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If I'm ever reincarnated as an animal, I want to be as high up on the food chain as possible.....:D
 
I've been on this site a pretty long time. A majority (maybe even a large one) seem to understand and subscribe to the dom/sub thing -- people i came to know well included. It's so common and circumscribing that even people who don't lean one way or the other seem to exist within its spectrum, grading themselves as mildly one way or the other... Or even vanilla.

Truth be told, I've never once really understood it. I've been told I'm something. And I would just believe it in the same way that I would believe I have high cholesterol when a doctor told me. at this point, I'm starting to feel like it's negligent to ignore it all. It's never once come up in my real life relationships. But I'm honestly unsure whether it's because it doesn't matter to us or because we're both oblivious to very apparent signals and/or signs.

Regardless, it's a little unforgiveable that I've been here this long, among many who so fully believe in whatever it all is, and know so little.

I just kind of needed to ramble on about it a bit.
 
NeonSubtlety said:
I've been told I'm something.
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I enjoyed reading your ramble, and this part really stuck out to me. I've been doing BDSM sorta stuff seriously for about 4 years, and I've found people that label me generally really want me to be whatever the label they decide to bestow upon me. I've had doms tell me I'm a sub, subs tell me I must be their dom... It always seems to be about them.

I have about 17 labels (slight exaggeration), and I've found it easier just to say what I am. Or, say fuck labels, and enjoy what you like.

Sorry for butting in, but I thought it was interesting. :rose:
 
Thank you for the input and consideration. It's really just a little venting.

I've always been a "fuck it" type. But, when things keep knocking at your door, you eventually have to answer, right? It's probably just a lawn care service. But maybe it's publisher's clearing house. I think it's time I finally answer the door.
 
NeonSubtlety said:
Thank you for the input and consideration. It's really just a little venting.

I've always been a "fuck it" type. But, when things keep knocking at your door, you eventually have to answer, right? It's probably just a lawn care service. But maybe it's publisher's clearing house. I think it's time I finally answer the door.
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If you're curious about finding out more, I'd suggest Fetlife's Novices & Newbies group. You do have to make an account, but it's the best online resource I've ever found.

May there be giant checks and balloons in your future, if that's the right path for you. :rose:
 
I'm not sure if I'm ready to jump in there just yet. I'll probably just be a little more proactive around here picking up on the basics. It's not even for me. I'm so easily contented that I can't imagine working to make myself so. More than anything, I'm a little paranoid that I'm missing telltale signs that the person I'm with (or the people I've been with) needed some part of them understood and satiated.

Balloons are relative, though. Balloons and confetti, for me, might just be knowing one way or the other.
 
So many choices. So many decisions. So many directions. I'm lost. I can see down many roads but not far enought to choose one.
 
Why is it you have to scratch in the most inconvenient place just as the elevator doors are opening?
 
What should I make with our left over ham

Grilled eggplant & wild mushroom salad or cheesy scalloped potatoes ??
Or both

L:rose:
 
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