinds of games with me...:rolleyes:
 
Re: Raw Sex, thats what I'm talking about.

HeidiManshankVA said:


Just a guess but it sounds like she wants a guy to take charge. To love her erotically and passionately without hesitation.

Oh wait, maybe thats me*L*

Hmm, where have I been all your life? (or did I get that the wrong way around?):confused:
 
Re: Re: Raw Sex, thats what I'm talking about.

gothedistance said:


Hmm, where have I been all your life? (or did I get that the wrong way around?):confused:

I don't know where you've been all my life but I know where you weren't this morning ... you hussy! :p
 
Safe word is a great Idea!!!!! Do this up front!! ( see Lilpriss? you aint is dumb as every body says you are.)

heres an idea. when yall go to sleep make sure she wears something you can tair off her. An old t shirt or some thing. Then, in the mornin before she wakes up, tie her hands up to the bed post. Then eat her pussy till she wakes up and then Fuck her silly for a while..... be sure to jake off about an hr before hand thus you can really fuck her for a long time. ok?
 
Most

I hear it a lot, most women are attracted to the idea of being forced on in a playful way. I definately find that arousing but my boyfriend is also kind of turned off by it, ill see if I can get it around him sometime.
 
lilpriss said:
Yellow, this is just my opinion, but the IDEA of submitting to forced sex is a turn on in itself for your gf... The brain is everyones biggest sex organ... sometimes if an IDEA is vivid enough, that's all it takes.

What I'm saying is this, if she's turned on by you forcing her to submit to your desires, then you won't have to have any foreplay type activities to get her ready... As soon as you grab her by the wrists and tell her, "Don't scream or you'll be sorry..." I can almost gasurantee she will be more than ready... because she'll realize two things... she's getting screwed whether she wants it or not, and you love her enough to give her something she's asked for...

I would suggest this though, because you seem to be sweet and caring, one who stops when she says "no", Have her pick out a safeword... one like "tomato" that you wouldn't normally say during sex... or in case she's somehow unable to talk...;) a signal like holding up her pinky finger or flipping a bird. That way YOU know that until she gives the signal any begging, pleading, or using the word "no" is just part of the game. Get that squared away first...

Then don't say "hey baby, I'm gonna rape you tonite so get ready..." Just get your safeword settled on and then don't mention her fantasy again... just spring it on her.

Maybe call and tell her your gonna be late or something... (having made sure you can get into her house somehow... if you live together no prob, if not you could always get there, duct tape the thingy (on the side of the door) so the door won't lock when it closes and tell her you need to go get something from the store...) then go out to your car and drive away... park a block away... grab a mask or whatever so she can't see your face, then go back and give her her fantasy... when she hears your voice she'll know it's you and then things will get hot hot hot...

I wish that a BF would be willing to play those kinds of games with me...:rolleyes:
My wife likes those sort of games but a way of forewarining her is to make a couple of obscene phonecalls to her epsecially if she cant talk back pretend you're someone else and warn her you'll expect her to want you to service her and good luck dont forget the hotter and sweatier it gets the more fun it is.
 
A girl I was dating for a while wanted to have a fantasy rape session. We had had some pretty rough sex, so I knew she was up to it. I told her to leave her front door unlocked for a week (she lives in a very safe neighborhood) and wear either nothing or clothes she doesn't care about to bed. She knew it was coming that week, but not what day. I went into her house, and woke her up with a hand over her mouth and a whisper in her ear, "make a sound and you're dead." I pulled off her blankets, and literally ripped off her panties. She struggled a little, but it was fairly easy to have my way with her. When I was done, I said "thanks" and got up and left.

I came back 5 minutes later, climed in bed with her and cuddled with her. She was quite shooken up, but in a good way. She thanked me probably 5 or 6 times.

This scene is pretty extreme and I think many women couldn't handle the how realistic it was, but I knew her and where she was at. It was very rewarding for her and brought us even closer then we were.
 
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